Background importance in relationships... (126)
I will be very gentle with your first forum and honestly express my opinion. I totally agree with background check in relationship, as well as mental check up. By doing so, divorce lawyers and court judges will remain out of job, because less job for them.
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MiguelUknow: I'm glad to see you start making some thread(s) Krema. I've read many comments by you and there is something about the honesty that comes out in your posts that I enjoy. I think the fact you are eastern European
only adds to your mystique. I personally don't go looking for too many skeletons, and hope no one looks in my closet.
Thank you, Miguel!only adds to your mystique. I personally don't go looking for too many skeletons, and hope no one looks in my closet.
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Ano751: I will be very gentle with your first forum and honestly express my opinion. I totally agree with background check in relationship, as well as mental check up. By doing so, divorce lawyers and court judges will remain out of job, because less job for them.
I actually know people who did a check up on potential partners background and the results were mildly said disturbing...
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A big "Thank you" to all who took part in my first thread, apology if I didn't reply to everyone individually...
And as you have been gentle too I might actually like it and keep on posting threads...
No, that's not a threat...
And as you have been gentle too I might actually like it and keep on posting threads...
No, that's not a threat...
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Track16: Pretty much right, but just to note, there are lots of "questionable" people who come from good backgrounds too. I personally know several of people who grew up in good families who turned out to be the worst kind of people (addicts, thieves, more addicts). Your background is a part of you but you don't have to be limited to it.
Yes, Track you are right, I missed the other way round...as we said in the beginning there is kind of programming set into everyone... And when something cause it to trigger all comes out and it it usually comes out of the blue for the people around you...The good family often haves the wrong ingredients, over spoiling, emotionally cold parents, care but not love, lack of attention and intimacy...
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pKrema: Yes, this is my first ever thread, so, please, be gentle...
How important is your potential partner's background?
Do you believe that despite the present social status of the person, sooner or later his original background self shows up...and blows it in your face...?
Have you ever been rejected or avoided because of your background?
I have been overlooked, rejected and avoided...
Have fun...!
I expect most women , especially on dating sites, reject men from poorer countries .How important is your potential partner's background?
Do you believe that despite the present social status of the person, sooner or later his original background self shows up...and blows it in your face...?
Have you ever been rejected or avoided because of your background?
I have been overlooked, rejected and avoided...
Have fun...!
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One2note: I expect most women , especially on dating sites, reject men from poorer countries .
There are many people in those poor countries who actually live better than many average people in first world countries...I guess it's the culture and mentality that are the deal breaker, than the financial issues...
At least it's that for me...
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pKrema: There are many people in those poor countries who actually live better than many average people in first world countries...
I guess it's the culture and mentality that are the deal breaker, than the financial issues...
At least it's that for me...
So basically, you've answered your own question.I guess it's the culture and mentality that are the deal breaker, than the financial issues...
At least it's that for me...
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One2note: So basically, you've answered your own question.
I thought I am answering your question... ------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: I thought I am answering your question...
If you look at the bigger picture, women in their late teens & early 20s, generally don't see the problems that lay ahead, in as far as compatibility is concerned but when they hit their late 20s & early 30s, & their maternal instincts start kicking in , they look for a man with the sufficient qualities to give them the stability of family life .------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: If you look at the bigger picture, women in their late teens & early 20s, generally don't see the problems that lay ahead, in as far as compatibility is concerned but when they hit their late 20s & early 30s, & their maternal instincts start kicking in , they look for a man with the sufficient qualities to give them the stability of family life .
If you read the previous posts you will see we spoke about that already...Yes, when we are younger we tend to find it very romantic to go against our instincts...
I am not sure about the maternal instincts kicking tho, many women don't have then till after they become mothers...
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pKrema: If you read the previous posts you will see we spoke about that already...
Yes, when we are younger we tend to find it very romantic to go against our instincts...
I am not sure about the maternal instincts kicking tho, many women don't have then till after they become mothers...
My point being , people date all kinds of people from different backgrounds in their early experimental years but when it comes to settling down, other factors come into consideration.Yes, when we are younger we tend to find it very romantic to go against our instincts...
I am not sure about the maternal instincts kicking tho, many women don't have then till after they become mothers...
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One2note: My point being , people date all kinds of people from different backgrounds in their early experimental years but when it comes to settling down, other factors come into consideration.
Exactly, but still many would disagree, it's not cool to be selective...judgmental or whatever it's called ... 
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pKrema: Exactly, but still many would disagree, it's not cool to be selective...judgmental or whatever it's called ...
Being uncool is the new cool , from what I gather !!------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: Exactly, but still many would disagree, it's not cool to be selective...judgmental or whatever it's called ...
Having a good, solid, compatible relationship is of much more importance than being 'cool" in the eyes of the world.------ This thread is Archived ------
mollybaby: Having a good, solid, compatible relationship is of much more importance than being 'cool" in the eyes of the world.
Absolutely, Molly, people seem to be afraid of presenting the wrong image by showing, in other words "common sense"...------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: That's not cool...
I'll try to live with their disappointment 
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One2note: Being uncool is the new cool , from what I gather !!
What I have gathered is the more people try to look different the more they end up looking the same...------ This thread is Archived ------
mollybaby: I'll try to live with their disappointment
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How important is your potential partner's background?
Do you believe that despite the present social status of the person, sooner or later his original background self shows up...and blows it in your face...?
Have you ever been rejected or avoided because of your background?
I have been overlooked, rejected and avoided...
Have fun...!
only adds to your mystique. I personally don't go looking for too many skeletons, and hope no one looks in my closet.