If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it? ( Archived) (53)

Apr 22, 2019 12:25 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
smiley963: Pardon me?
Saved you?
No, don't do life-guard...
How are you?
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Apr 22, 2019 12:28 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
smiley963: Pardon me?
Saved you?
No, don't do life-guard...
pardon?. Did i say something mean with out realizing it again. .....

Yea, like- i was drowning and, i was saved?
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Apr 22, 2019 12:50 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
InstincThis: pardon?. Did i say something mean with out realizing it again. .....

Yea, like- i was drowning and, i was saved?
I'm glad...If I was there I would have saved you too...
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Apr 22, 2019 3:22 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
smiley963: I'm glad...If I was there I would have saved you too...
There is a saying that:
You will only know what it feels like, if someone does it to do...and you get to feel it!!!!
No alcohol or drugs.

Unfortunately it will not happen soon!!!
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Apr 22, 2019 3:31 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
smiley963: There is a saying that:
You will only know what it feels like, if someone does it to do...and you get to feel it!!!!
No alcohol or drugs.

Unfortunately it will not happen soon!!!
When you are pestered, and abused:
You wish the perpetrator just to vanish,
But that really is wish-full thinking...
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Apr 22, 2019 11:44 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
there are no posts that hurt my psyche but I can give as good as I get...now I may choose to respond or not it really depends....and people chose to spread stuff about me....the ones who know would either ask or already know me better than whatever someone chose to spread...in other words I don't care....someone elses version of me comes from their own head and has nothing to do with me....wave
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Apr 22, 2019 11:46 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
M4_Mischief: there are no posts that hurt my psyche but I can give as good as I get...now I may choose to respond or not it really depends....and people chose to spread stuff about me....the ones who know would either ask or already know me better than whatever someone chose to spread...in other words I don't care....someone elses version of me comes from their own head and has nothing to do with me....
I like your approach...
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Apr 22, 2019 11:55 PM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
it took me awhile to get there but I am finally there and its a good place to be.....bouquet
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Apr 23, 2019 2:01 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
M4_Mischief: it took me awhile to get there but I am finally there and its a good place to be.....
.........your looking we!ll...Mrs magoolips lips rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 23, 2019 3:56 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
its like looking at a bog, you never know what disgusting thing is going to float up and sink back down. you know whos poor bog for a brain.doh
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Apr 23, 2019 5:40 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
cubcougar73
cubcougar73cubcougar73Redding, California USA17 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
ahhhhh ... go to the hospital and take benzodiapines to shut my brain off ... makes me normal then and the severely damaged psyche is never minded.. Better living through modern chemistry.

There was no collusion and there can be no obstruction for stopping a witch hunt of lies .. Russia is friend who listens and nothing like Iran. Only person who died is Kashoggi and he is not even an American.

dancing
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Apr 23, 2019 5:49 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
smiley963: In the Forums, people sometimes aims to hurt and severely damage your psyche, due to jealousy, being hurt by something like-wise, just being nasty, etc. How do you react?

Most will return the post in kind, while others will cringe and remove themselves. Then you have the serial Back-Stabbers. What do you do with someone spreading hate of you where-ever they go? I guess you can return it in kind as well, but not very advisable. Now here comes the convenient Ignore Button, between your ears. You do a U-Turn where-ever they are. You see nothing, you comprehend nothing, you have suddenly completely gone simple-minded. Does this work in the long-run, is the question?

You have Carte Blanche...
If I questioned your bizarre use of the word 'psyche' would I, umm... hurt your feelings?
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Apr 23, 2019 7:08 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
Bandit_Geezer
Bandit_GeezerBandit_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA6 Threads 1,483 Posts
I cry. crying
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Apr 23, 2019 7:23 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
MisterForYou: If I questioned your bizarre use of the word 'psyche' would I, umm... hurt your feelings?
laugh
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Apr 23, 2019 8:00 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
smiley963: In the Forums, people sometimes aims to hurt and severely damage your psyche, due to jealousy, being hurt by something like-wise, just being nasty, etc. How do you react?

Most will return the post in kind, while others will cringe and remove themselves. Then you have the serial Back-Stabbers. What do you do with someone spreading hate of you where-ever they go? I guess you can return it in kind as well, but not very advisable. Now here comes the convenient Ignore Button, between your ears. You do a U-Turn where-ever they are. You see nothing, you comprehend nothing, you have suddenly completely gone simple-minded. Does this work in the long-run, is the question?

You have Carte Blanche...
I'll bring my James Bond, and fix it
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Apr 23, 2019 8:21 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Bandit_Geezer: I cry.
Do men still cry?
I cry during a tragic movie!!!
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Apr 23, 2019 8:22 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
methuzelah: I'll bring my James Bond, and fix it
You are so sweet...
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Apr 23, 2019 11:40 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
smiley963: In the Forums, people sometimes aims to hurt and severely damage your psyche, due to jealousy, being hurt by something like-wise, just being nasty, etc. How do you react?

Most will return the post in kind, while others will cringe and remove themselves. Then you have the serial Back-Stabbers. What do you do with someone spreading hate of you where-ever they go? I guess you can return it in kind as well, but not very advisable. Now here comes the convenient Ignore Button, between your ears. You do a U-Turn where-ever they are. You see nothing, you comprehend nothing, you have suddenly completely gone simple-minded. Does this work in the long-run, is the question?

You have Carte Blanche...
I react nicely, although - to be honest - I started to lose patience for all those weird people sneaking around virtual reality - forums, social media - just to spread hate or fight or insult someone.

The other day I was chatting on some thread of a local forum, when a man jumped in and started insulting and swearing like crazy. He didn't like what we were talking about and - instead of saying that in some normal manner - he started acting like some lunatic. Just a day before that event he was writing a comment after comment how people had become impolite and rude and uncivilized. And then he behaved just the same as the ones he had previously criticized!

I was so angry that I asked him if he spoke like that in real life, too, or pretended to be nice and polite (one of the "civilized ones" he was so eagerly talking about) while using us (his forum "buddies") as a trash can for his anger and rage. He didn't reply, just went away. But I got really really upset. It happened 3 days ago and I'm still upset.

Something like that can ruin your day on a place where you came to have some fun, chat and relax.
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Apr 23, 2019 11:45 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Bellanna: I react nicely, although - to be honest - I started to lose patience for all those weird people sneaking around virtual reality - forums, social media - just to spread hate or fight or insult someone.

The other day I was chatting on some thread of a local forum, when a man jumped in and started insulting and swearing like crazy. He didn't like what we were talking about and - instead of saying that in some normal manner - he started acting like some lunatic. Just a day before that event he was writing a comment after comment how people had become impolite and rude and uncivilized. And then he behaved just the same as the ones he had previously criticized!

I was so angry that I asked him if he spoke like that in real life, too, or pretended to be nice and polite (one of the "civilized ones" he was so eagerly talking about) while using us (his forum "buddies") as a trash can for his anger and rage. He didn't reply, just went away. But I got really really upset. It happened 3 days ago and I'm still upset.

Something like that can ruin your day on a place where you came to have some fun, chat and relax.
You will find a lot of people "mirroring", as they will accuse you of their habits and actions. It is a very well-known psychological fact, and the ones complaining the most, are the ones most at fault. Those are the exact types I ignore!!!!
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Apr 23, 2019 11:50 AM CST If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
Girlishgiggle
GirlishgiggleGirlishgiggleBlairgowrie, Central, Scotland UK87 Posts
smiley963: In the Forums, people sometimes aims to hurt and severely damage your psyche, due to jealousy, being hurt by something like-wise, just being nasty, etc. How do you react?

Most will return the post in kind, while others will cringe and remove themselves. Then you have the serial Back-Stabbers. What do you do with someone spreading hate of you where-ever they go? I guess you can return it in kind as well, but not very advisable. Now here comes the convenient Ignore Button, between your ears. You do a U-Turn where-ever they are. You see nothing, you comprehend nothing, you have suddenly completely gone simple-minded. Does this work in the long-run, is the question?

You have Carte Blanche...
I would ignore it as I do with many things that I don't like of this world, it is about keeping me safe yay
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