Although weirdly I would argue that there's illusionary blind luck. He's clearly done a lot right but he seemignly has no idea doesn't know what that is, it's almost like you've ended up in bed together by mistake. Play dumb, dumb luck. Around women you can either be happy or you can be right.
ChesneyChrist: Although weirdly I would argue that there's illusionary blind luck. He's clearly done a lot right but he seemignly has no idea doesn't know what that is, it's almost like you've ended up in bed together by mistake. Play dumb, dumb luck. Around women you can either be happy or you can be right.
ChesneyChrist: Although weirdly I would argue that there's illusionary blind luck. He's clearly done a lot right but he seemignly has no idea doesn't know what that is, it's almost like you've ended up in bed together by mistake. Play dumb, dumb luck. Around women you can either be happy or you can be right.
How do you get any responses to your comments if you speak in riddles? The problem you have is, your mind works so fast, by the time you come to textulise it in a post, it's 5 pages ahead of the current commentary.
Merit is basically too pushy, too trying to get somewhere. You can be something you're not and make it on merit. The reason she doesn't want to see - or anybody wants to see - you applauding yourself is not just because that's hollow but because it's trying too hard. Here's a guy who will only say what he thinks I want to hear, lucky is not how he feels at all.
As a rule of thumb the hotter the woman, the less you aim to please her. Although the reverse is true for a different reason.
The stiffest competition comes from a woman at or slightly beneath your own league. In the first instance that woman is neither grateful for you or in need of a great counterbalancing disservice that allows you to stoop beneath her own standards.
ChesneyChrist: As a rule of thumb the hotter the woman, the less you aim to please her. Although the reverse is true for a different reason.
The stiffest competition comes from a woman at or slightly beneath your own league. In the first instance that woman is neither grateful for you or in need of a great counterbalancing disservice that allows you to stoop beneath her own standards.
It may be your rule of thumb, but to lesser mortals it's the opposite. Historically, men have always fawned and kissed the ring of those more beautiful than the rest. If it wasn't so, the prince would have settled for one of the ugly sisters, and not wasted his time searching for Cinderella. She had no money anyway.
ChesneyChrist: And for that reason I recommend you marry the woman at or slightly beneath your league. Never make it easy for a man neither.
This is probably sage advice, but none of us take it. We are always playing way out of our league. Most of us don't even realise it. It's like fishing. If you stay out there and troll your bait long enough, some fool fish will take it long after it's sell-by date.
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