yeah, I’m thinkin’...but I’m a little confused. (It’s totally unnecessary for him to be saying that—-perhaps just not ready to face the music, but likes the choreography, anyway?
May be all the while the attention he was receiving was "gender neutral" he was enjoying it yet the moment it was about to become a deeply more gender specific exchange he realised that's where his boundary was... … for now anyway
...doing a little “window-shopping..??” I’m going to see him again-we connected big time, and he’s very sweet. I’m just a little confused...he let me get FAR...(straight guy would have drawn the line MUCH sooner..) and, like I said, we talked on the phone that evening and he said, “ I’m looking forward to seeing you. Yeah, actually I can’t WAIT to see you”...hmmm...do you see why I’m a little asea on this?
rohaan: ...doing a little “window-shopping..??” I’m going to see him again-we connected big time, and he’s very sweet. I’m just a little confused...he let me get FAR...(straight guy would have drawn the line MUCH sooner..) and, like I said, we talked on the phone that evening and he said, “ I’m looking forward to seeing you. Yeah, actually I can’t WAIT to see you”...hmmm...do you see why I’m a little asea on this?
(Damn, do I have to do ALL the bloody work?!)
Sounds like you will have to do ALL the bloody work!!! A least till the point of no return
tomcatty: why do you ask everyone to define everything?????
Because many people understand words and expressions to mean something different and then you end up having a conversation at cross purposes … Sometimes the different possible meanings are used by people to stir up trouble and create bad vibes and upset others which comes as a great surprise to you I'm sure
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