Nules: Like Lose their identity or who they really are or their opinions or their voice! That’s just a few and I am speaking about both females and males.
The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage …. Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up
Selenite: The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage …. Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up
That was a really good lesson
That’s a cruel lesson Selenite Something like that happened to my next door neighbour, only she died not leaving a will, but had got an English divorce 30 odd years ago and when divorce came to Ireland never legalised her divorce, she passed away from cancer and her ex came back and claimed his share of her estate. He walked away with €500,000 even though he was married with 2 kids in England.
Selenite: The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage …. Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up
One2note: So , everything people do for love is negative. I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
Sorry I wasn’t being negative, it’s just the thread stated “ I was so super dumb” and then things we do for love! I totally agree there are many positive ladies to love too!
Nules: That’s a cruel lesson Selenite Something like that happened to my next door neighbour, only she died not leaving a will, but had got an English divorce 30 odd years ago and when divorce came to Ireland never legalised her divorce, she passed away from cancer and her ex came back and claimed his share of her estate. He walked away with €500,000 even though he was married with 2 kids in England.
Wow! That was a harsh thing!!!
At least when my divorce was settled I made sure there was a clause saying that not ever under any circumstances could any further claims be made against one another which suited me fine as it protected me...
Still, all water under the bridge now! If you start over once, you can start over twice! With a lot more insight
At least when my divorce was settled I made sure there was a clause saying that not ever under any circumstances could any further claims be made against one another which suited me fine as it protected me...
Still, all water under the bridge now! If you start over once, you can start over twice! With a lot more insight
as my granny had a saying “ fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!” Hindsight is an asset really. Here’s a hug from me to you for being an amazing person in my eyes
Nules: Sorry I wasn’t being negative, it’s just the thread stated “ I was so super dumb” and then things we do for love! I totally agree there are many positive ladies to love too!
All I see is negativity on the forums , with the exception of one or two .. Don’t become one of them , or you’ll be deported to the USA and be sentenced to live with bacon for your punishment
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