I was so Super Dumb ( Archived) (101)

Oct 6, 2020 2:14 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Bubilu
BubiluBubiluPRETORIA, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 2 Posts
Things people do for 'love'...
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Oct 6, 2020 2:30 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Bubilu: Things people do for 'love'...
Yeah, let's have the whole list!
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Oct 6, 2020 3:14 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
Bubilu: Things people do for 'love'...
Like
Lose their identity or who they really are or their opinions or their voice!
That’s just a few and I am speaking about both females and males.
conversing
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Oct 6, 2020 3:18 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Nules: Like
Lose their identity or who they really are or their opinions or their voice!
That’s just a few and I am speaking about both females and males.
Do you know her ?
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Oct 6, 2020 3:20 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
One2note: Do you know her ?
No but why do you ask?conversing
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Oct 6, 2020 3:22 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Nules: No but why do you ask?
I asked because of your reply .. I assumed you knew her .
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Oct 6, 2020 3:24 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
One2note: I asked because of your reply .. I assumed you knew her .
Ok no worries conversing
I was listing thing people do supposedly for love, that’s all!wave
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Oct 6, 2020 3:24 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage ….
Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up doh doh doh

That was a really good lesson laugh
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Oct 6, 2020 3:29 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Bubilu: Things people do for 'love'...
1. When their love isn't required, they don't insist. They step away and let the loved one be.
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Oct 6, 2020 3:30 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
Selenite: The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage ….
Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up

That was a really good lesson
That’s a cruel lesson Selenite teddybear
Something like that happened to my next door neighbour, only she died not leaving a will, but had got an English divorce 30 odd years ago and when divorce came to Ireland never legalised her divorce, she passed away from cancer and her ex came back and claimed his share of her estate. He walked away with €500,000 even though he was married with 2 kids in England.
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Oct 6, 2020 3:30 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Nules: Ok no worries
I was listing thing people do supposedly for love, that’s all!
So , everything people do for love is negative.
I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
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Oct 6, 2020 3:34 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
GeneralBeacon
GeneralBeaconGeneralBeaconNew York, USA2,381 Posts
Selenite: The dumbest thing I ever did for love was put the house I was buying in "both our names" so that his ego would not be hurt by the fact the mortgage was obtained on my wages and I was paying the mortgage ….
Roll on 6 years and I handed over 50 000 because the house was in both our names when we split up

That was a really good lesson
Wanna get married? laugh
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Oct 6, 2020 3:37 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
One2note: So , everything people do for love is negative.
I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
Sorry I wasn’t being negative, it’s just the thread stated “ I was so super dumb” and then things we do for love!
I totally agree there are many positive ladies to love too!
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Oct 6, 2020 3:37 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
One2note: So , everything people do for love is negative.
I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
Go on then..drinking
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Oct 6, 2020 3:38 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Nules: That’s a cruel lesson Selenite
Something like that happened to my next door neighbour, only she died not leaving a will, but had got an English divorce 30 odd years ago and when divorce came to Ireland never legalised her divorce, she passed away from cancer and her ex came back and claimed his share of her estate. He walked away with €500,000 even though he was married with 2 kids in England.
Wow! That was a harsh thing!!! wow

At least when my divorce was settled I made sure there was a clause saying that not ever under any circumstances could any further claims be made against one another which suited me fine as it protected me...

Still, all water under the bridge now! If you start over once, you can start over twice! With a lot more insight
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Oct 6, 2020 3:39 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
One2note: So , everything people do for love is negative.
I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
No!
Only the dumb things we do for love are negative!! laugh
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Oct 6, 2020 3:40 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
Cancel that list, here's a song instead..grin
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Oct 6, 2020 3:40 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
One2note: So , everything people do for love is negative.
I can list many positives that outweigh the negatives, in the name of love .
There are no negatives in real love.
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Oct 6, 2020 3:41 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
Nules
NulesNulesDublin, Ireland617 Posts
Selenite: Wow! That was a harsh thing!!!

At least when my divorce was settled I made sure there was a clause saying that not ever under any circumstances could any further claims be made against one another which suited me fine as it protected me...

Still, all water under the bridge now! If you start over once, you can start over twice! With a lot more insight
as my granny had a saying “ fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!” Hindsight is an asset really.
Here’s a hug from me to you for being an amazing person in my eyesteddybear hug
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Oct 6, 2020 3:41 PM CST I was so Super Dumb
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Nules: Sorry I wasn’t being negative, it’s just the thread stated “ I was so super dumb” and then things we do for love!
I totally agree there are many positive ladies to love too!
All I see is negativity on the forums , with the exception of one or two .. Don’t become one of them , or you’ll be deported to the USA and be sentenced to live with bacon for your punishment scold
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