GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why? (40)

Dec 5, 2022 4:10 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
bodleing2: If the distance was far enough to require an overnight stop, I would expect to be invited to stop over.
OK.hmmm
Dec 5, 2022 4:18 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Didi7: OK.
It happened with a long standing, well liked member on here, the same arrangement was expected when she visited me. Both of us had spare bedrooms and we both respected each other. We still remain good friends.
Dec 5, 2022 4:24 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
bodleing2: It happened with a long standing, well liked member on here, the same arrangement was expected when she visited me. Both of us had spare bedrooms and we both respected each other. We still remain good friends.
Perfect! That's what everyone hopes for, I think. Thanks for sharing Bod.wine
Dec 5, 2022 7:26 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Well, I never got such a chance in my life but if I ever get a chance like this I would love to meet her at my home with all my family members or at her home with all her family members.
Dec 6, 2022 1:06 AM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Butcher559
Butcher559Butcher559Whangarei, Northland New Zealand13 Threads 1 Polls 750 Posts
d4nI314: Butch!!!

I was going to agree with your comment up till.......well, you know.

However, knowing you like I do, I know you didn't mean it.

Anyway, let's talk about Spain and the "exotic" food...
Vegetarian dishes are ok, aren't they?

Many B&B here too.
Also bikes to hire.
Could go to Red Bull FMX show in Spain to Dani, but it's not the same as the Bull Fights..
I don't know what Northern hemisphere vegetables are like Dani, all kiwis say the food is rubbish in the Northern hemisphere to Artificial apparently..
Dec 6, 2022 1:56 AM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
d4nI314
d4nI314d4nI314Planet Earth, Valencia Spain7 Threads 453 Posts
Butcher559: Could go to Red Bull FMX show in Spain to Dani, but it's not the same as the Bull Fights..
I don't know what Northern hemisphere vegetables are like Dani, all kiwis say the food is rubbish in the Northern hemisphere to Artificial apparently..
I wouldn't trust the kiwis if I were you, Butch. scold

We also have mangos here, olives, papaya, some fruit from cactus etc...
In my garden I have nispero and lemon trees.

You'll have to come and see for yourself. dunno
Dec 6, 2022 11:34 AM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Butcher559
Butcher559Butcher559Whangarei, Northland New Zealand13 Threads 1 Polls 750 Posts
d4nI314: I wouldn't trust the kiwis if I were you, Butch.

We also have mangos here, olives, papaya, some fruit from cactus etc...
In my garden I have nispero and lemon trees.

You'll have to come and see for yourself.
Do you grow Setva or Steva in your garden Dani, its a sugar substitute ?
I think the poor food quality comes from the polluted atmosphere in the northern hemisphere, with the 90 odd % of industry that happens up there..
My brother said the Mc Dee's in Europe isn't the same as NZ Mc Dee's, its taste like its been scraped of a worse floor than in NZ,, He said the Coke taste like it been mopped up off the same floor though.
Dec 6, 2022 11:41 AM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Butcher559
Butcher559Butcher559Whangarei, Northland New Zealand13 Threads 1 Polls 750 Posts
I could do a trip to the West Indies/Caribbean D, i'd go to Bob Marley's house to smoke some pot, drink some rum and listen to a few Bob Tunes..
Excuse me while i lite my spliff, Spliff.. Oh God i gota take a lift.. head banger
Oh and show the Indies boys my cricket skills..
Dec 6, 2022 12:40 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
d4nI314
d4nI314d4nI314Planet Earth, Valencia Spain7 Threads 453 Posts
Butcher559: Do you grow Setva or Steva in your garden Dani, its a sugar substitute ?
I think the poor food quality comes from the polluted atmosphere in the northern hemisphere, with the 90 odd % of industry that happens up there..
My brother said the Mc Dee's in Europe isn't the same as NZ Mc Dee's, its taste like its been scraped of a worse floor than in NZ,, He said the Coke taste like it been mopped up off the same floor though.
You mean STEVIA?
No, I don't grow it but I always have some organic one in the house.

I try to get home grown food whenever I can.

I can't do anything about the soil quality though.

I do have some plants I grow in pots though..
Tomatoes, basil, thyme, rosemary, cilantro...
And a San Pedro cactus - gift from someone.
Dec 6, 2022 2:37 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Didi7: Scenario:

You've connected with someone on a dating site from another country, and, after some time, agreed to meet the person. Whilst making arrangements, the question arose about where you should stay during your visit. Would you have a problem staying at a nearby Hotel/BnB?

You've already been offered airport pick-up (and drop-off, too), as well as to be taken on brief tours around the area/beach, etc, and he/she has even offered to cook for you (to minimize cost and ensure that you have a fun time, even if you don't 'click' as a couple).

So, would you have a problem with this arrangement? I'd appreciate your candid opinions. Thanks, in advance men. teddybear
It’s happened to me & she jumped me at the first available opportunity.
Dec 6, 2022 2:53 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Grandsiozzie: Probably is... lol.
Agree, large difference. And why wait so long anyway.
The majority have waited years , even decades in fact .
If they are not virgins, then they have nothing to loose .
Dec 6, 2022 2:56 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Youcannow: The majority have waited years , even decades in fact .
If they are not virgins, then they have nothing to loose .
Good grin thumbs up
Dec 6, 2022 3:42 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
No not really. What it means is the wimms may jump to bed early too. By some reason.
Maybe the reason cannow laid out, idk. However, I see no problem innit.
Is the weaiting there to pretend we are virgins?
Dec 6, 2022 3:42 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Didi7: She must have been very h*rny, so she just couldn't resist. I hope you enjoyed it as much she did.
The fist 15/20 times it was ok , but after that , it became repetitive.
Dec 6, 2022 3:51 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Youcannow: The fist 15/20 times it was ok , but after that , it became repetitive.
laugh Of course it did.
Dec 6, 2022 3:55 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Grandsiozzie: No not really. What it means is the wimms may jump to bed early too. By some reason.
Maybe the reason cannow laid out, idk. However, I see no problem innit.
Is the weaiting there to pretend we are virgins?
I could be wrong, but I think the waiting is to figure out if you 'click' (with each other), and in some cases if you're worth it. Just my opinion...
Dec 6, 2022 4:07 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Wait.... the thread said Gentlemen only??? ooops...
Okay I'm ouuta here.... grin wave
Dec 6, 2022 5:03 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
Didi7: Scenario:

You've connected with someone on a dating site from another country, and, after some time, agreed to meet the person. Whilst making arrangements, the question arose about where you should stay during your visit. Would you have a problem staying at a nearby Hotel/BnB?

You've already been offered airport pick-up (and drop-off, too), as well as to be taken on brief tours around the area/beach, etc, and he/she has even offered to cook for you (to minimize cost and ensure that you have a fun time, even if you don't 'click' as a couple).

So, would you have a problem with this arrangement? I'd appreciate your candid opinions. Thanks, in advance men. teddybear
easy answer for me. i don't even like staying with relatives when i visit them. i generally get a motel or maybe a rental of some sort depending on how long the stay is expected to be.

i keep a vrbo account. no idea if it goes international or not. i suppose if such a scenario ever happens, i'll have the luck of finding out. like a home away from home to a large degree.

the bigger question i consider to be? would i let them stay with me at my choice of rental if they chose? there is a two way possibility minimum here. by being away, it may also afford an opportunity for them to be away from their norms as well; of things go well.

the worries are potentailly the same. druggie? psychotic? alcoholic? organ harvester? black widow seeking another prospect? i'm certain there's a quite a list we could all make together full of negatives.

negatives are a possibility, not always or necessarily going to be the reality.
Dec 6, 2022 5:21 PM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Draegoneer: easy answer for me. i don't even like staying with relatives when i visit them. i generally get a motel or maybe a rental of some sort depending on how long the stay is expected to be.

i keep a vrbo account. no idea if it goes international or not. i suppose if such a scenario ever happens, i'll have the luck of finding out. like a home away from home to a large degree.

the bigger question i consider to be? would i let them stay with me at my choice of rental if they chose? there is a two way possibility minimum here. by being away, it may also afford an opportunity for them to be away from their norms as well; of things go well.

the worries are potentailly the same. druggie? psychotic? alcoholic? organ harvester? black widow seeking another prospect? i'm certain there's a quite a list we could all make together full of negatives.

negatives are a possibility, not always or necessarily going to be the reality.
Thanks for your input, Dragoneer. Your comment about possibly inviting the other party to 'visit' with you at your hotel/motel/BnB, would definitely be a worthwhile option as well.thumbs up
Aug 10, 2023 3:34 AM CST GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?
longterm182
longterm182longterm182Rosarito, Baja California Mexico2 Threads 137 Posts
Usually I stayed at their place, I would look for a candidate that I could stay at her place instead
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