No, that is not all. But just as women have their wish list I have mine, and it goes like this on looks: she has to attract me enough, not more than just enough on the physical side of things. And that usualy means a 6 or higher on the scale from 1 to 10, Be Derek being 10. When it comes to the mind the list of wishes is longer but we don't have to delve into that right now, as physical appearance seems to be the main topic.
pretty-looks attract eyes and pretty-nature attracts heart. looks, attract the eyes instantly but for short period while nature takes time to attract the heart but for long-lasting. I like long-lasting things.
each person is different. involvement will affect all related environments differently on at least both sides.
how can you rightfully place requirements? the level of involvement might be subject to change and circumstance as well.
what type of connection, if any, is being built on? that's a large, determining, factor.
men and women accuse each of being superficial and more. i think that may be possible more in younger years. i don't believe it stays that way in our later ones on the level many might imply.
yes, there are certainly some very "demanding" people out there at all ages. i think i've seen some of the worst and most demanding in online profiles across multiple dating sites over the years.
i can only attest to women's profiles. the ladies would have to elaborate on men's profiles.
Grandsiozzie: No, that is not all. But just as women have their wish list I have mine, and it goes like this on looks: she has to attract me enough, not more than just enough on the physical side of things. And that usualy means a 6 or higher on the scale from 1 to 10, Be Derek being 10. When it comes to the mind the list of wishes is longer but we don't have to delve into that right now, as physical appearance seems to be the main topic.
Now, I believe I'm fairly lenient and accepting, but hairy moles and rotted out teeth are a no-no. And no body crust, pu--leeze--
I'd say they're step one. I and I think most people begin by being physically attracted to someone. If they're not a good person (having good value, sense of humor, intelligence, etc.) then looks won't matter (to me, at least).
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