If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested? ( Archived) (22)

Apr 19, 2007 10:16 AM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Baddabing66
Baddabing66Baddabing66Oceanside, California USA83 Threads 1 Polls 260 Posts
I come upon on other sites ladies who tell me they are to busy, but in reallity they were not intrested in me. I notice they had time for other people, bu not me.
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Apr 19, 2007 1:12 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
exactly.Others will have interest in youconversing
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Apr 19, 2007 1:21 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
if they are interested they'll make time, however some folks have thier lives planned to the extent of day planner and even schedule reminders. so if you are really interested give them some time to 'fit you in" then after that its a matter of time working your way up the speed dial list.
but if you act lkke a attention starved puppy you gonna get shutdown before you even make the" must do list"

Good luck
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Apr 19, 2007 1:26 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Regarding your headline/thread title...No, not necessarily. Some people really ARE busy, and therefore do not have much free time. However, if a lady is really & truly interested in you...she will make time & be willing to put forth effort to give you some time, even if it's a short amount.


Regarding your post...Sounds to me like the person just made up that particular excuse, because yes, they are not interested in you and obviously just didn't want to come out & be honest about it from the get go.
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Apr 19, 2007 1:29 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
actually I'm quite busy especialy in a summer time ... lot's of work ... Sure I'll find some time for someone who i like ... but not much. I can't allow myself to spend whole evening in front of computer or on the phone. So if there is no patients and understanding ... then Bye


Try not to push women ... with hours of converstions and long e-mails.Give them some space .... Respect of time is crucial in relationships
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Apr 19, 2007 1:29 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I'm too busy for my shirt, too busy for my shirt.

Soo busy! banana banana cheering

Other than that little dance, what red said.
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Apr 19, 2007 1:31 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
I work full time, have a farm (do hay, hunt deer, raise beef cows), have two teenage boys, Member of American Legion Auxilliary (SGT at Arms), work with 4-H Beef Committee, demonstrate how to make butter at a local farm show, spend time with family, dance a minimum of two nights a week, I'm an Avon Representative (4th highest new seller in my area), in local theater group chorus & plays and still have time for date if I like the guy. Being busy is no excuse - its just being self-centered, setting priorities or maybe they truly just want to blow you off and haven't the courage to tell you. This week I have 2 chorus rehearsals, 2 nights of dancing, a Walk-a-thon on Saturday followed by monthly swing dancing, hoping for a ticket to ballroom dancing at the Sun inbetween and still have time for a night of dancing tonight to take out a fellow ballroom dancer who is house bound, her husband doesn't dance and she can't drive. It all depends on your priororities. If these woman can't make you a priority now, what will they do when the newness wears off? Move on and find someone who will fit you in, no matter how busy they are. dancing
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Apr 19, 2007 1:36 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
MrrightM
MrrightMMrrightMPantelimon/ Bucharest, Muntenia Romania23 Threads 697 Posts
I would say try a bit harder, and if there is no action again, then MOVE ON, coz ur life is more valuable and important than waiting for someone's free time, dont waste your time with waiting, otherwise u will regret at the end when u look back, u will look back in anger at yourself coz u will already have wasted your time for an expectation of having an answer from that BUSY lady, so think about it, there r plenty of fish in the pond, go for another...Plus, u can go out and meet some nice ladies, it doesnt have to be online relationship, am i wrong???confused dunno cool
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Apr 19, 2007 2:21 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
SENSI1
SENSI1SENSI1Leicester, UK1 Threads 126 Posts
i got three words for you > move on bro thumbs up
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Apr 19, 2007 2:23 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
ah ... who will understand them...lol
comfort
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Apr 19, 2007 2:25 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
i would imagine so yay
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Apr 19, 2007 3:26 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
make another mass mailing ... as sugested

but still if you read profiles carfully before - it might help too grin comfort
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Apr 19, 2007 3:35 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
That's exactly what it means... we make time for what we want to make time for. wink
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Apr 19, 2007 4:48 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
If they are not interested, my friend, don't worry! As hard as we strive to, we cannot please all the people all the time........ your turn will come, just ya wait and see. Then tell us all about it, yeah??thumbs up yay
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Apr 19, 2007 4:54 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
bulldog66
bulldog66bulldog66doncaster, UK35 Threads 3,680 Posts
hi alison hows it goin wave
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Apr 19, 2007 5:55 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Yeah, I'm good bully..... nah, I'm brilliant, thanks for asking. You???yay
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Apr 19, 2007 7:16 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
bulldog66
bulldog66bulldog66doncaster, UK35 Threads 3,680 Posts
yea iam sound ,been busy but just chillin now
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May 5, 2007 4:26 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
Cougarwoman
CougarwomanCougarwomanRinggold, USA4 Threads 15 Posts
confused dunno doh yea that is a big hint that she does not want to go out with you now or again whichever it is.
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Jun 2, 2007 11:14 AM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
You say this:

"Being busy is no excuse - its just being self-centered, setting priorities or maybe they truly just want to blow you off and haven't the courage to tell you. "

What would someone consider the "courage" to tell them that they want to blow them off?

Yes, I think saying you are very busy is a nice way of blowing them off. Why is it a bad thing to excuse yourself politely?

I have courage, but also don't want to be bluntly hurting their feelings. Besides, it's none of their business why you aren't interested, being too busy works for me.
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Jul 2, 2007 8:59 PM CST If a person tells he or she if she is busy all of the time, does that mean, not intrested?
sassie431
sassie431sassie431southern, California USA45 Threads 500 Posts
I make time to answer all my 3 emails. If I am not interested I tell them. Honesty up front is the best.
I don't think I would waste my time on someone who can't make a point to at lease write me back a few lines.

Mary
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