I come upon on other sites ladies who tell me they are to busy, but in reallity they were not intrested in me. I notice they had time for other people, bu not me.
if they are interested they'll make time, however some folks have thier lives planned to the extent of day planner and even schedule reminders. so if you are really interested give them some time to 'fit you in" then after that its a matter of time working your way up the speed dial list. but if you act lkke a attention starved puppy you gonna get shutdown before you even make the" must do list"
Regarding your headline/thread title...No, not necessarily. Some people really ARE busy, and therefore do not have much free time. However, if a lady is really & truly interested in you...she will make time & be willing to put forth effort to give you some time, even if it's a short amount.
Regarding your post...Sounds to me like the person just made up that particular excuse, because yes, they are not interested in you and obviously just didn't want to come out & be honest about it from the get go.
actually I'm quite busy especialy in a summer time ... lot's of work ... Sure I'll find some time for someone who i like ... but not much. I can't allow myself to spend whole evening in front of computer or on the phone. So if there is no patients and understanding ... then Bye
Try not to push women ... with hours of converstions and long e-mails.Give them some space .... Respect of time is crucial in relationships
I work full time, have a farm (do hay, hunt deer, raise beef cows), have two teenage boys, Member of American Legion Auxilliary (SGT at Arms), work with 4-H Beef Committee, demonstrate how to make butter at a local farm show, spend time with family, dance a minimum of two nights a week, I'm an Avon Representative (4th highest new seller in my area), in local theater group chorus & plays and still have time for date if I like the guy. Being busy is no excuse - its just being self-centered, setting priorities or maybe they truly just want to blow you off and haven't the courage to tell you. This week I have 2 chorus rehearsals, 2 nights of dancing, a Walk-a-thon on Saturday followed by monthly swing dancing, hoping for a ticket to ballroom dancing at the Sun inbetween and still have time for a night of dancing tonight to take out a fellow ballroom dancer who is house bound, her husband doesn't dance and she can't drive. It all depends on your priororities. If these woman can't make you a priority now, what will they do when the newness wears off? Move on and find someone who will fit you in, no matter how busy they are.
I would say try a bit harder, and if there is no action again, then MOVE ON, coz ur life is more valuable and important than waiting for someone's free time, dont waste your time with waiting, otherwise u will regret at the end when u look back, u will look back in anger at yourself coz u will already have wasted your time for an expectation of having an answer from that BUSY lady, so think about it, there r plenty of fish in the pond, go for another...Plus, u can go out and meet some nice ladies, it doesnt have to be online relationship, am i wrong???
If they are not interested, my friend, don't worry! As hard as we strive to, we cannot please all the people all the time........ your turn will come, just ya wait and see. Then tell us all about it, yeah??
"Being busy is no excuse - its just being self-centered, setting priorities or maybe they truly just want to blow you off and haven't the courage to tell you. "
What would someone consider the "courage" to tell them that they want to blow them off?
Yes, I think saying you are very busy is a nice way of blowing them off. Why is it a bad thing to excuse yourself politely?
I have courage, but also don't want to be bluntly hurting their feelings. Besides, it's none of their business why you aren't interested, being too busy works for me.
I make time to answer all my 3 emails. If I am not interested I tell them. Honesty up front is the best. I don't think I would waste my time on someone who can't make a point to at lease write me back a few lines.
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