sorry to hear of your torment you have been put through, it happens life is sometimes good to you and sometimes bad for you, but i am sure someone else will come along and make it all nice for you one day.
I don't normally poke my nose in where it shouldn't be, but Dec is a friend and I want to put a word in to defend him, since he can't defend himself on here. Dec and I spoke often, not as potential mates, lovers, etc. We spoke as friends. I didn't try to persuade him one way or another, I just listened to what he had to say. You were not as innocent as you pretend to be either. There were a lot of things that he told me about you in regard to your "relationship" that just didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. Won't go into details, because that is not right in the public forums. And if you don't want people responding here to your thread, whether it be to your liking or not, then you should not post in the PUBLIC forums. Declan is a decent man and I am sure you are a decent woman, just not meant for each other. Please don't put others down unless you are prepared to hear what others are going to say in reply.
i agree such threads of the 'dance' or the failure
if its done here all kind of input will come in
uh cuz there's people here
and because of public posting its clear your heart healed well enuf in a week to post a new situation and now theres yet another looks promising but these threads live forever... something to think about..?
we should all get the action youre gettin sweety (green / envy)
Well I will say this that it took me a week just to post this thread after it happened and well I am getting to know another now and well he is real and we talk on the phone all the time where as when talking on msn it is very easy to change ones voice and there are ways to find out if ones email etc are from where they say they are from. I have come to learn this through a friend and a cousin of mine that deal with computers and the internet daily for their jobs and speaking to a person on the phone or seeing them live on webcam is a whole different thing than just speaking to them on msn live.
Thank you to all those who cared and those who are my friends I hope you all find what you are looking for!!!
As for the new man that I am speaking with he is very sweet and well I am planning on meeting him within two weeks. I will be driving to his home and meeting him there. I have been speaking with him for one week now and well when your heart is involved, life must go on!! A person must always learn to love again and well I never give up and I won't let one heart break keep me from finding true love!!! I am a strong person I have been through many things in my life and well I will say this " If it doesn't kill you then it just makes you stronger" and that is what happened in this instance, it made me stronger.
Dark soul I don't think that is necessary but thank you and well I think I have found someone new I will let you all know how it goes when I am to meet him I will be going to meet him and at least he has not refused on letting me go to him like the other did!
great words best way to see the situation for the guy is that. i know someone from philly who fits that perfectly. i learned recently how there are better guys out there. as someone once said to me have to go through a lot of broken hearts to find the right one.
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