I thought that I would all let you know....... ( Archived) (115)

Well this is hard for me to do but I need to let you all know! Everyone knows that I and Declan were together. Well we were emailing and the last email I recieved from him was for directions up to Iowa. I sent them to him and I know the first thing that some of you will ask is did I give him my address and the answer is no I was going to meet him away from my home. Anyways to get back to it, he hasn't mailed me since then and he never showed on Monday or Tuesday. I have tryed to get ahold of him through email and he hasn't answered. I have no way of telling if he was really in Texas cause he never called me. I did as I have said before fall in love with him via email and on msn but he has played me and I will not forgive him for this.
I am sorry to the ones who have sent me wonderful emails and all that for not replying but I was hurt by the way he has handled this and I have had no clue what to say to you all. I wish that if he was going to end the relationship that he would have done so like a man. I want to warn others that he is a player and warn you all of some the red flags that have popped up since he was banned, cancelled his account or just hid his profile. I started checking when he hadn't contacted me by Tuesday so I do want you all to know these things.
1. He told me that his children were 8 and 10 but when he first came on CS he posted in the forums that they were 10 and 15.
2. He has told me and others that they were in Bandera, Texas and he posted when he first came on that they lived in Amarillo, Texas. This I had a question on for there is over a 4 hour difference. They could have moved but he had told me when he was living in Texas that he lived in Bandera when he was married, why the change.
3. I started receiving emails from others that said they knew him and that I had better watch myself talking to other guys in the forums. The ones I have talked to have all been his friends so I thought.
4. Noone that I know of has ever seen him but we have talked to him on Msn.
I thought that I should all let you know these few things there was others also but as it is now this thing is to long. I will state this I took his lack of responding to me to mean that he no longer wants to be with me. I have no reason to know why and I don't understand but I have given him days to respond and he hasn't. So I guess you could all say that I am single once more but with a very bruised heart.

your heart will mend dusty,,u may not believe this now,,but hi,,his lost,,not yours,,and better knowing now than later it takes time,,so don,t give up

I am so sorry sweetheart. For the life of me I can not figure out why people will not tell you when they no longer want to see you...I just cant imagine what you are going though. You have friends here and know that you are loved!!

Sorry you are hurting...

Wow Dusty. I can't say I'm suprised. I seen some red flags from this end too. Well jump back in the pack girl. you've missed alot these last couple weeks. some good, some bad. You still have your friends here.

Thanks and I really thank all of you!I hated to let you all know this way but I didn't want to have to retype it so many times I just couldn't it's hard enough just the once!

Sorry girl, sad lesson but good reminder that there are those kind out there

Dusty.......all I can say is sorry honey.....

big big hug for you