Opening my mind up......it's a dangerous thing (58)
Youve been married 3 times
And now ur with bnd?
My God girl - u need some counselling!!
And now ur with bnd?
My God girl - u need some counselling!!
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Oh no......you don't understand........BND is the best thing that has EVER happend to me.
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ok
just being devils advocate - as u already knew anyway
But married 3 times?
at 45? and now another realtionship?
How come?
just being devils advocate - as u already knew anyway
But married 3 times?
at 45? and now another realtionship?
How come?
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so far
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psssssssst can i tap into your mind????
i could always use some insight...........just ummmmm put roadblocks on the relationship thing!
i could always use some insight...........just ummmmm put roadblocks on the relationship thing!
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Why not? Because I deserve to be loved...........and appreciated.....and needed.....
Just because I had three bad marriages doesn't mean I've used up all my turns........
Just because I had three bad marriages doesn't mean I've used up all my turns........
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what is that supposed to mean...........
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Very true...
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I don't know that my views are the same as when I was in my twenties. I've had a few boyfriends since my divorce and came very close to marriage with two of them. When it came down to it though, I had to force myself to sit back and really look at the quality of person that they were. Were they someone I could feel safe and grow old with? The answer was resoundingly no...which was no big loss either way because I've learned from both situations.
I've learned that it is OK to be alone, if this is the way I am meant to spend my life then that is ok with me. Of course I'd love to meet my perfect match..show me somebody who woulnd't. Human beings are not made to be alone, I don't care what anyone says...being alone by choice and then being alone because you just don't want to commit or get hurt again, are two different things.
I know that I will never again be put into a position to where I have to totally be dependant upon a man. Being single has made me stronger than I 've ever been, I've got two wonderful kids, am working towards all of my goals and my life is full. Yes, it would all be enhanced by meeting my match, someone to respect me, love me and grow old with me...but that doesn't have to neccessarily be in a marriage situation..I'll reserve my stance on that, only because I am a believer in the saying "anything is possible".
But........
Men are a luxury...not a neccesity.
I've learned that it is OK to be alone, if this is the way I am meant to spend my life then that is ok with me. Of course I'd love to meet my perfect match..show me somebody who woulnd't. Human beings are not made to be alone, I don't care what anyone says...being alone by choice and then being alone because you just don't want to commit or get hurt again, are two different things.
I know that I will never again be put into a position to where I have to totally be dependant upon a man. Being single has made me stronger than I 've ever been, I've got two wonderful kids, am working towards all of my goals and my life is full. Yes, it would all be enhanced by meeting my match, someone to respect me, love me and grow old with me...but that doesn't have to neccessarily be in a marriage situation..I'll reserve my stance on that, only because I am a believer in the saying "anything is possible".
But........
Men are a luxury...not a neccesity.
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lol
Men are a luxury...not a neccesity
Amen!
Men are a luxury...not a neccesity
Amen!
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its a way of processing and self support
things good happen
things negative happen
if we add so far or up until now-it can be cool/uplifting
i havent been able to stop smoking-so far
i am having the greatest experience of my life-up until now
things good happen
things negative happen
if we add so far or up until now-it can be cool/uplifting
i havent been able to stop smoking-so far
i am having the greatest experience of my life-up until now
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.........dittos in reverse....... 
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indeed
a relationship is the icing on the cake that is me
(tiny-you just said amen-
)
i remember thinking every relationship ive ever had, well most of em
was the best thing that ever happened to me...
a relationship is the icing on the cake that is me
(tiny-you just said amen-
)i remember thinking every relationship ive ever had, well most of em
was the best thing that ever happened to me...
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LOl
Maybe i am god fearing after all!!
\how many relationships have u had in your short life span?
Maybe i am god fearing after all!!
\how many relationships have u had in your short life span?
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Hey, I'm wearing a patch and chewing some gum right now
I haven't been able to stop smoking-so far
I haven't been able to stop smoking-so far
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I will, this time
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Hee hee ha ha ho
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I went on...and on....you could have heard a pin drop....the expression on my teachers face was priceless....it was like he had never heard this take on marriage before. Probably hadn't.....hell, I'm 45 years old...been married three times.....I should know, better than anybody in that class.....when something doesn't work....it just doesn't work.
Wonder if I'll get an "A" in the participation aspect of the class? Bet he doesn't ask for my opinion so quickly again.......maybe next time I'll just jump in with it.........