As most people on this site would probably have the need to arrange travel and accomodation for a first date, is the expectation of sleeping together higher from the men and is there more of a feeling of obligation from the women?
The number of times you sleep with this guy, is directly proportional to the risk of the relationship failing later....rather sleep with me, I'll be yours forever....
Jigs, Jigs!!...don't do it!!...I can send you a e-ticket tommorrow....fly to Malta as soon as...you're just across the pond....it's not too late!!... and I swear, I won't even sleep with you...(well, at least for the first few days...)....
I wouldn't have any expectation of that at all (I don't even think I'd want that...hope that doesn't make me a "girlie man" or something). My biggest hope would be that we really hit it off. The rest would follow naturally, I think.
If you meet and you don't think you're going to like him....just tell him you have some STD..... won't have to worry about sleeping with him, most likely...
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