ok i read this cause basically...well u said for the guys so i was curious.......but here's my 2 cents (or less lol)
i agree you have to wait and be patient and don't look for it............but i know how hard that can be. i can't offer you a man cuz i don't know any lol but i can offer friendship if ya need/want it. i'm told i'm a great listener/advisor *shrugs*
js...as far as the weight and health and no money, those all may seem like they are gonna stop you from finding someone, but that's just not the case. i have found men who have dated me being overweight and no money. true none of them lasted but there were reasons behind it and alot has to do with problems with my older son..............but you can't let those things get in your way or stop you from believing that there is someone out there for you who will think you're awesome the way you are. jmo
Yeah, I feel you. Honesty can be a detriment but look at it this way: at least you don't have to watch your back or remember any lies or who you told them to. Keep honest, keep positive, bro. Our rewards for that won't be non-existent.
Honey I will tell you this. You seem like a great guy and I see no reason why you won't find a girl and all of these wonderful people have been giving me advice and its good so I hope that you will read the whole thread and take it to! If you ever want to talk I am here also and Mystic is awesome with advice I have taken alot of his lately!
I am always willing to make new friends and you seem like you would be a great one feel free to add me to your friends list and we can mail each other! One can never have to many friends. I have friends all over the states and I have made many on here from countries that I never knew that I would have friends in a few months ago! I have been told I give good advice to but the thing is I always forget to apply it to myself!
Dusty, I read your profile and found nothing out of the ordinary. I think it’s a pretty well informed profile with plenty to read. I think it’s just a matter of time. The right one will show up. Continue being the Dusty Rose that you are. Don’t change ok?
I have yet to date anyone form CS. Who knows, perhaps someday I will.
It's my cell phone and the pic I took it on Saturday night after the club on the way to a party and well I was 3 sheets to the wind and yeah I was having trouble seeing!
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
You are having it a bit rough at the moment, yes? Don't despair, my friend, it will pan out.... you'll see! In the meantime, enjoy all the fab people on here and make sure great friends, okay?
gatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA467 posts
these threads u write, it's like u need an ego boost, or affirmation, or just positive reinforcement, don't let a bad experience make u feel that way... u don't need a man to justify you, or to complete you, just hang loose and take it one day at a time... it's when ur not looking...it'll hit u by surpize....and be wonderful.....we all deserve it...just enjoy being u, and someone will come along soon enough that will enjoy you being you too.
I know exactly how you feel. I've been actively seeking the love of my life for a while now. I truly thought the internet dating scene would make things easier, but it really hasn't. Not to sound immodest, but I think I have most of the qualities a good-hearted woman could want in a man; I'm honest, as loyal as they come, kind, affectionate, romantic, not especially handsome but decent-looking, creative, intelligent, wicked sense of humor...
But none of that seems to make any difference. In the time I've been trying to meet people online I've come across one...ONE woman...who was actually interested in me and seemed like a truly good soul. And it couldn't really go anywhere because she lives too far away. The loneliness does get unbearable at times. Wanna know how pathetic I am? I'm going to the movies tonight...alone. lol The thought of spending another night staring at the same four walls makes me wanna scream. At least I'm getting out...
So let me say that I looked over your profile and I don't think there is anything wrong with you whatsoever. You're very pretty, obviously smart, creative...I LOVE that you're a writer even though romance isn't my cup of tea. And I like your ink by the way. I'm an artist and sometimes design tattoos myself. The only thing stopping me from pursuing you is that you want more children. I have one daughter and I'm afraid I really don't want any more kids, so you're better off with someone willing to have a child with you. But other than that...I'd kill for a chance to meet someone like you.
Ah well...the search goes on. I wish you and yours the best of happiness,
~Max
(I don't really have anything to be happy about, I just think this dude is funny.)
gatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA467 posts
same advice for u as dusty..
just hang loose and take it one day at a time... it's when ur not looking...it'll hit u by surpize....and be wonderful.....we all deserve it...just enjoy being u, and someone will come along soon enough that will enjoy you being you too.
Sometimes it is hard waiting around for someone to find you though! I know I am tired of going places and seeing all these couples together and I am by myself. Makes you think there is something wrong with you or something. I am impatiently, patiently, waiting........
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