He choose another woman over me. ( Archived) (147)

Oct 28, 2007 10:53 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
what was being suggested i think,
is that we share here in a general way
and discuss specifics w/ friends...

sigh


que pasa Oswave
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Oct 28, 2007 10:55 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
that is what I am doing
I am sharing with my friends
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Oct 28, 2007 10:55 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
And the rest of the world...
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Oct 28, 2007 10:57 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
And megrin


rolling on the floor laughing




doh
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Oct 28, 2007 10:59 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Exactly!
I would not like it if a guy came on here and gave their side of the story and made me look bad. No one really knows if Nightlady really was jealous. We should not involve ourselves in thing we know not especially if the parties involved are both CS members.
Anyhow, comfort is best given in such cases without necessarily being biased.

JMO.
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Oct 28, 2007 11:03 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
yes ma'am
if I could talk to the world I would do it
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Oct 28, 2007 11:03 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
This should be handled between you two.Tool is a great guy,wish him my best and always the best shine.yay yay
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Oct 28, 2007 11:04 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
That was a very mature response. Nice work Hilly.

thumbs up
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Oct 28, 2007 11:05 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
Not sure if you're aware of this, but it is a public forum, everyone in the world with an internet access can read what's posted here...

So you already are... telling the world, I mean...
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Oct 28, 2007 11:05 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
yes ma'am
wave
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Oct 28, 2007 11:06 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
moloko
molokomolokosomewhere, Tyrol Austria5 Threads 1,675 Posts
you are darling - that's what she's saying.dunno
you have no respect for his privacy.
not cool.scold
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Oct 28, 2007 11:07 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
My mind is not all here at the moment.
I'm just trying to replay the last week.
I'm trying to figure out where I went wrong.
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Oct 28, 2007 11:08 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
Yes he is a great guy.
It's not him, it's me.
Thanks
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Oct 28, 2007 11:14 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
timberland
timberlandtimberlandepsom, Surrey, England UK6 Threads 55 Posts
yhat happened to me as well exactly same reasons. it isnt nice
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Oct 28, 2007 11:18 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
thanks.wink
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Oct 28, 2007 11:19 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Nightlady, this is total speculation here and nothing more because I haven't talked to him... but I've made my observations along the way. If my instincts are anywhere near the mark, I have a hunch that Tool wasn't very comfortable with having his relationship with you unfold publically on the forum here for all the world to see. So this possibly could have had some influence on it if he's chosen to pull away from you some.

If you'd like to talk to him and see if there's still a chance, I would respectfully suggest keeping it between yourselves and behind closed doors. Intimate feelings and emotions are very personal, private things... not to be dragged through the open streets for all to see and for everyone to scrutinize.

The very concept of true intimate love is that it's something you share solely between yourself and another person. The flower of emotional intimacy can not grow under a spotlight, it needs tender & focused care, as well as a continuous respect for privacy and trust, if it's to flourish and bloom.

My apologies in advance if I'm out of line... I felt it needed to be said. Good luck.
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Oct 28, 2007 11:22 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
It is me. I have to many problems and issues that I do need to sort out before I look for another relationship. I need to just stick to what I came on here for. I'm trying to get my life in order. I am working on it. It's just taking time. If I could make it go faster I would. You are right. Thanks again. You also take care.
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Oct 28, 2007 11:24 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
No you are not out of line. Thanks for your input.
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Oct 28, 2007 11:25 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Listen to me... you have been beaten down so much that all you think is it's your fault.. that is not the case.. stop thinking that no matter what you do it's wrong.. you hear me young lady.... stop it..
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Oct 28, 2007 11:27 AM CST He choose another woman over me.
nightlady
nightladynightladyalbemarle, USA28 Threads 873 Posts
Yes sir.
I will.
Thanks
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