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Nov 5, 2007 3:40 PM CST Do you have
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Fears and doubts about meeting someone from CS ?

Mine is the person won't like me in person.
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Nov 5, 2007 3:43 PM CST Do you have
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I can't say I have.......if it gets to the point of meeting fac to face it's because we've gotten to know each other well and they know what theyr're in for...I am what I am.On the other hand I have met one guy from another site who was nothing as he portrayed himself to be over the months but that's what led me here.....so it was a good thinglaugh
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Nov 5, 2007 3:44 PM CST Do you have
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
I Loved You the first time I met you...hug but your brother beat you to merolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Love You...Mean itkiss ...but no, you don't want any of us Wonderful American Ladies..scold you want to swim the ocean blue to find the Love of Your Lifeconfused Daniel, you're not getting any youngerdunno better buy a boat with the money you want to spend on the new Harley, so you can sail over the ocean blue for the Lady who has stolen your heartangel wine
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Nov 5, 2007 3:49 PM CST Do you have
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
I think a plane ticket would suffice smile
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Nov 5, 2007 4:02 PM CST Do you have
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I agree....I worry that physical apperances will interfear with the friendship or relationship and bring it to a skreeching hault....sigh
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Nov 5, 2007 5:36 PM CST Do you have
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Only 1 Shelia and a Boat won't get me there wink
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Nov 5, 2007 5:40 PM CST Do you have
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I have met 2 women from CS and both times we hit it off very well. Know why? Because by the time we met, physical appearance didn't matter anymore. Both women I met were unbelievably beautiful in person, but when they saw me they stayed anywaylaugh

Don't worry about it. The woman who decides to meet you will already like you! Good luck!
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Nov 5, 2007 5:41 PM CST Do you have
Yeh I feel the same way. I am honest on my profile and am upfront in conversation, but still that inital meeting in person...scary
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Nov 5, 2007 5:45 PM CST Do you have
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yeah.. me too.. I'm like a bunny in the headlights for a while.. lol

then start yapping because I'm nervous..

THEN I worry because I think HE thinks I talk too much.. and will think I am NUTS.



hahah cant bloody WIN! rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 5, 2007 5:48 PM CST Do you have
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Your already doing it laugh

Practice, aye.
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Nov 5, 2007 5:49 PM CST Do you have
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
me and eupho

twins


help
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Nov 5, 2007 5:51 PM CST Do you have
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
All you nervous people, take a pill.laugh

It ain't no big deal in the whole scheme of things.

Either you see each other again or not. What's the big deal?

Life goes on.

Trust me on this one: There are plenty of fish. Did I just say POF?
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Nov 5, 2007 5:51 PM CST Do you have
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
haha well you get the idea then laugh
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Nov 5, 2007 5:51 PM CST Do you have
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
No not really fear or doubt. Maybe I would feel a little nervous if I ever meet anyone from here. If the other person can't accept you for you then it wasn't meant to be.
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Nov 5, 2007 5:56 PM CST Do you have
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Fear that you won't be acceptable to them physically. Says your insecure about yourself. Insecurity brings negativety.

Can you all see how the system works. This is why Psychologists earn such good money. A 100 million people visit them every year and they all spin the same rhetoric for the poroblem.

So firstly love yourself and be proud of yourself. If you can do this openly Then you won't care what others think. if you don't care what others think you will be more forward and outgoing.

Now all you need are to remember manners and social etiquette.

And if you can do this the person your meeting will just remember this positive open bright buzzy person who is just happy being. In Otherwords you signed, sealed and delivered the first impression.
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Nov 5, 2007 6:02 PM CST Do you have
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I was nervous...BUT not afraid he wouldnt like me for me because I am the same on here as in RL...and I have nothing to hide....I was mainly nervous because I haven't dated in over 6 years!!!!!!!


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Nov 5, 2007 6:05 PM CST Do you have
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
OO good advice Dragon thumbs up thumbs up
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