A Crush ( Archived) (29)

Nov 9, 2007 2:16 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
I have a crush on this girl at work. She usually say hi and smile to me when she sees me at the hall. However, after several eye contacts she stops say hi and smile to me at the hall. She even finds different route to go to her lab, so she won't see me at the hall or at the lab. My first sign is that I have a feeling that she is not interesting in me. Should I still try to find a way to approach her or email her and tell her how I feel? Or I just forget about it and find another girl who interest in me. Thanks
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Nov 9, 2007 2:25 PM CST A Crush
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Your fixation is being picked up by her and making her uncomfortable, act on it and approach her directly (and accept the consequences) or let it go and move on.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:27 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
What do you mean by fixation?
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Nov 9, 2007 2:27 PM CST A Crush
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
thats it!

i agree with Un...

make a clean start either way
what could be better?

residue is yukky
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Nov 9, 2007 2:30 PM CST A Crush
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Don't mix business with pleasure JMO
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Nov 9, 2007 2:31 PM CST A Crush
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
It's just another word attraction... allure... intrigue... desire... infatuation... longing... that sort of thing.

Good luck.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:34 PM CST A Crush
Hello3
Hello3Hello3Dublin, Ireland22 Threads 483 Posts
Don't mean to sound cruel young man but i dont think she is interested in you, and as you grow up you will learn,you will get rejections as everyone does at some stage in their life,you just have to move on and be confident that you will meet the right lady good luck young man. irish
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Nov 9, 2007 2:35 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
Thank you for your clarify.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:37 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
Don't you think people can have a business with pleasure?grin
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Nov 9, 2007 2:39 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
You are not sound so cruel at all. Thank you for your response.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:40 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
Thank you for your advice.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:40 PM CST A Crush
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Well .... i would leave her alone


Good Luck conversing
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Nov 9, 2007 2:40 PM CST A Crush
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
fyi folks

shyboys first language is not english-if i remember correctly?

so be patient
beer
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Nov 9, 2007 2:45 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
Yes, you are right. English is my third languages.
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Nov 9, 2007 2:50 PM CST A Crush
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Third language, pfft!! It's my TENTH! Take THAT you smart person you...

My other nine languages of which I am fluent, are as follows:

Thickburger
Chalupa
Sweet Tea
Steak
Chinese food
Coffee
Chocolate
Strawberries
Cereal

professor
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Nov 9, 2007 2:55 PM CST A Crush
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
That was a joke... uh oh
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Nov 9, 2007 3:09 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
laugh the language of food. Yummy
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Nov 9, 2007 3:11 PM CST A Crush
shyboy79
shyboy79shyboy79Orangeburg, New York USA8 Threads 120 Posts
Actually, I am not that smart at all. I am kind fool when it comes to relationship.
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Nov 9, 2007 3:12 PM CST A Crush
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
YEAH! HAHA, I was worried you didn't get me for a second... phew. LOL.

thumbs up handshake beer
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Nov 9, 2007 3:18 PM CST A Crush
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
wow


laugh
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