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Nov 19, 2007 5:14 AM CST would u ??
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Concur.........
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Nov 19, 2007 5:23 AM CST would u ??
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
It would depend on the circumstances.. and what caused the break up..
I would consider giving a possible second chance if it was just a misunderstanding and we realized how foolish it was to let it come between us. Yes I would probably give it another go..

On the other hand if after the break up she went on to someone else and then tried to come back if things didn't work out between the two of them.. kinda like thinking the grass is greener on the other side and realizing what you had before and that it was a mistake to end what you had before so to speak..

I would have a very difficult time giving another chance to that person because she should already have known what she was letting go before she did it.. so in this case I would be leaning 99.9% against giving a second chance....
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Nov 19, 2007 5:39 AM CST would u ??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
true ... !!
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Nov 19, 2007 5:43 AM CST would u ??
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Are you ok riya?comfort
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Nov 19, 2007 5:44 AM CST would u ??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hug thankyou Daniel perfectly fine !!! hug
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Nov 19, 2007 5:52 AM CST would u ??
terabyte
terabyteterabytelewisburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 236 Posts
Been there done that they never work. The old water under the bridge thing still flows down the creek and into the lake and is still there in the water somewhere. Life is hard enough without the subliminal pressure of what if it happens again. I think people can change and realize they should have done things differently but that makes them better for the next relationship- their growth.professor handshake hug
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Nov 19, 2007 5:53 AM CST would u ??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
handshake hug thankyou
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Nov 19, 2007 5:59 AM CST would u ??
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
You are welcome..hug
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Nov 19, 2007 6:07 AM CST would u ??
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Agreed.. the only problem sometimes is that a lot of people let what happened to them in a past relationship get in the way of a new one...

Not all people mind you.. but I get tired of standing in someone else's shadow and having to prove that I am nothing like the individual before that caused you all this pain..

Of course there has to be a getting to know someone before a commitment is made, but at least give this new person the benefit of the doubt.. and see how things go..
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Nov 19, 2007 6:14 AM CST would u ??
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up on this one

"Not all people mind you.. but I get tired of standing in someone else's shadow and having to prove that I am nothing like the individual before that caused you all this pain.."
And that is next to impossible to do.
Sad but true.sigh wave
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Nov 19, 2007 6:17 AM CST would u ??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Hi Conrad .. good morning click giggle
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Nov 19, 2007 6:17 AM CST would u ??
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Love is a risk to begin with.

As for your first question, I have already done it and would again.
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Nov 19, 2007 6:18 AM CST would u ??
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Thanks Conrad..handshake
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Nov 19, 2007 8:33 AM CST would u ??
Pompey70
Pompey70Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK32 Threads 342 Posts
Fully agree Daniel.
My ex tried exactly that after I had caught her in bed with a guy. She's now pregnant by him due this month so in that perticuler example " Not a hope in Hell"
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Nov 19, 2007 8:35 AM CST would u ??
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
I would...love is too special to deny yourself because of pride.

This is assuming a great deal of course...circumstances etc.wine
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Jan 17, 2008 4:38 PM CST would u ??
redphoenix
redphoenixredphoenixdamascus, Syria3 Posts
i think yes

depend on why they do that ???!!!!!

we have to forgive especially if we love them once

i dont want to look like religious man we are not saints angel

and every human make a mistake

i think the past go away ....



(Can the blind guide the blind? Won't they both fall into a pit? A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher. Why do you see the speck of chaff that is in your brother's eye, but don't consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how can you tell your brother, 'Brother, let me remove the speck of chaff that is in your eye,' when you yourself don't see the beam that is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam from your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck of chaff that is in your brother's eye. )
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Jan 17, 2008 4:41 PM CST would u ??
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
riyablossom: Would u give someone a second chance in to your life ? especially if they have already left you once before ??

Is their love worth a second chance ?

or is it too much of a risk to take ?




No...
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Jan 17, 2008 6:01 PM CST would u ??
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Highly unlikely, but never say never, cause you never know laugh
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Jan 17, 2008 6:04 PM CST would u ??
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
lusciousmile: Hey Riya No, second chances aren't my thing.

'Once bitten , twice shy'



Hmm I'm quite like that too. I would doubt them if they had left me once already.
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Jan 17, 2008 6:04 PM CST would u ??
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
constanza: Highly unlikely, but never say never, cause you never know


haha thats true
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