Never underestimate people ( Archived) (35)

Nov 27, 2007 3:46 PM CST Never underestimate people
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Just a thought (for this is how my posts usually begin, as rare as they are)...
I was out on Saturday night, having dinner and drinks with friends. Athens has some pretty treacherous sidewalks and streets (gaping holes in sidewalks, motorcycles everywhere, uneven concrete, etc.). In my neighborhood, I am fortunate to know many of the local merchants, cafe owners, vendors, bar owners and bartenders, etc. Walking past one of my neighborly establishments, I tripped on a rough stretch of sidewalk, fell, hit my head, gushed blood, conked out, and laid there. Out cold, apparently. I am a Xeni, which means foreigner. Yet, I am a neighbor. People recognize me and know me somewhat. What happened next is not from memory, but from retelling. A storekeeper came and checked on me, receiving nothing from me other than a fair amount of blood on his shirt sleeve and, apparently, an oft-repeated curse word. He called an ambulance. They came and took me to the hospital. I apparently continued to curse throughout the journey. Long story short...I was not only taken care of, but the shopkeeper had called the hospital to check on me and to see how I was. I had some stitches and was ultimately (the next morning) sent home. Yesterday (Monday), I bought a beautiful orchid plant and took it to the store keeper...thanked him for his help and told him how much I appreciated all he had done. He kissed my cheeks, said "We are neighbors...we are friends...you are a good woman...say nothing more" and that was that. So, I just want to remind everyone to be good neighbors..you never know when your kindness will pay off, but, believe me.....it will.
I know that most threads have questions..."would you...."..."do you..."..."have you ever"....OK...so...have you ever had an "Ah-hah!" moment when you realized that your interaction with people in your everyday life actually MEANT something??? Oh, never mind...it's weak as far as threads go, but I am grateful for Alexandros for allowing me to bleed all over his shirt while he cared for me and saw me as a neighbor, and not just as a Xeni.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 3:51 PM CST Never underestimate people
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
There's good people everywhere...sometimes we just never get to know them except thru crisis.

Sounds like you have a great neighor!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 3:54 PM CST Never underestimate people
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I think you do an excellent service showing the kindness of strangers in a strange land, Athens, but next time could you do that without gashing your head? Makes me queasy thinking of it.wow hug comfort kiss
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 3:57 PM CST Never underestimate people
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Athens.. Ooo bloody hell girl.. You ought to put a bit more water with it!! laugh

But seriously.. you were lucky.. in more ways than one.
I'm glad you are okay with no lasting damage, (hopefully no scar from stitches etc)

I'm often touched by peoples kindness.. there ARE still plenty of kind, selfless people out there. applause

hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 3:59 PM CST Never underestimate people
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Filakia, Dakota.
Only you know what this means....
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:00 PM CST Never underestimate people
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Ohh, believe me..... I have experienced the kindness of strangers! Complete strangers that I am very unlikely to ever meet again and, therefore, they have nothing to gain and chances are I will never be able to repay them. And yet....... some of the kindness and compassion I have received in times of adversity leaves me dumbfounded!

God bless 'em!! cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:01 PM CST Never underestimate people
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
I have said it before more good people out there than bad.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:02 PM CST Never underestimate people
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
little kisses? lots of kisses?

doh bah! I dunno. laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:02 PM CST Never underestimate people
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Hellooo.. absolutely.. you never forget them do you.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:04 PM CST Never underestimate people
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Don't be greedy, Euphoria. Any number of kisses from this lady would prove more than adequate. love
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:06 PM CST Never underestimate people
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Are you studying Greek???

You're close, Eupho!!! Damned close!! Bravo, koritsi-mou!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:06 PM CST Never underestimate people
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
hahaha.. wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:07 PM CST Never underestimate people
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing Women!

Though it's true that when I fell off my bike this summer in the middle of an intersection, I did entertain vague worries about not wearing a jockstrap that morning...tongue confused
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:10 PM CST Never underestimate people
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
No, of course not......

I relayed one story a while back about when I was just 16/17 but shouldn't think those involved have much thought of it since. Strange to think they are out there somewhere and stranger it would be for them to realise that I have thought about them occasionally all these years later?? Whoooaaaa...... uh oh

I would dearly loved to have repaid them..... sigh cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:11 PM CST Never underestimate people
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I too have been a Xeni in many different countries for the past 10 years and have seen kindness in so many ways.

Your thread brought to mind another thread this evening about cultural differences. I've personally experienced more kindness and thoughtfulness abroad than I ever have in my own country.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:15 PM CST Never underestimate people
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
I didn't catch your story, Rose, but I like to think that memories such as yours are not one-sided. Whatever your story was, it's nice to know that you haven't forgotten!
hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:17 PM CST Never underestimate people
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Isn't it amazing, Jan??
Cultural differences should never be a barrier...they should be mind-broadening and enlightening. I am blessed to know such good people...and it's amazing how many good people there are, wherever I go.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:22 PM CST Never underestimate people
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
haha awwww.. yeah I cant totally understand that. lmao @ the flat tum.. that's the first thing I would think lol

And as for the blow drying..
blues
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:24 PM CST Never underestimate people
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I have to believe you lay there flat-stomached, dress tastefully but provocatively arranged about your bare thighs, waiting with unconscious flair and style for your rescuers...cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nov 27, 2007 4:24 PM CST Never underestimate people
hug hug hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,128 Views
34 Comments
by Thalassa (104 Threads)
Created: Nov 2007
Last Viewed: Apr 22
Last Commented: Nov 2007

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here