jodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA1,843 posts
I have flaws just like everyone else...I also can make someone very happy...but...the person must want to be made happy...and I am very lovable on so many levels..........
Available, mentally, physically, emotionally & spititually. I am a whole, I have no need for "the other half". I am happy, no need to find someone to make me happy. I am self supporting through my own contributions, no need for a partner financially. I am however human, therefore subject to human error.
For me, the question remains, what & who would I be required to give up if I were to be in a realtionship with you? Place expectations on me, and I will let you down..
I realise I must first and foremost make myself happy and content before there is the remotest chance that I could ever make another human being happy/content. As for personality flaws I'm sure I have many but my blind spot keep me in the dark as to same. I do try to accept my weakness and flaws and avoid judging others as I know I am far from perfect. I am not looking for perfect just peace and harmony with someone with whom I can share life's up and downs etc.,
But are not some of our flaws making us who we are, without flaw there can be no um... how to put this... ill use perfection not to say anyone can be or is perfect, as it goes no life without death or happiness without sadness everything comes hand in hand. that is y i believe flaws are essential parts of who we are. now to say if we could harness our flaws and not let them control who we are or how others percieve us i think that should be the true goal....
now as for the eligibility, i am goin through i very hard time right now finacially but other than that i am almost positive that i could make SOMEONE (not everyone) very happy. I also believe confidence (not ego) is a key quality for anyone to have ... if your not sure of yourself, how can anyone else be?
Teach thier own If love is in the heart the lovers should be free to learn about the other.
isn't getting along with others a learned trait...
I know who I'am and what i have to offer... but also need to be humbled from time to time to see that it isn't a oneway street.... i should also be able to recieve the kind of love genuinely being given in return.
so i think I'am loveable and my flaw(s) need to be and surely will be revealed to me as i go.
and that is love to give truth and to be able to except it...
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