I know that nobody means any ill-will, but please leave me out of any sort of competition here. I don't feel comfortable with this and am not here to compete with anyone whatsoever. Should anyone care to include me in their thoughts, I am most receptive. But I am simply not comfortable with any sort of competition. In the immortal words of Popeye... I yam what I yam. I don't wish to be compared with anyone; only to be accepted (or rejected) for who I am.....and I am someone who most of you will never really know, so please do not judge me against others who you will also likely never know. Thank you.
Never. Take me as I am or don't take me at all. Non-negotiable. There will always be prettier and smarter and more clever, etc....but there will never be another me, and I simply don't like being compared to others. Sorry if I ruffle any feathers; just saying what I feel.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
why? are you a natural looser?
i won a terrible award!
don't bother honey, really, we all know that here and out it's all completely relative!No one will feel your real person here.Imagine you are playing a character completely different than what you are in real life...it will still be relative, because everyone has a different way of feeling!
I can agree with you, most here will never know eachother on a real personal level. I also admire you for staying true to who you are and your convictions. I'm not saying others here are ajy different mind you, but sometimes it's easy when you're behind a keyboard to become emotionally reckless. Again, I'm not judgeing anyone in fact I have had nothing but a positive experience here thus far. If that's how you feel then it's your right to let it be known.
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Should anyone care to include me in their thoughts, I am most receptive. But I am simply not comfortable with any sort of competition. In the immortal words of Popeye... I yam what I yam. I don't wish to be compared with anyone; only to be accepted (or rejected) for who I am.....and I am someone who most of you will never really know, so please do not judge me against others who you will also likely never know.
Thank you.