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Jan 16, 2008 1:14 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
brad renfro died 9 am today PST

this is someone i knew for yrs as he was a kid w/ my kids
and saw him trying to "get it"
sometimes earnestly, sometimes not...

i am so sad
all such deaths are sad
but if i knew em i really hate it

an oldtimer said once when that happened
fekem-better them than me
i thot he was a mean jerk for sayin that

now i always have that reaction too,
thats how i feel generally
its sad
but today-i wanna live.
i do what i gotta do to do that.


poor idiot kid.


crying
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Jan 16, 2008 1:24 PM CST sad sad death
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
sad flower Most deaths are sad......I don't think that I would ever be capable of saying better them than me......it comes to us all at one time or another....angel When my time comes, I will embrace death and let it lead me to a better tomorrowwave
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Jan 18, 2008 11:42 AM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
hello sweet
glad to see you up and around
laugh

66 views one reply-you

lol

feeling the love
rolling on the floor laughing

a select few share feelings and pain and it becomes 40 pages
of comfort...
most others post pain or shares and get a ratio like this

dunno

the tide will turn again-it must
the only constant is change

dancing
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Jan 18, 2008 11:51 AM CST sad sad death
UnluckyGuyinpa
UnluckyGuyinpaUnluckyGuyinpaTrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 137 Posts
And the more things change,the more theyremain the same. People don't like to deal with pain. Alot of people want to gloss things over and sugarcoat reality. The problem with that is reality never goes away. Sorry for the loss?
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Jan 18, 2008 11:58 AM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
thanks
like many addicts he was a nice sensitive person
sweet, creative, and also a bit chemically imbalanced...

he was a sweet kid and always respectful.
a person over the years i came to care about and BAM.

gone.



but lemme tell ya-if someones cat was sick
or there was an immediate need to weigh in on
someone becoming a couple
this thread would be 40 pages by now

jealous? no
just a bit disappointed.

dunno
not too concerned
if i ever leave they can have a 40 page party thread
ding dong the witch is dead

and more power to em
grin
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Jan 18, 2008 12:01 PM CST sad sad death
Sorry to hear of 2nd death on CS this morniing
Makes you realize that every second of breath,do what you enjoy or do for otherd and you'll likley feel good after.Don't put things off.Be thankful every morning you wake up.

hug sad flower I will pray in my devotional time this eve. for you to feel better,get it out of your head.Also that those close find solace as soon as possiblesigh never easy,thinking of you dear.
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Jan 18, 2008 12:03 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful: thanks
like many addicts he was a nice sensitive person
sweet, creative, and also a bit chemically imbalanced...

he was a sweet kid and always respectful.
a person over the years i came to care about and BAM.

gone.
but lemme tell ya-if someones cat was sick
or there was an immediate need to weigh in on
someone becoming a couple
this thread would be 40 pages by now

jealous? no
just a bit disappointed.


not too concerned
if i ever leave they can have a 40 page party thread
ding dong the witch is dead

and more power to em


well I would be 2 of the 66...not sure what i wanted to say then anymore then now..so i thought sometimes no comment is better then trying make my words fall into place...hug

regarding the witch...that was funny, but ur not the witch im concerned of...LOL...to be vocal and have diverse opinions are good, at least all know where you stand and think...its others that i would like to ding dong...conversing

have a great weekend mindffulteddybear
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Jan 18, 2008 12:11 PM CST sad sad death
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
sorry to hear of the death of a sensitive soul ......he may now be in peace and not tormented by his addiction.......hug

a hug just for you too mindfulhug teddybear
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Jan 18, 2008 12:14 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
how funny nuala
i had just flowered you
that middle pic is sooo purty

best to the fam luv

so am i to divine that if i whine enuf ppl will respond?
rolling on the floor laughing


not my style
thank goodness for our real lives
tho we are all not as lucky as you missusvery mad
frustrated
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Jan 18, 2008 12:16 PM CST sad sad death
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
mindfful: thanks
like many addicts he was a nice sensitive person
sweet, creative, and also a bit chemically imbalanced...

he was a sweet kid and always respectful.
a person over the years i came to care about and BAM.

gone.
but lemme tell ya-if someones cat was sick
or there was an immediate need to weigh in on
someone becoming a couple
this thread would be 40 pages by now

jealous? no
just a bit disappointed.


not too concerned
if i ever leave they can have a 40 page party thread
ding dong the witch is dead

and more power to em


E.,

I didn't know who Brad Renfro was until now when I googled his name.

Wikipedia tells about his career and his roles as an actor.

What a loss at age 25 sigh

And if it were Britney...it would be a 40 page thread dunno

This is a sad kinda world...
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Jan 18, 2008 12:31 PM CST sad sad death
UnluckyGuyinpa
UnluckyGuyinpaUnluckyGuyinpaTrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 137 Posts
mindfful: how funny nuala
i had just flowered you
that middle pic is sooo purty

best to the fam luv

so am i to divine that if i whine enuf ppl will respond?
not my style
thank goodness for our real lives
tho we are all not as lucky as you missus



Exactly not your style and I would be disappointed if it turned out to be. I for one have come to respect and enjoy your opinions. But hey what do I really know? My opinion has no more weight or value than anyone elses here.
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Jan 18, 2008 12:33 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i knew him since he was about 12
sons friend-like an extra kid...

so do you think we should talk about
the paradox of my personality
or perhaps the stat of my split personality?

a hot topic if you go look at that doggie pic on my profile


rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 18, 2008 12:36 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
unlucky
i have my whines now and again
just rarely bring em in here?
why?

ya dont go to the butcher to buy tomatoes


sigh

i used to be a peer here-changing of the guard
now im seen as an annoyance-
oh well

head banger

<<<<not a conformist
or a contortionist

strange
im not lonely either
i find myself to be alright company
well, dressing the dogs up does help distract the mind
dancing
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Jan 18, 2008 12:38 PM CST sad sad death
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
sad flower I dont know what to say. Death is something i have no idea how i am going to deal with. I was in college when my grandfather passed away and it felt so bad . The atmosphere of visitors weeping and giving condolence made it worse.

Well .. i guess i wil learn to cope one day.
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Jan 18, 2008 12:39 PM CST sad sad death
UnluckyGuyinpa
UnluckyGuyinpaUnluckyGuyinpaTrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 137 Posts
split personality?


I like to use the term "muti-faceted" personality myself.
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Jan 18, 2008 12:43 PM CST sad sad death
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
sorry elena bout ur sad loss, it must be hard for you so i send you love.......i lost my friend couple years ago she was only 44 ......it hurt so .....God bless xlove babsie xxteddybear angel angel kiss
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Jan 18, 2008 12:46 PM CST sad sad death
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
mindfful: unlucky


ya dont go to the butcher to buy tomatoes

i used to be a peer here-changing of the guard
now im seen as an annoyance-
oh well



<<<<not a conformist
or a contortionist



Hi E. I missed this first time around apparently. Sad indeed.

I, for one, don't see you as an annoyance and if any one else does well actually it is their problem so kick that non-rent paying idea out GF!
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Jan 18, 2008 1:25 PM CST sad sad death
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Hi E. I missed this first time around apparently. Sad indeed.

I, for one, don't see you as an annoyance and if any one else does well actually it is their problem so kick that non-rent paying idea out GF!


I agree!!!!

thumbs up
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Jan 18, 2008 1:52 PM CST sad sad death
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
of course miss bajan
you are right as usual
but im not so bothered but dont bear pretending/omitting very well either

and unlucky

if you look at my profile
i believe the term (euphemism) i employ is paradoxical

rolling on the floor laughing

hey its true

hi FMwave
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Jan 18, 2008 1:53 PM CST sad sad death
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Hi Ms. Paradoxical! wave
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