I recently went on a date with a woman and her 2 childeren i thought the world of them boys and yet she told me what she wanted i was all this and more but when i got home i tried to call her as i promised and she never answered then the emails all ceased why what is she expecting what is it she wants mabe you know?
Sounds like gaming to me. If she is that inconstant and uncertain, it isn't a good sign. Encouraging someone and then leaving them hanging is either mindless or viscious. Which do you want?
Don't persist. If she contacts you, let your conscience be your guide. But Careful!
did you respond with the same intensity of being her everything? It's scary when you are the first to make a procalmation like that, the response you expect to get when you make it and what you get can shake us up. I think this applies to men and women alike. comparable to "Oh no ,I said too much." possibly she thinking why continue climbing this tree when there ain't no fruit on it.
First of all if it was a first date, I would never let anyone close to my family until I knew they were there for the long haul....I would never let my sons meet someone I was dating even at the age they are 16----18 unless they showed me a whole lot of worthiness first. I would not even dream of bringing home a one night stand around my sons. Guess I am really old fashioned. Oh well everyone is different. Maybe she just got cold feet or possibly personal problems occured. Just sit still and wait.....
Meet her half way, call her, email her, contract her some way, if she doesn't respond after two weeks, she wasn't interested in more with you.
Short of being in an accident and getting stuck in a hospital, or having a major death in her family, she should have answered back after that amount of time.
I totally agree with u Nina. My daughter's 15 and i won't bring guys i just started dating around her. I'm extremely picky so when the time comes to actually introduce a man i'm dating to her, she know's he's good for both of us.
well i finally did recieve a reply to my amazment she is after money nothing more well love doesn't grow on trees and i guess love is a thing she cannot cope with as she was more concerned about her social staus and life style so i guess this one is off the books
Allan..So sorry to hear that has happened to you! Some women can be just as vicious and play as many headgames as some men do. Sad but true. Ive had my share of 'junk' from people Ive met online..think I may have met a winner...but time will tell! WE are both very happy at this point! GOOD LUCK AND HOPEFULLY the right 'she' is out there for you!
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