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Mar 10, 2008 7:32 PM CST What would you done????
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
I quite with smoking 8 days ago.
My friends, here in NY do not belive me, they think I still smoking, and they think I do it in home too. Whole cigarettes which I have I gave them, I do it because I do not want to go in situation that I have cigarettes and I can smoke.

They know that too
But they do not believe to me. They “smell” smoke, and I am someone who “just lies”

I am so disappointment with their attitude!!!



very mad very mad very mad frustrated
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Mar 10, 2008 7:44 PM CST What would you done????
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
sandra35: I quite with smoking 8 days ago.
My friends, here in NY do not belive me, they think I still smoking, and they think I do it in home too. Whole cigarettes which I have I gave them, I do it because I do not want to go in situation that I have cigarettes and I can smoke.

They know that too
But they do not believe to me. They “smell” smoke, and I am someone who “just lies”

I am so disappointment with their attitude!!!


OMG!!!!!!!!!! With friends like that who needs enemies...they should be happy and supportive NOT calling you a liar!!!!!!

Nice....roll eyes

Here's what I would so...cross them off my friends list!!!!!!!!!


doh grin
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Mar 10, 2008 7:53 PM CST What would you done????
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
Hi there, just want to say keep up the good work. I quit 9yrs ago, I went day by day. people also dident believe me but you know I believed in myself. It was hard I marked ever day off the calender ever day that I maked off made me stronger. dont care what they say have faith in yourself, believe in yourself, because I know it is one of the hardest things you have to do. Day by Day..peace yay peace yay thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Mar 10, 2008 7:57 PM CST What would you done????
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
comfort sounds like they are just jealous...you are doing an amazing thing for yourself that will be a milestone to mark your life forever....some people just don't deal with success very well...try not to let them get to you, ignore the comments and keep on keeping on...after the 10th day it will get easier...hug


CONGRATS TO YOU!!!danceline balloons group hug
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Mar 10, 2008 8:10 PM CST What would you done????
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Do it for you, don't worry what they think.wave
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Mar 10, 2008 8:14 PM CST What would you done????
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
sandra35: I quite with smoking 8 days ago.
My friends, here in NY do not belive me, they think I still smoking, and they think I do it in home too. Whole cigarettes which I have I gave them, I do it because I do not want to go in situation that I have cigarettes and I can smoke.

They know that too
But they do not believe to me. They “smell” smoke, and I am someone who “just lies”

I am so disappointment with their attitude!!!


They'll come around. Friends will do things that upset us.
I forgive friends before enemies (I'm actually not aware of any at the moment, but the night is young).

Good for you Sandra.
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Mar 10, 2008 8:28 PM CST What would you done????
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
It's never too late to go back!!devil
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Mar 10, 2008 8:48 PM CST What would you done????
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Good for you cheering cheering
There may be a 'smell' of smoke around you for awhile if you've smoked for a long time,cause clothing retains the smell even if you can't smell it.
Just let them take a flying leap if they're not happy....stick to ur gunshug
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Mar 10, 2008 8:51 PM CST What would you done????
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
How much were you smoking before you quit?

Sometimes it can take more than a week or two before the smell of cigs leaves your system. By the way, you might want to get deeply involved in the laundry department. A few days after I quit, I noticed my house smelled like an ashtray.


wine
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Mar 10, 2008 8:55 PM CST What would you done????
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
My friggin' cat is trying to get me to quit. She's had a fascination with batting the Zippo around lately. I can't find it. Again. frustrated
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Mar 10, 2008 9:32 PM CST What would you done????
jammie
jammiejammieSuffolk, Virginia USA9 Posts
I quit twice for a year and so far it's been 4 years.

It doesn't seem like they are supportative of you. And they aren't. It isn't because they don't love you, it's because they are addicts that aren't in recovery. They might have trouble believing you because they really know how hard it really is.

Congratuations on where you are.

It's hard; but it won't get any harder. There will be days, and there will be days that will be better.

For the first year of my sucessfull attempt. I had to make a consious effort not to smoke. (Just like you see people talk about drinking). I don't regret it and I've been over that for 3 years now.

It might seem strange to you now; but at some time when you want to seperate yourself from smoking (and smoking situations); you will want to find more friends (ones that don't smoke).

Keep it up. Only a few more days and the 'physical' side of the DTs will be over.

Jammie
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Mar 10, 2008 9:40 PM CST What would you done????
danceline party balloons for you.Congrats,your now 1 of my heros.I'm trying the cut down method.cheering applause x100 for breaking a very addictive drug.You know the truth and it's your body.hug I am so happy for you.
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Mar 10, 2008 11:59 PM CST What would you done????
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
I smoke because I enjoy it.

I'll light one up for ya.....



peace
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Mar 11, 2008 12:01 AM CST What would you done????
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
sandra35: I quite with smoking 8 days ago.
My friends, here in NY do not belive me, they think I still smoking, and they think I do it in home too. Whole cigarettes which I have I gave them, I do it because I do not want to go in situation that I have cigarettes and I can smoke.

They know that too
But they do not believe to me. They “smell” smoke, and I am someone who “just lies”

I am so disappointment with their attitude!!!



Go about your business quietly; they don't need to know, and stay on track. handshake
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Mar 11, 2008 2:20 AM CST What would you done????
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
rwantin: My friggin' cat is trying to get me to quit. She's had a fascination with batting the Zippo around lately. I can't find it. Again.


wait til the cat bats it outta your mouth while it's lit thereby burning a hole in your shirt(lets hope you have a shirt on when the cat does this uh oh )
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Mar 11, 2008 3:29 AM CST What would you done????
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
shipoker55: It's never too late to go back!!


I don't wont to go beck.

Just is not ok to say: " I smel cigarete smoke here, I know you still smoking, do not try to say different - I just smel it"

What to say on that words? - Mauby: "You are stupid, I will smel like that next months, or next few weeks, it can not disapire imeditly" .....

I am without text on this kind of beheivore,
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Mar 11, 2008 3:35 AM CST What would you done????
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
nomindgames: for you.Congrats,your now 1 of my heros.I'm trying the cut down method. x100 for breaking a very addictive drug.You know the truth and it's your body. I am so happy for you.



thank you .............All you - THANK YOU

in one moment I think to get cigarets back (how disapoitment I was)

But with strong will I said: You do it for yourself - STOP and NOT
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Mar 11, 2008 3:37 AM CST What would you done????
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
j_goose: I smoke because I enjoy it.

I'll light one up for ya.....


I respect - if that is yor choice
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