I had to say this .. ( Archived) (130)

how bout the odor?
does it cement the similarity?

i dont hear ppl saying anything about length of membership
except when sometimes 'new' ppl are a bit inappropriate speaking on personal topics regarding other members

i would have something to say if anyone thot it was ok
to discuss or comment on someones relationship, esp. someone they dont even know.

if it were claire, joanne, lola, whomever-
its not ok-
i mean in the world its not ok-is it?
its also against CS policy

im sure im not explaining what i mean very well
i just think sometimes when we try to suggest a 'better behavior' to someone-or someone newish-it often becomes misunderstood.



other than that its kind of a bummer that ppl say behind the scenes they believe someone behaved unkindly-but wont say
anything in forum-unless maybe its a more '________person-
fill in the blank-helpless/gentle/???

but this is also like real life-what can ya do?

but believe me some here today have no idea the quantity or quality of members that arent here anymore.
blame is a little useless but being welcoming today is attainable...

As far as attacks go, If you can not intelligently back up your arguement and resort to trying to belittle someone because you have no more "ammo" for your debate, then you make yourself look weak and open yourself up for attack...IMO

Don't post something and then run away without defending your platform, and don't start an onslaught of a member because you don't agree with them.

I attack when provoked. I defend other memebers when they are attacked. And I'll shut you down as quickly as possible. I find it funny when they start in on someone, but when the tables get turned, they resort to foolish name calling...THAT'S the point where I make them Irrate. Makes them look foolish to everyone around them.

It is a dullard who speaks his mind without listening to anothers opnion or answering a simple question about his/her stance. And yes, I can ask you a question that is impossible to answer without making you question your belief on a subject. (That's the spirit of a debate) But if you can't answer intelligently, say so.

But state your opnion. And remember it's an opnion, it may not be right. To say yours is the only true one also opens you up for attack.

Don't try to look high and mighty. I'l be the first one to call you out on that.

"Raise your aguement, not your voice."

^^^^^^^
beware:
inside information from a blockhead with a hammer

"Raise your arguement...not your voice" I like that.

Why thank you.....LMAO........

Hello I'm lost

sounding 'high and mighty' is perception
isnt it 'high and mighty' to think we are the arbiters of it?

if people relied on what they DO know about each other
or waiting to get to know someone a bit
before relying on these perceptions
there might be more conversations


just a thot.


oops-RIYA! its tiiiiiime

if not me then who?
if not now then when?

Well I for one am tired of it...I know I have taken part and am not taking part anymore because all this back and forth solves nothing...I will just choose to ignore it from now because I find it makes me feel very negative and that's not me...So back to normal programming for me regardless...I would like to see the forums get back to being a happy and fun place to be and am willing to do my part to make that happen!!!!!!!!!!!!