cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
tufty: Kinda realised I was feeling pretty lazy and demotivated about 3 years ago, soooooo gave up faffing about with databases and spreadsheets and got a job out and about driving a truck, delivering stuff, picking stuff up, driving a forklift, the odd DIY job here and there, not been happier in YEARS
do you have some energy left or you just need a beer and TV when you get home...
Do all men end up lazy, demotivated and bored even before their 40's?
Well yes of course.I am over 40 and turned into a homeless no good drunk.Too lazy to even brush my teeth.
Just kidding.It seems like a lot of guys my age go thru the so called midlife crisis.Dump their life,grow a beard,date a teenie and get a harley. you figure.
Sorry ladies, gotta go...I gotta do the lawn and then move some furniture, and then knock some cold ones down at the local rock bar while beating some ladies at pool...it's a long weekend...
redbellypirhana: Sorry ladies, gotta go...I gotta do the lawn and then move some furniture, and then knock some cold ones down at the local rock bar while beating some ladies at pool...it's a long weekend...
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
mbcasey: Robbie...when the meds wear off, you will see you haven't typed anything bad or more unusual than the usual!! Hope you feel better.
Ken i take em every 8 hours, it wont matter.Only thing that is important is i remember which room the loo is in and i dont think my cats are toothbrushes.
gangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK5,028 posts
RobbieM: Ken i take em every 8 hours, it wont matter.Only thing that is important is i remember which room the loo is in and i dont think my cats are toothbrushes.
It's really unfortunate that women and/or men have this deformed idea of what 'men/women are really like'. Seems like you are all attracted to this style and have never learnt to put two and two together and steer clear of this style of person. (because , you seem to be getting the same result) To finish off - idleness is not merely a male quality. I have known a lot of lazy women. Peace.
tufty: Kinda realised I was feeling pretty lazy and demotivated about 3 years ago, soooooo gave up faffing about with databases and spreadsheets and got a job out and about driving a truck, delivering stuff, picking stuff up, driving a forklift, the odd DIY job here and there, not been happier in YEARS
That's cool. I'm still doing the corporate thing. I really don't know what else I'd want to do?
And no Cristina, not all men over 40 are lazy, I'm starting the 2nd half of my life. It's all good...
cristina: Yeah, i wanna know if their first enthusiasm always dies... I wanna know if they stop being actives, i wanna know if we really have to be their mothers as even to give them the enthusiasm for life, which most of the times turns us into day cares, trying to grab a difficult smile, a rare laughter?
Do they always act as if life is no different than if we would not be there? But then they are the drama queens when there is big issue...just like real kids?
Have any of you, women out there had an active man for long, who was really active by nature and loved doing stuff without feeling employee of the marriege?
tell us girls
Look into the mirror!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Doesn't say much for a woman's smarts now does it???
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
galaxy15: It's really unfortunate that women and/or men have this deformed idea of what 'men/women are really like'. Seems like you are all attracted to this style and have never learnt to put two and two together and steer clear of this style of person. (because , you seem to be getting the same result) To finish off - idleness is not merely a male quality. I have known a lot of lazy women. Peace.
Hey, newbie, are you a counselor or what? Did i ask for help?
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do you have some energy left or you just need a beer and TV when you get home...