Do all men end up lazy, demotivated and bored even before their 40's? (73)
cristina: Yeah, i wanna know if their first enthusiasm always dies...
I wanna know if they stop being actives, i wanna know if we really have to be their mothers as even to give them the enthusiasm for life, which most of the times turns us into day cares, trying to grab a difficult smile, a rare laughter?
Do they always act as if life is no different than if we would not be there? But then they are the drama queens when there is big issue...just like real kids?
Have any of you, women out there had an active man for long, who was really active by nature and loved doing stuff without feeling employee of the marriege?
tell us girls
I wanna know if they stop being actives, i wanna know if we really have to be their mothers as even to give them the enthusiasm for life, which most of the times turns us into day cares, trying to grab a difficult smile, a rare laughter?
Do they always act as if life is no different than if we would not be there? But then they are the drama queens when there is big issue...just like real kids?
Have any of you, women out there had an active man for long, who was really active by nature and loved doing stuff without feeling employee of the marriege?
tell us girls
lol
I have always been lazy, demotivated and bored with life!!
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No , I was lazier, bored and demotivated in my teens 
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bren1: No , I was lazier, bored and demotivated in my teens
lol
must be a british thing!!
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tinymac: lol
must be a british thing!!
must be a british thing!!
No , just a Bren thing.
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bren1: No , just a Bren thing.
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I was going to be evil and say they get lazy, boring and comatose when they are 35. But decided to be nice and say they stay reasonably active or at least still able to put one foot in front of the other without a boot up the a#se until their 40th birthday 
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Zellarrone1: I was going to be evil and say they get lazy, boring and comatose when they are 35. But decided to be nice and say they stay reasonably active or at least still able to put one foot in front of the other without a boot up the a#se until their 40th birthday
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bren1: No , I was lazier, bored and demotivated in my teens
All that changed when you decided to practise your spiderman tactics though. You look fit as a flea scaling up the wall in your pic
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bren1: No , just a Bren thing.
hahaha
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It hit me at 17....and been going downhill ever since
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shipoker55: It hit me at 17....and been going downhill ever since
it's all clear now ship
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45 years old here...not a couch potato yet....
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Kinda realised I was feeling pretty lazy and demotivated about 3 years ago, soooooo gave up faffing about with databases and spreadsheets and got a job out and about driving a truck, delivering stuff, picking stuff up, driving a forklift, the odd DIY job here and there, not been happier in YEARS 
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tufty: Kinda realised I was feeling pretty lazy and demotivated about 3 years ago, soooooo gave up faffing about with databases and spreadsheets and got a job out and about driving a truck, delivering stuff, picking stuff up, driving a forklift, the odd DIY job here and there, not been happier in YEARS
Thats the way it should be. I'm ready to go back to work, but there is no way I'm going back to what I used to do - network administration, network security admin, and software support. Too stressful.
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Still trying to find a woman anywhere near
my age that can keep up with me.
My my, hey hey,
better to burn out,
than fade away!!!
my age that can keep up with me.
My my, hey hey,
better to burn out,
than fade away!!!
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Boy I kinda hope so! cause then I could say I had my fiance's best years and his new girlfriend can have whats left
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Clearly you have a knack for meeting bums!
better luck in the future
better luck in the future
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bodleing: Still trying to find a woman anywhere near
my age that can keep up with me.
My my, hey hey,
better to burn out,
than fade away!!!
my age that can keep up with me.
My my, hey hey,
better to burn out,
than fade away!!!
Keep it up,Body!!
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I wanna know if they stop being actives, i wanna know if we really have to be their mothers as even to give them the enthusiasm for life, which most of the times turns us into day cares, trying to grab a difficult smile, a rare laughter?
Do they always act as if life is no different than if we would not be there? But then they are the drama queens when there is big issue...just like real kids?
Have any of you, women out there had an active man for long, who was really active by nature and loved doing stuff without feeling employee of the marriege?
tell us girls