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May 29, 2008 1:53 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
moonfoxinthesnow
moonfoxinthesnowmoonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA9 Threads 347 Posts
martyg: Sorry hon...I lost you on this point...
(I think you need to take a second look at your past relationships and realize what they were bringing to your relationship to balance it out... like maybe communication?)Can you break this one down for me?? I never was one to believe in the opposites theory..
I do think that its just a myth...I am more of a believer in having a lot in common with a partner.
I think that this helps the friendship aspect of the relationship



I've studied people all my life... I learned it at a very young age to protect myself. With that being said most successful couples I have ever met generally had one major difference that balanced out their relationships.

I have personal examples I can give such as neighbors I once had, we had olive oil who married Bluto (our nick names for them because they litterally looked like the popeye cartoon characters) their opposite was size, he was short and very stout she was tall and lanky.

There was Carol and Wade, Carol is very controlling and organized and her husband Wade is very layed back and go with the flow.

There was Barbie and Ken, Barbie actually divorced Ken and married Hill Billy man... Ken was too much like Barbie they got along just fine but their relationship got stagnant. Hill Billy man was the opposite of Ken at that point and therefor very attractive to Barbie.

For me, I've been raised by men most of my life.. never really had a good female roll model... I tend to be naturally attracted to mommas boys mumbling

Get the idea?
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May 29, 2008 2:00 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I have always been the dumped one, so I can't answer your question.

<---help
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May 29, 2008 2:05 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
I plea the 5th.......
as long as she hasn't already drank ituh oh
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May 29, 2008 2:09 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
moonfoxinthesnow: I've studied people all my life... I learned it at a very young age to protect myself. With that being said most successful couples I have ever met generally had one major difference that balanced out their relationships.

I have personal examples I can give such as neighbors I once had, we had olive oil who married Bluto (our nick names for them because they litterally looked like the popeye cartoon characters) their opposite was size, he was short and very stout she was tall and lanky.

There was Carol and Wade, Carol is very controlling and organized and her husband Wade is very layed back and go with the flow.

There was Barbie and Ken, Barbie actually divorced Ken and married Hill Billy man... Ken was too much like Barbie they got along just fine but their relationship got stagnant. Hill Billy man was the opposite of Ken at that point and therefor very attractive to Barbie.

For me, I've been raised by men most of my life.. never really had a good female roll model... I tend to be naturally attracted to mommas boys

Get the idea?



Yeah..I think so...

Your more mixed up then i amrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Sorry..just kidding honhug
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May 29, 2008 2:10 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
mbcasey: I have always been the dumped one, so I can't answer your question.

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Ya just gotta learn to be faster on the draw Kenthumbs up cheers
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May 29, 2008 2:23 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
moonfoxinthesnow
moonfoxinthesnowmoonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA9 Threads 347 Posts
martyg: Yeah..I think so...

Your more mixed up then i am

Sorry..just kidding hon



LOL Truth hurts!doh ... but at least I know it and I am open about it! professor

hug
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May 29, 2008 2:26 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
moonfoxinthesnow: LOL Truth hurts! ... but at least I know it and I am open about it!



I can see something in you now....grin
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May 29, 2008 5:01 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
moonfoxinthesnow
moonfoxinthesnowmoonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA9 Threads 347 Posts
Who? Me? Ummmmm is that a good thing?
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May 29, 2008 6:46 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
martyg: Ya just gotta learn to be faster on the draw Ken


laugh rolling on the floor laughing

I guess I am just too romantic and the women finally came to their senses!!!
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May 29, 2008 6:49 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
moonfoxinthesnow: I have never met a single woman that didn't have at least one of those faults.


haha I was just thinking that too laugh
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May 29, 2008 6:54 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
moonfoxinthesnow
moonfoxinthesnowmoonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA9 Threads 347 Posts
martyg: I can see something in you now....


and you didn't before?blues moping
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May 29, 2008 7:58 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
wave
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May 29, 2008 8:01 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
"It's not you, it's me"

I have no idea, I usually get that line. dunno
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May 29, 2008 9:31 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
moonfoxinthesnow: and you didn't before?



I didnt really have a good look beforegrin
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May 30, 2008 1:41 AM CST Ok MEN your turn!
moonfoxinthesnow
moonfoxinthesnowmoonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA9 Threads 347 Posts
martyg: I didnt really have a good look before




awwwwww hug Thank you :) yay


teddybear
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May 30, 2008 3:49 AM CST Ok MEN your turn!
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
martyg: I dont think you realise just how accurate your question is

I honestly dont know....I never seem to notice it at the start, its only later that i realise the fact that i keep doing this for some strange reason
that works in reversal to; same for women you get to know a person until you start to spend time with them. By then you have started a relationship jmo
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May 30, 2008 3:54 AM CST Ok MEN your turn!
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
Heh..... brings to mind the book title...

" Everybody's Normal Until You Get To Know Them "



















SHANTI
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Jun 4, 2008 3:52 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
StressFree: whiy do you post like quoting me but thoise are not my words


as i usually say, people that are liars and robbers are the ones twisting others words

you quote a few words to be able to add your own words

be a man and post your own opinion

coward
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Jun 4, 2008 4:11 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
alex_192: Give me man love, or give me hell
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Jun 4, 2008 4:27 PM CST Ok MEN your turn!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
moonfoxinthesnow: I am wondering what makes you turn and run the other way?? either while looking at potential dating material, first dates, second dates or a year down the line. Give us girls a clue as to what we might be doing wrong!


I have no idea. It's our intuitive/instinctive sense that guides us most of the time. Hard to explain.
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