Life's Transitions ( Archived) (69)

Jun 17, 2008 4:00 PM CST Life's Transitions
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
What are you rollin your eyes at????????????


tongue





professor







rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 17, 2008 4:04 PM CST Life's Transitions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
kidatheart: roll eyes


Men give me a hard time, so I'm just returning the favor...batting
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Jun 17, 2008 4:09 PM CST Life's Transitions
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I haven't given anyone here a hard time....yet.devil


Maybe I'll morph into a purple jeelybean....that sounds like it'd be fun. It could be the most difficult transition of all.laugh


tongue
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Jun 17, 2008 4:11 PM CST Life's Transitions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
kidatheart: I haven't given anyone here a hard time....yet. Maybe I'll morph into a purple jeelybean....that sounds like it'd be fun. It could be the most difficult transition of all.


It's the nature of the beast....all men give woman a hard time.....maybe you haven't given anyone a hard time, or at least not here, but you have to pay for the sins of your brothers....


purple jelly beans???wtf ????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Jun 17, 2008 4:18 PM CST Life's Transitions
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
Maybe a special catagory. Death of your child. Been through most of the others except i (of course) k and j. Everything else pales in comparison.
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Jun 17, 2008 4:18 PM CST Life's Transitions
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Portiea: It's the nature of the beast....all men give woman a hard time.....maybe you haven't given anyone a hard time, or at least not here, but you have to pay for the sins of your brothers....purple jelly beans???wtf ????



I agree and all men rightly should....Kid hasn't given anyone trouble today so far...BUT that doesn't mean he wasn't thinking about it!!!!!!!!!!!!


professor roll eyes laugh devil
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Jun 17, 2008 4:20 PM CST Life's Transitions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
woody636: Maybe a special catagory. Death of your child. Been through most of the others except i (of course) k and j. Everything else pales in comparison.


Yes, everything else pales in comparison....everything.....
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Jun 17, 2008 4:22 PM CST Life's Transitions
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Portiea: It's the nature of the beast....all men give woman a hard time.....maybe you haven't given anyone a hard time, or at least not here, but you have to pay for the sins of your brothers....purple jelly beans???wtf ????



I don't believe in sin, therefor I cannot be held accountable for the transgressions of my gender.professor

tongue


Purple is a royal colour. What did you expect, green?rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 17, 2008 4:56 PM CST Life's Transitions
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Portiea: Life’s transitions…..What do you think are the most important and possibly most difficult and/or fulfilling transitions in life and why do you say so? (If I have forgotten one, please add it.)

a. From childhood into teenage years
b. Being a teenager
c. From being a teenager to being an adult
d. Your first real job
e. Getting married and starting a family
f. Divorce or being widowed
g. Death of a very close loved one
h. Middle age for both men and woman
i. Menopause for women
j. Over 50 for both men and women
k. Reaching retirement age….65 traditionally
l. Facing the last years of your life….75 plus
I think the most difficult one will be .L. Wondering how long I'm here for in my senior years professor I'll be worried I become infirm and end up in some awful old folks home. Or if I'm still fit then I'll be wondering when I'm going to peg out. Also, not much future to look forward to and plan things for after 75. In fact I hope I'm not alive at 75 then it'll save me the worry blues
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Jun 17, 2008 4:57 PM CST Life's Transitions
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Zellarrone1: I think the most difficult one will be .L. Wondering how long I'm here for in my senior years I'll be worried I become infirm and end up in some awful old folks home. Or if I'm still fit then I'll be wondering when I'm going to peg out. Also, not much future to look forward to and plan things for after 75. In fact I hope I'm not alive at 75 then it'll save me the worry


Don't worry sis, you'll have Alzheimers and won't remember a thing...tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 17, 2008 5:07 PM CST Life's Transitions
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Seems like facing the final curtain would be the most trying. No turning back and knowing death is knocking at the door...a time we'd evaluate missed opportunities and a multitude of losses.

Of course some may be able to appreciate the lives they've led.
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Jun 17, 2008 5:07 PM CST Life's Transitions
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: Don't worry sis, you'll have Alzheimers and won't remember a thing...
laugh and I'll be all confused and still think I'm younger than 75 laugh
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Jun 17, 2008 5:08 PM CST Life's Transitions
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Zellarrone1: and I'll be all and still think I'm younger than 75


I imagine I'll remember my graduation like it was yesterday, which in terms of things I've forgotten, would be true...
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Jun 17, 2008 5:13 PM CST Life's Transitions
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
kidatheart: I haven't given anyone here a hard time....yet. Maybe I'll morph into a purple jeelybean....that sounds like it'd be fun. It could be the most difficult transition of all.


Good one.. thumbs up

Funny, too.
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Jun 17, 2008 11:26 PM CST Life's Transitions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
Indyfella: Seems like facing the final curtain would be the most trying. No turning back and knowing death is knocking at the door...a time we'd evaluate missed opportunities and a multitude of losses.

Of course some may be able to appreciate the lives they've led.


Do you think you will be able to? Are you living your life so that reflecting back on it when it is ending with be a somewhat satisfying thing? I know I've missed some opportunities....and make mistakes, but always in my mind is the idea that there is only this one life, only this one chance and I don't want to face the end thinking I didn't pursue my dreams and make as many of the things happen for me as I wanted to happen.
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Jun 17, 2008 11:35 PM CST Life's Transitions
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
death of a very close loved one
the fear of the unknown. Never being with that loved one again
not knowing what happens when they die. The ? what if there is nothing when they die. Is it goodbye 4-ever crying
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Jun 17, 2008 11:48 PM CST Life's Transitions
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Portiea: Life’s transitions…..What do you think are the most important and possibly most difficult and/or fulfilling transitions in life and why do you say so? (If I have forgotten one, please add it.)

a. From childhood into teenage years
b. Being a teenager
c. From being a teenager to being an adult
d. Your first real job
e. Getting married and starting a family
f. Divorce or being widowed
g. Death of a very close loved one
h. Middle age for both men and woman
i. Menopause for women
j. Over 50 for both men and women
k. Reaching retirement age….65 traditionally
l. Facing the last years of your life….75 plus



For myself it would be E and F; the Alpha and the Omega of Life. As a song goes, 'it's all over now....'
The rest, I don't give a damn about, never did. Hopefully the next Life will be a lot better...
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Jun 18, 2008 3:22 AM CST Life's Transitions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
solitare: For myself it would be E and F; the Alpha and the Omega of Life. As a song goes, 'it's all over now....'
The rest, I don't give a damn about, never did. Hopefully the next Life will be a lot better...


What if this is all there is?? Nothing else matters except E and F? Why not?
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Jun 18, 2008 3:47 AM CST Life's Transitions
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
I think- with the death of both parents comes the stark realisation of ones own mortality and aloneness
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Jun 18, 2008 5:32 AM CST Life's Transitions
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Portiea: Do you think you will be able to? Are you living your life so that reflecting back on it when it is ending with be a somewhat satisfying thing? I know I've missed some opportunities....and make mistakes, but always in my mind is the idea that there is only this one life, only this one chance and I don't want to face the end thinking I didn't pursue my dreams and make as many of the things happen for me as I wanted to happen.


I think we all "take stock" along the way. At least I do. There are some things that can be corrected or adjusted. Of course, some can't. But as we hit the 70's, there's going to be more limitations due to biological factors.

I wish I'd had at least one more child. That won't happen. Wish I'd taken a different career path. That could happen, but it wouldn't be the same as if I'd done it in my 30's. Just a few examples. Still have a few dreams/goals left though...w/o that, life would have little meaning. JMO
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