gypsykisses: is separated and divorced the same thing? Could someone please explain this to me. When someone says they are separated, are the eligible for my affections?
When someone says they are seperated, I think the first question I would ask is "How Long?" I've known guys that would use that line just to get a sympathy screw & then go home to their wives.Even if they tell you they are divorced, I would want to see the divorce papers, unless I also know the ex-wife.
Portiea: I do not get involved with or allow myself to feel anything for a man who is separated. I did that once and after a few months he returned to his wife though he had told me adamently in the beginning that the marriage was definitely over.
When a man is single, divorced, or widowed, to me, he is available...otherwise, no.
thank you for your advice on this. I wonder how often the separated person goes back to his wife. I wonder about this a lot, guess I should have made a thread, eh?
gypsykisses: thank you for your advice on this. I wonder how often the separated person goes back to his wife. I wonder about this a lot, guess I should have made a thread, eh?
Me, I am irritating myself, I have been talking to someone here, and I like him very much, but I keep putting myself on a rollercoaster ride. And I have no clue as to why?
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
gypsykisses: is separated and divorced the same thing? Could someone please explain this to me. When someone says they are separated, are the eligible for my affections?
I would date someone separated.. but it would depend on how long it had been.. 3mths.. no wayyyy... 6mths.. hmmm. possibly... not sure..
12mths + yeah I'd have no probs.
(I just did your FB garden for you.. you had a fox )
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
2catchastar: Me, I am irritating myself, I have been talking to someone here, and I like him very much, but I keep putting myself on a rollercoaster ride. And I have no clue as to why?
are you thinking too much into it? .. thinking too far ahead?
Claayer: are you thinking too much into it? .. thinking too far ahead?
Maybe to much into it, but not to far ahead. I have never been the jelious type and yet I find with him I seem to be just that. with no reason really either. Just seems to me this guy is changing me, and I don't know if it is for the good or bad, and I am not so sure I like it. So I have been up and down, and side to side.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
Scottishlass: When someone says they are seperated, I think the first question I would ask is "How Long?" I've known guys that would use that line just to get a sympathy screw & then go home to their wives.Even if they tell you they are divorced, I would want to see the divorce papers, unless I also know the ex-wife.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
2catchastar: Me, I am irritating myself, I have been talking to someone here, and I like him very much, but I keep putting myself on a rollercoaster ride. And I have no clue as to why?
How come I finally get a four-day weekend and end up having to work every night of it? It is bad enough I have to work my regular days off but I even have to work on my special ones
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