Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....
sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search..
They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
mattw7145: Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
shipoker55: Get involved in the forums and let the women know what you are about. It works better than e-mails from a new guy!! JMO..of course
Yep. What he said. It's a lot easier to get to know someone from talking with them and others on the forums. A "cold call" type of e-mail usually scares the other away.
I won't criticize you. What I will do is attempt to give you a bit of friendly advice - do what you will with it...
Don't set yourself up for a let-down, involving any certain expectations you may or may not have in being here. Have fun, go with the flow, post on the forums that interest you, don't search sooooooo hard - or you are bound to be even more disappointed that you seem to be already. I don't know about other sites, but yes, this site does and has worked, for some.
mattw7145: Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
Hi, welcome to cs. i'm new myself to this so i'm just gonna have some fun and enjoy a laugh. remember sometimes things happen when you least expect it so enjoy..
Matt, I came in here about a week ago and did a search just kike you blah blah same ole same ole and stumbled into this forum. Dude, it's great. There's good advise, freindy poeple that can spell and it's hilarios. Hang out for a while. poke around. bob
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RedHeadedTaurus: Don't set yourself up for a let-down, involving any certain expectations you may or may not have in being here. Have fun, go with the flow, post on the forums that interest you, don't search sooooooo hard - or you are bound to be even more disappointed that you seem to be already. I don't know about other sites, but yes, this site does and has worked, for some. Relax & enjoy your time here.
hey everyone again thanks for all the info, and im not disappointed, just here for the fun of it, but im a realist, and reality is nothing will happen unless you work for it. im just working for it lol, thanks again.
WhatUwish4: Yep. What he said. It's a lot easier to get to know someone from talking with them and others on the forums. A "cold call" type of e-mail usually scares the other away.
mattw7145: Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
Exactly, getting involved in the forums is a very good idea...you can get to know people and in turn they can get to know you too...it does actually work, I've seen it!
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sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search..
They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...