How much you can love that wheel chair??? ( Archived) (87)

Jul 3, 2008 6:48 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
will you be able to love somebody on the wheel chair??? What you see first when you look at the person on the wheel chair???
sad flower
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Jul 3, 2008 7:00 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
lola36: will you be able to love somebody on the wheel chair??? What you see first when you look at the person on the wheel chair???



Ohhh sorry but I am not on the wheel chair guys.....laugh don't be afraid to talk about it pl...hug kiss
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Jul 3, 2008 7:06 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
There was a time when I needed a wheelchair, (badly broken foot), and people , even ones I knew well, kind of overlooked me in conversations, and treated me deferentially.

It is the case maybe with lots of disabilities.

My son lost his voice once and his clients and friends started shouting at him like he was deaf too. (Though why anyone shouts at a deaf person is beyond me).

Good thread topic...thumbs up
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Jul 3, 2008 7:10 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
gingerb: There was a time when I needed a wheelchair, (badly broken foot), and people , even ones I knew well, kind of overlooked me in conversations, and treated me deferentially.

It is the case maybe with lots of disabilities.

My son lost his voice once and his clients and friends started shouting at him like he was deaf too. (Though why anyone shouts at a deaf person is beyond me).

Good thread topic...


Thank you sweet heart,it means a lot to me,because at the moment I am close to that person,but all I see is his great loving and caring heart...sad flower
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Jul 3, 2008 7:12 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
As easily as I could love anyone.
OK it may be one of the first things you see but the outside on anyone is the first thing we see.
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Jul 3, 2008 7:16 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
vonney: As easily as I could love anyone.
OK it may be one of the first things you see but the outside on anyone is the first thing we see.



Was waiting for that...thank you...kiss
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Jul 3, 2008 7:21 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
lola36: will you be able to love somebody on the wheel chair??? What you see first when you look at the person on the wheel chair???


Yes I can love a person in a wheel chair.....but not be IN love with that person.

Before anyone jumps on me for that......I don't believe I can be IN love with anyone, wheelchair or not. But I can love all without reservation
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Jul 3, 2008 7:21 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
I think I can fallin in love but I don't know any person on the wheel chair. When I look at person on the wheel chair I feel sad because I know how wonderful is ability to walk, run and feel independent from others.
I have friend who lost leg in tram acident when he was child. He has artificial limb by all his life. Now he play in our volleyballs national team.
He is vey handsome so I think girls have no problem with fallin in love with him :).

I think disability is not a problem in love.

Problem is when you fallin in love with somebody who is mentaly ill because you can't see this.
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Jul 3, 2008 7:24 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Barnagie: I think I can fallin in love but I don't know any person on the wheel chair. When I look at person on the wheel chair I feel sad because I know how wonderful is ability to walk, run and feel independent from others.
I have friend who lost leg in tram acident when he was child. He has artificial limb by all his life. Now he play in our volleyballs national team.
He is vey handsome so I think girls have no problem with fallin in love with him :).

I think disability is not a problem in love.

Problem is when you fallin in love with somebody who is mentaly ill because you can't see this.



Thanks brother....wink
What you said is wonderful...and I will always think this way...hug
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Jul 3, 2008 7:27 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
shipoker55: Yes I can love a person in a wheel chair.....but not be IN love with that person.

Before anyone jumps on me for that......I don't believe I can be IN love with anyone, wheelchair or not. But I can love all without reservation



I know what you mean,if you think you are not able to be IN love with anyone ,then why you should be IN love with somebody in a wheel chair??? Simple as that,......hug kiss
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Jul 3, 2008 7:39 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
If you loved a person without a wheelchair and they became wheelchair bound.......would you stop loving them.....no!

Then you can fall in love with a wheelchair bound person to start with.

If you can not still love a person after they become wheel chair bound....then you are more crippled in life than they.

Truly are we not all crippled in some way.....some by bad experiences and conditions.......others by fowl and self centered personalities. One by life, the other by choices,.... one acceptable and one condemnable.
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Jul 3, 2008 7:48 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: If you loved a person without a wheelchair and they became wheelchair bound.......would you stop loving them.....no!

Then you can fall in love with a wheelchair bound person to start with.

If you can not still love a person after they become wheel chair bound....then you are more crippled in life than they.

Truly are we not all crippled in some way.....some by bad experiences and conditions.......others by fowl and self centered personalities. One by life, the other by choices,.... one acceptable and one condemnable.


Lovely post...i can learn from it a lot....hug
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Jul 3, 2008 9:05 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
I dunno I suppose so.. I don't see why not. If I fell in love with someone a wheelchair certainly wouldn't stop me.
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Jul 3, 2008 9:05 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: If you loved a person without a wheelchair and they became wheelchair bound.......would you stop loving them.....no!

Then you can fall in love with a wheelchair bound person to start with.

If you can not still love a person after they become wheel chair bound....then you are more crippled in life than they.

Truly are we not all crippled in some way.....some by bad experiences and conditions.......others by fowl and self centered personalities. One by life, the other by choices,.... one acceptable and one condemnable.


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Jul 3, 2008 9:09 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Claayer: I dunno I suppose so.. I don't see why not. If I fell in love with someone a wheelchair certainly wouldn't stop me.



There is she ...always around with a great advise ...hug kiss








ps;I am not sharing my ice cream with you anyway...Lolwink hug kiss
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Jul 3, 2008 9:11 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
lola36: There is she ...always around with a great advise ... ps;I am not sharing my ice cream with you anyway...Lol


hahaha... thats okay I just had some.. 'grin '


laugh hug
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Jul 3, 2008 9:23 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
gingerb: There was a time when I needed a wheelchair, (badly broken foot), and people , even ones I knew well, kind of overlooked me in conversations, and treated me deferentially.

It is the case maybe with lots of disabilities.

My son lost his voice once and his clients and friends started shouting at him like he was deaf too. (Though why anyone shouts at a deaf person is beyond me).

Good thread topic...


I have a disability and i have a friend who once dated a girl who used to talk to me like i was a child.

Ya know like speaking V-E-R-Y S-l-O-W-L-Y and it was incredibly annoying but thats just ignorance for ya. I spose she meant well. Anyway most of the women i have dated have been able-bodied but i wouldn't have a problem with dating someone with a disabilty because i think its whats on the inside that counts.

I could tell a million stories on this matter but i won't bore ya rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 3, 2008 9:25 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I have a disability and i have a friend who once dated a girl who used to talk to me like i was a child.

Ya know like speaking V-E-R-Y S-l-O-W-L-Y and it was incredibly annoying but thats just ignorance for ya. I spose she meant well. Anyway most of the women i have dated have been able-bodied but i wouldn't have a problem with dating someone with a disabilty because i think its whats on the inside that counts.

I could tell a million stories on this matter but i won't bore ya



Wow....you have a great experience then....hug kiss
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Jul 3, 2008 9:26 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I have a disability and i have a friend who once dated a girl who used to talk to me like i was a child.

Ya know like speaking V-E-R-Y S-l-O-W-L-Y and it was incredibly annoying but thats just ignorance for ya. I spose she meant well. Anyway most of the women i have dated have been able-bodied but i wouldn't have a problem with dating someone with a disabilty because i think its whats on the inside that counts.

I could tell a million stories on this matter but i won't bore ya


Bore us! applause


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Jul 3, 2008 9:28 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Claayer: Bore us!



doh laugh what is going on with that girl lately....i am not talking about that stuff you are licking lately...Lollaugh rolling on the floor laughing
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