I wouldn't get involved with a person in a wheelchair to begin with...but if I was involved and they became wheelchair bound after the fact...it wouldn't change my feelings
shipoker55: I wouldn't get involved with a person in a wheelchair to begin with...but if I was involved and they became wheelchair bound after the fact...it wouldn't change my feelings
lola36: Thank you sweet heart,it means a lot to me,because at the moment I am close to that person,but all I see is his great loving and caring heart...
Hey hon! What does it really matter what all of us think? Go with your heart. If you love the guy, what difference does it make?
lola36 ,I have told the story on here where I dated a w/c bound man.He lef me for another woman.Wasn't long courtship but when we met,I saw beautiful smile and sparking eyes,a hapy positive person.We re only disabled if we choose the label.Good self-esteem attracts people and wanting to be treated like anyone else would with respect.
Yes I definitely could fall in love with someone in a wheelchair. What is the difference in that or someone with artificial limbs or......me with glasses??? They are all just things we need to assist us in our living.
The things I dispise are mentally ignorant people....the ones who are prejudiced, bigoted, egotistical, etc.
We all live in the same world...whether we like it or not...and we just need to respect each other and quit being so judgmental.
I totally could fall in love with a person in a wheel chair! I've had a couple of serious crushes on guys in chairs. I work with handicapped people and have become very comfortable with them. EVERYONE needs love. I am frustrated everyday by peoples ignorance.
Aug 23, 2008 6:00 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
underarmourkingMorrisville, North Carolina USA1 Posts
underarmourkingMorrisville, North Carolina USA1 posts
It is possible to love someone in a wheel chair but for most of us, our prejudices never allow us to look beyong that physical stage. Just love everyone regardless of their dissability. We're not invincible so it could happen to all of us.
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Yes. I do actually happen to very much love someone in a wheel chair. Two people, in fact. And I take care of both of them.
What I see first is a person, who needs to be treated like a human being.