How much you can love that wheel chair??? ( Archived) (87)

Jul 3, 2008 12:12 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
lola36: will you be able to love somebody on the wheel chair??? What you see first when you look at the person on the wheel chair???






Yes. I do actually happen to very much love someone in a wheel chair. Two people, in fact. And I take care of both of them.

What I see first is a person, who needs to be treated like a human being.
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Jul 3, 2008 12:51 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
wolfpack
wolfpackwolfpackpost falls, Idaho USA8 Threads 770 Posts
I have worked in a hospital and nursing home. Iam use to wheelchairs.
Yes, I see a person with a story and I liked to hear it
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Jul 3, 2008 12:53 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
wolfpack: I have worked in a hospital and nursing home. Iam use to wheelchairs.
Yes, I see a person with a story and I liked to hear it






That's sweet...


handshake

smile
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Jul 3, 2008 1:10 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Simply Yes.
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Aug 22, 2008 9:14 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
co ludzie mowio na ten tehmat?
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Aug 22, 2008 9:18 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Definitely.

My best friend is paraplegic. No difference in the kindness, love, respect and compassion that he shows for his loved ones than you or I.

So if there is chemistry, I'm there!
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Aug 22, 2008 9:29 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I wouldn't get involved with a person in a wheelchair to begin with...but if I was involved and they became wheelchair bound after the fact...it wouldn't change my feelings
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Aug 22, 2008 9:33 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
shipoker55: I wouldn't get involved with a person in a wheelchair to begin with...but if I was involved and they became wheelchair bound after the fact...it wouldn't change my feelings



Why not? confused
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Aug 22, 2008 9:37 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
It wouldn't matter if he's in a wheelchair cause to me its what's on the inside that counts awhole lot more.
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Aug 22, 2008 9:38 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Why not?



Nothing in common. And I won't explain myself any farther. Just would not get involved
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Aug 23, 2008 12:22 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
friendsfirst: co ludzie mowio na ten tehmat?


This one worked for me tonight.
Thanks peeps.




teddybear teddybear teddybear
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Aug 23, 2008 12:27 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
lola36: Thank you sweet heart,it means a lot to me,because at the moment I am close to that person,but all I see is his great loving and caring heart...


Hey hon! wave What does it really matter what all of us think? Go with your heart. If you love the guy, what difference does it make?
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Aug 23, 2008 12:29 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36wave ,I have told the story on here where I dated a w/c bound man.He lef me for another woman.Wasn't long courtship but when we met,I saw beautiful smile and sparking eyes,a hapy positive person.We re only disabled if we choose the label.Good self-esteem attracts people and wanting to be treated like anyone else would with respect.teddybear
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Aug 23, 2008 12:30 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I COULD.
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Aug 23, 2008 6:37 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
xoredheadxo
xoredheadxoxoredheadxoMorgantown, West Virginia USA14 Threads 1,179 Posts
Yes I definitely could fall in love with someone in a wheelchair. What is the difference in that or someone with artificial limbs or......me with glasses??? They are all just things we need to assist us in our living.

The things I dispise are mentally ignorant people....the ones who are prejudiced, bigoted, egotistical, etc. very mad

We all live in the same world...whether we like it or not...and we just need to respect each other and quit being so judgmental.

JMO
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Aug 23, 2008 8:15 AM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
racingirl
racingirlracingirlColumbus, Ohio USA2 Posts
I totally could fall in love with a person in a wheel chair! I've had a couple of serious crushes on guys in chairs. I work with handicapped people and have become very comfortable with them. EVERYONE needs love. I am frustrated everyday by peoples ignorance.
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Aug 23, 2008 4:52 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
hug kiss teddybear What a nice people...bouquet
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Aug 23, 2008 6:00 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
underarmourking
underarmourkingunderarmourkingMorrisville, North Carolina USA1 Posts
It is possible to love someone in a wheel chair but for most of us, our prejudices never allow us to look beyong that physical stage. Just love everyone regardless of their dissability. We're not invincible so it could happen to all of us.
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Aug 23, 2008 7:14 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
Beenabout
BeenaboutBeenaboutPreston, Lancashire, England UK5 Threads 117 Posts
With Respect-Daft Question in the first place really?

If the Chemistry is there-and Love takes over-NOTHING else matters!
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Aug 24, 2008 12:05 PM CST How much you can love that wheel chair???
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
lola36: will you be able to love somebody on the wheel chair??? What you see first when you look at the person on the wheel chair???


Yes and have. You'd be amazed at how many people do not see the wheel chair, but the person.
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