Jul 19, 2008 2:22 AM CST Does online dating really work?(for men)
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
michae3322: I didnt mean it that way. Of course you know who you want to flirt with. So are saying the one's you flirt with dont keep flirting with you? Maybe a female needs to pick this up.
sorry love didnt mean to come off that way ,you will get used to me like the others did im farley im the nice one your man keeps telling you about
Jul 19, 2008 2:25 AM CST Does online dating really work?(for men)
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
dillydally: sorry love didnt mean to come off that way ,you will get used to me like the others did im farley im the nice one your man keeps telling you about
EnnailleLeeds, West Yorkshire, England UK167 posts
brasileiro1: Im very new to online dating and i figured it was only for other people,but i decided to try it out anyway. In the span of a few weeks,i turned from bright eyed and positive to cold and cynical, i think the ratio of men to women is vast,in favor of the women. Now im no male model but i think i look decent, in great shape and fairly interesting but none of that matters as the women have such a vast pool of prospective suitors that unless you meet every little criteria that they have you have no chance! and even if you do its still 50/50 because someone cuter might come along and all you will be is a fuzzy memory. Now i understand with women even if you are remotely attractive you will get hundreds of messages and its hard to answer all of them(although you could probably weed out the pervs,weirdos and creeps)it might be nice to answer the articulate,witty ones with a no thank you please, what i dont understand is if you send a message out,saying i like your profile,why would you not answer back to someone you sent a message to!(unless you are an employee of the website posing as a person to generate interest). I have come to a point where i dont even care about finding love, how about just friendship,but that also seems impossible. I honestly think sometimes that half of the profiles are not even of real people. Now saying that I will continue to use this site because its free and the people in the forum seem like real,honest and interesting people. I hope to god im wrong about this but i dont think i am. (side note/ I still believe in love and try to stay positive!) Obrigado pra seu tempo! Boa noite!
...Caro amigo - ja cheguei a mesma conclusao que vc!
Mas nao perca a esperanca um dia alguem legal aparecera!
Dear Friend - I came to the same conclusion. But dont lose hope - someone nice will come along!
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sorry love didnt mean to come off that way ,you will get used to me like the others did im farley im the nice one your man keeps telling you about