The Alternative ? What Is it ? ( Archived) (24)

Considering the millions of single available women on this planet that are searching for mates, one must consider there's less as many males seeking that same fulfillment.
Therefore, in any given country I would suppose that the odds and numbers of both available groups in percenatge and ratio stats would be about the same ratio wise.
I have been on several dating sites and have found myself to be more attractive to Foriegn women and contacted by them. While I have no issues with that, then I wonder why more American gals ignore my profile and look, yet fail attempting to converse with me whereas, so many other beautiful women across the world are attracted to me and contact me?
I wonder therefore how many other single men have the same situation developing ?
I myself find this Phenomena very interesting. I also find more chat in my mail than real interest. Considering I'm tall ,handsome, honest and secure causes me to wonder exactly what my own American Women are after?
Gone are the days of the Front Porch Rocker and the shared two straw Milkshake at the local Drugstore. Instead a huge vacuum seems to have replaced local values and commonsense. I mean, what man or woman wants to spend their lives whizzzzing around the world seeking a soulmate ?
Looks almost like the alternatives for many men and women would be "The Mailorder Bride" or a cheap" Blowup Doll".

Tom Diamond

So what's the problem?

You must be thrilled

So as an American Woman you think tis' okay to loose your men to other Countries ?I would think that you would be protective of your own vanishing available men which far underscore in count, single females in this country and across the world??
We are few, yet you are so very many.

Tom Diamond

JMO..... grass is always greener somewhere else... if north american women think men over seas are exotic and tempting.... why not be it in reverse for European women... you look like something exotic to them?

green card...... or its safer to want someone over seas.... to avoid a real relationship.... or they have an image of what someone from another country is like.... ??

Perhaps a touch of modesty wouldn't hurt...
Every guy online can spout off their fantastic charms list, just as any girl can go on & on about how they're sweet, loving & pretty. If your market is over seas, have at it.
...mind you, whining like a simpering child really doesn't sell well to the American girls.

Good luck.

I had a woman contact me from Houston Texas. Great! A really intelligent woman and stunningly beautiful. I replied but found she is actually living in Southeast Asia !
I ,like many of you respect truth. We all need to use good judgement. I guess tonight I'll have to go out and grab a few Buds and do some dancing to get over my ,lying Beauty,LOL.


Tom Diamond

Some of us may look and never contact because we've found one or two things in the profile that are "no go" for us. So why bother going someplace if you already know it's not what you want.

Tom,
Maybe because, American women don't NEED a man or a husband. Compare these foreign women to American women. We earn more money and have a better education.

Me personally? I am completely financially independent. I don't need to be saved or taken care of.

The reason I am looking for a man who is equally educated and gainfully employed is because I'm not going to support a drunken jobless slob .

If I don't find the man of my dreams, thats ok too. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than settle for a pig who will make me miserable.

If your waiting for someone to jump up and say "Oh no! don't give up hope, Tom" then you'll be waiting a llllloooooooonnnnnnggggggg time. So in the mean time start blowing your plastic doll.

Big Hat, No Cattle