Why are CS relationships of a very short time? (156)
eve1woman: didn't read all the posts, just want to say I could never allow myself to fall in love with words written on a page would most definitely have to meet the person before I would have any clue as to any possibility of a happy and healthy relationship jmo...
I agree 100%
I guess maybe we should all see the dating as a quest to see if two people are compatible or not...
After all..It seems to be the best way to find out
Why does there have to be fall outs and bad feeling if compatibility is not possible..
Maybe we should be more grateful that someone took the time to take a chance on us rather then taking it so damn personal..
JOM..
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Indyfella: After a while people get so used to hunting, that it's hard to stop....for fear something better may be out there.Sadly, it's probably not.
That's tough to argue with indy
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martyg: I agree 100%
I guess maybe we should all see the dating as a quest to see if two people are compatible or not...
After all..It seems to be the best way to find out
Why does there have to be fall outs and bad feeling if compatibility is not possible..
Maybe we should be more grateful that someone took the time to take a chance on us rather then taking it so damn personal.. JOM..
I guess maybe we should all see the dating as a quest to see if two people are compatible or not...
After all..It seems to be the best way to find out
Why does there have to be fall outs and bad feeling if compatibility is not possible..
Maybe we should be more grateful that someone took the time to take a chance on us rather then taking it so damn personal.. JOM..
I agree 100% it is unrealistic to think the first person you make a date with will be THE one......
it could take many many dates before you find compatibility (if ever) but as they say nothing ventured nothing gained so I suppose don't be afraid to date and enjoy it for what it is
simply ' a date ' so make the most of it and enjoy
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martyg:
Maybe we should be more grateful that someone took the time to take a chance on us rather then taking it so damn personal.. JOM..
Maybe we should be more grateful that someone took the time to take a chance on us rather then taking it so damn personal.. JOM..
Great point Marty. All the guys I've been out with since my divorce, I feel grateful for the time we spent together. If it didn't work out for whatever reason, that doesn't make either of us bad people. If I thought that I'd seriously be worried about my judgement in going out with them in the first place. 
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eve1woman: I agree 100% it is unrealistic to think the first person you make a date with will be THE one......
it could take many many dates before you find compatibility (if ever) but as they say nothing ventured nothing gained so I suppose don't be afraid to date and enjoy it for what it is
simply ' a date ' so make the most of it and enjoy
it could take many many dates before you find compatibility (if ever) but as they say nothing ventured nothing gained so I suppose don't be afraid to date and enjoy it for what it is
simply ' a date ' so make the most of it and enjoy
You sound so compatible..
So what ya got planned for Saturday nght???
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alabamabebe: Great point Marty. All the guys I've been out with since my divorce, I feel grateful for the time we spent together. If it didn't work out for whatever reason, that doesn't make either of us bad people. If I thought that I'd seriously be worried about my judgement in going out with them in the first place.
Maybe some day i can be on your grateful list..
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martyg: Maybe some day i can be on your grateful list..
I wish! ------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: I wish!
So does that mean you would plan to dump even b4 we even started dating..
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martyg: So does that mean you would plan to dump even b4 we even started dating..
Ach, you're the one who said you wanted to be on it!I never plan to dump, it just happens. Maybe you could change my streak!
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alabamabebe: Ach, you're the one who said you wanted to be on it!
I never plan to dump, it just happens. Maybe you could change my streak!
I never plan to dump, it just happens. Maybe you could change my streak!
I guess that depends....
Do you streak a lot???
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I just want to say I agree with Cristina...
Having done this very thing she is speaking of myself in the past, then coming back just as single as before...I tend to agree, we need to be more guarded in what we "put out there" in the forums. You may think you "know" the person and have found your "soulmate", blah-blah-blah...but guess what? Until you actually meet that person face to face, spend some time with him/her, and get past the "honeymoon period"...you don't really know them.
~*~Ok, with that said...I loves you all~*~
Having done this very thing she is speaking of myself in the past, then coming back just as single as before...I tend to agree, we need to be more guarded in what we "put out there" in the forums. You may think you "know" the person and have found your "soulmate", blah-blah-blah...but guess what? Until you actually meet that person face to face, spend some time with him/her, and get past the "honeymoon period"...you don't really know them.
~*~Ok, with that said...I loves you all~*~
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Dont_Look_Now: I just want to say I agree with Cristina...
Having done this very thing she is speaking of myself in the past, then coming back just as single as before...I tend to agree, we need to be more guarded in what we "put out there" in the forums. You may think you "know" the person and have found your "soulmate", blah-blah-blah...but guess what? Until you actually meet that person face to face, spend some time with him/her, and get past the "honeymoon period"...you don't really know them.
~*~Ok, with that said...I loves you all~*~
Having done this very thing she is speaking of myself in the past, then coming back just as single as before...I tend to agree, we need to be more guarded in what we "put out there" in the forums. You may think you "know" the person and have found your "soulmate", blah-blah-blah...but guess what? Until you actually meet that person face to face, spend some time with him/her, and get past the "honeymoon period"...you don't really know them.
~*~Ok, with that said...I loves you all~*~
Yep, we both been there did that at about the same time. I learned from it, know you did too. It wasn't bad just because it didn't last. Just got to remember the fun times, and be grateful, like I said before. ------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: Yep, we both been there did that at about the same time. I learned from it, know you did too. It wasn't bad just because it didn't last. Just got to remember the fun times, and be grateful, like I said before.
Exactly Learn from it and move on!!! ------ This thread is Archived ------
Quite possibly it could be because they want to share their happiness with their friends. When you start factoring logic into love it becomes something else. I'm surprised by the responses. At least people have tried. Nothing wrong with it as far as I can tell. It is a bit sad when they come back empty handed, but it is always good to see them again. I don't get the whole trashing one or the other but to each his/her own. Without a doubt, I will not be coming back here empty handed. I am comitted and I truly believe my intended is truly committed as well. It's not the quantity of time spent, but the quality. Or...to quote another phrase...life is not measured by the breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away....
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gypsykisses: ...life is not measured by the breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away.... jmo
My vote
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EnSilencio: My vote
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gypsykisses: Quite possibly it could be because they want to share their happiness with their friends. When you start factoring logic into love it becomes something else. I'm surprised by the responses. At least people have tried. Nothing wrong with it as far as I can tell. It is a bit sad when they come back empty handed, but it is always good to see them again. I don't get the whole trashing one or the other but to each his/her own. Without a doubt, I will not be coming back here empty handed. I am comitted and I truly believe my intended is truly committed as well. It's not the quantity of time spent, but the quality. Or...to quote another phrase...life is not measured by the breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away.... jmo
aww...........very well stated gypsy!! your lovely!!!! ------ This thread is Archived ------
HJFinAZ: Some are not accepting of others for who & what they are. They meet someone and then attempt to mold them into the person they really want.
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
Thank goodness I care about myself, because the amount of rejections one could go through on this site, it really leaves the mind boggled. I like the forums anyway. Keep writing, cause it makes a difference.
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thanks man
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