Why are CS relationships of a very short time? (156)
gypsykisses: Quite possibly it could be because they want to share their happiness with their friends. When you start factoring logic into love it becomes something else. I'm surprised by the responses. At least people have tried. Nothing wrong with it as far as I can tell. It is a bit sad when they come back empty handed, but it is always good to see them again. I don't get the whole trashing one or the other but to each his/her own. Without a doubt, I will not be coming back here empty handed. I am comitted and I truly believe my intended is truly committed as well. It's not the quantity of time spent, but the quality. Or...to quote another phrase...life is not measured by the breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away.... jmo
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It would make no matter to me how long it lasted, I would tell to just let people know that relationships can form over the net.
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To wolfpack and gypsey, we don' t mean to rain on your parade. A few of us have been there done that, so we have our reasons for being cautious. And it can work, there's a few couples from here to prove that.
I think the ones Christina and most of us are talking about are the ones you see who do it over and over, every few months. You're not them, so we're not really talking about you. I do wish you all the best, and hope your happiness lasts forever.
I think the ones Christina and most of us are talking about are the ones you see who do it over and over, every few months. You're not them, so we're not really talking about you. I do wish you all the best, and hope your happiness lasts forever.
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I understand cristina point of view and agree with it...good thread darling!
however as she stated, i dont feel it pertains to gypsy and wolf...i feel their a unique couple who will cherish and care for their relationship no matter where it started and where it ends...
thats all i guess i have to say about that...
however as she stated, i dont feel it pertains to gypsy and wolf...i feel their a unique couple who will cherish and care for their relationship no matter where it started and where it ends...
thats all i guess i have to say about that...
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blue_eyed_blonde: I understand cristina point of view and agree with it...good thread darling!
however as she stated, i dont feel it pertains to gypsy and wolf...i feel their a unique couple who will cherish and care for their relationship no matter where it started and where it ends...
thats all i guess i have to say about that...
however as she stated, i dont feel it pertains to gypsy and wolf...i feel their a unique couple who will cherish and care for their relationship no matter where it started and where it ends...
thats all i guess i have to say about that...
Tahnk you BEB, that was very nicely said and I couldnt agree more and I know Gypsy would agree with you too if she was awake.
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cristina: I'm sorry, this is a sour thread. But, why?People out there stay longer! at least 1 year is normal, starting from when you really get to see each other. Forget about being in love for 6 months before meeting.
Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!
Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!
You make us believe that this site is not serious!
I think you're not normal
That is not always true!... It will be three years at the beginning of December. We didn't meet in person for six months. It is all about good communication.
I love CS
Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!
Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!
You make us believe that this site is not serious!
I think you're not normal
That is not always true!... It will be three years at the beginning of December. We didn't meet in person for six months. It is all about good communication.
I love CS
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mychelle: Thank goodness I care about myself, because the amount of rejections one could go through on this site, it really leaves the mind boggled. I like the forums anyway. Keep writing, cause it makes a difference.
I love you.........
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HJFinAZ: Some are not accepting of others for who & what they are. They meet someone and then attempt to mold them into the person they really want.
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
Nooooooooooooo......I ment I love you...........
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martyg: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6s6Hw4MMokSays it all...
says it all............
wanna argue about it?
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alabamabebe: To wolfpack and gypsey, we don' t mean to rain on your parade. A few of us have been there done that, so we have our reasons for being cautious. And it can work, there's a few couples from here to prove that.
I think the ones Christina and most of us are talking about are the ones you see who do it over and over, every few months. You're not them, so we're not really talking about you. I do wish you all the best, and hope your happiness lasts forever.
I think the ones Christina and most of us are talking about are the ones you see who do it over and over, every few months. You're not them, so we're not really talking about you. I do wish you all the best, and hope your happiness lasts forever.
awww...that's so sweet, thank you........ If I died tomorrow, he would have given me more happiness than any other man has........I agree totally with Lion, communication is the key, and a lot of it. That's with any relationship whereever it started...thank you BEB 
I know that we are strong enough to go through the darkest of days unscathed. short story: A young couple were on there honeymoon. They decided to walk West toward California....As they met other hikers, they were repeatedly asked why they were walking against the wind, why didn't they just hike with the wind. There answer was quite simple. "We are preparing ourselves for what may lay ahead in our lives."
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cristina: You didn't understand why i wote this or my English is so bad? Anyway, thanks for your lovely post, it's an acceptable answer!The thread is not directed to someone in particular, just get pissed off in seing people always "trying" in here. As quick as they fall in love, they come back!
It's a free site, yes, just to suggest them to grow up!
It's a free site, yes, just to suggest them to grow up!
I kind of agree, while I'm not against people falling in love, its a feeling and I like to indulge them sometimes, its ok to say hey I'm happy than a pig in slop right now.
The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission. Its just heinous in my opinion. It seems to me these people are perhaps the worst communicators in a relationship, and can't talk with the person they're having difficulty with in any mature sort of way, so they come on here and blast the other or drop innuendo all over the place, looking for allies and or sympathy.
Its quite different to be sad and tell others for the purpose of support and I'm all for that, we humans need each other; but when the puropse is clearly to guilt trip someone or make themselves feel righteous, well GFY... don't even think of using me for that ya baskurd.
Personally I wouldn't publicize a relationship, even a good one, for some time, (maybe never), but thats just me) I think outside opinion has deteriorating affects on personal relationships, because it seems a lot of bitter people are more than willing to hang the party who isn't here to tell their side. I might trust my friends in confidence, but never publically for sure
Not against people saying hey I'm happy or hey I'm sad.... just don't blame someone else, thats how wars get started.
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BnaturAl: I kind of agree, while I'm not against people falling in love, its a feeling and I like to indulge them sometimes, its ok to say hey I'm happy than a pig in slop right now.
The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission. Its just heinous in my opinion. It seems to me these people are perhaps the worst communicators in a relationship, and can't talk with the person they're having difficulty with in any mature sort of way, so they come on here and blast the other or drop innuendo all over the place, looking for allies and or sympathy.
Its quite different to be sad and tell others for the purpose of support and I'm all for that, we humans need each other; but when the puropse is clearly to guilt trip someone or make themselves feel righteous, well GFY... don't even think of using me for that ya baskurd.
Personally I wouldn't publicize a relationship, even a good one, for some time, (maybe never), but thats just me) I think outside opinion has deteriorating affects on personal relationships, because it seems a lot of bitter people are more than willing to hang the party who isn't here to tell their side. I might trust my friends in confidence, but never publically for sure
Not against people saying hey I'm happy or hey I'm sad.... just don't blame someone else, thats how wars get started.
The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission. Its just heinous in my opinion. It seems to me these people are perhaps the worst communicators in a relationship, and can't talk with the person they're having difficulty with in any mature sort of way, so they come on here and blast the other or drop innuendo all over the place, looking for allies and or sympathy.
Its quite different to be sad and tell others for the purpose of support and I'm all for that, we humans need each other; but when the puropse is clearly to guilt trip someone or make themselves feel righteous, well GFY... don't even think of using me for that ya baskurd.
Personally I wouldn't publicize a relationship, even a good one, for some time, (maybe never), but thats just me) I think outside opinion has deteriorating affects on personal relationships, because it seems a lot of bitter people are more than willing to hang the party who isn't here to tell their side. I might trust my friends in confidence, but never publically for sure
Not against people saying hey I'm happy or hey I'm sad.... just don't blame someone else, thats how wars get started.
You are too smart for this mortal coil.
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Sommerauer71: You are too smart for this mortal coil.
if I could just do something about the mortal part
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BnaturAl: I kind of agree, while I'm not against people falling in love, its a feeling and I like to indulge them sometimes, its ok to say hey I'm happy than a pig in slop right now.
The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission. Its just heinous in my opinion. It seems to me these people are perhaps the worst communicators in a relationship, and can't talk with the person they're having difficulty with in any mature sort of way, so they come on here and blast the other or drop innuendo all over the place, looking for allies and or sympathy.
Its quite different to be sad and tell others for the purpose of support and I'm all for that, we humans need each other; but when the puropse is clearly to guilt trip someone or make themselves feel righteous, well GFY... don't even think of using me for that ya baskurd.
Personally I wouldn't publicize a relationship, even a good one, for some time, (maybe never), but thats just me) I think outside opinion has deteriorating affects on personal relationships, because it seems a lot of bitter people are more than willing to hang the party who isn't here to tell their side. I might trust my friends in confidence, but never publically for sure
Not against people saying hey I'm happy or hey I'm sad.... just don't blame someone else, thats how wars get started.
The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission. Its just heinous in my opinion. It seems to me these people are perhaps the worst communicators in a relationship, and can't talk with the person they're having difficulty with in any mature sort of way, so they come on here and blast the other or drop innuendo all over the place, looking for allies and or sympathy.
Its quite different to be sad and tell others for the purpose of support and I'm all for that, we humans need each other; but when the puropse is clearly to guilt trip someone or make themselves feel righteous, well GFY... don't even think of using me for that ya baskurd.
Personally I wouldn't publicize a relationship, even a good one, for some time, (maybe never), but thats just me) I think outside opinion has deteriorating affects on personal relationships, because it seems a lot of bitter people are more than willing to hang the party who isn't here to tell their side. I might trust my friends in confidence, but never publically for sure
Not against people saying hey I'm happy or hey I'm sad.... just don't blame someone else, thats how wars get started.
I agree
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The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission.
I canNot be "tricked" into submission! I am a complete volunteer..
I canNot be "tricked" into submission! I am a complete volunteer..
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HJFinAZ: The prob I have is when these people after the fact use the forums as tools and weapons to inflict harm or guilt trip another into submission.
I canNot be "tricked" into submission! I am a complete volunteer..
I canNot be "tricked" into submission! I am a complete volunteer..
always the voice of reason
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The ones that have come on and announced undying love for someone, has done so to share their happiness with all their friends, what is wrong with that.
Sometimes it doesn't work out, in mine it didn't, because other real life things interrferred. Like distance, job, paid for home, what someone is willing to give up to be with each other. Love can't always win over some things.
When people come back to share the bad news of breakup, they are looking for support.
I think there is some jealous people here.
And if they don't like those threads, stay out of them. We all have a right to be here share what we want to, so long as we aren't putting others down.
There have been marriages even to come out of CS , so that in itself makes it all worthwhile,we have a chance, even if the odds are low that we find it.
Sometimes it doesn't work out, in mine it didn't, because other real life things interrferred. Like distance, job, paid for home, what someone is willing to give up to be with each other. Love can't always win over some things.
When people come back to share the bad news of breakup, they are looking for support.
I think there is some jealous people here.
And if they don't like those threads, stay out of them. We all have a right to be here share what we want to, so long as we aren't putting others down.
There have been marriages even to come out of CS , so that in itself makes it all worthwhile,we have a chance, even if the odds are low that we find it.
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alabamabebe: You've nailed it HJF, people who are so desparate for a relationship that they will grab hold of anything that comes by, it's really just too sad. If you need someone else that bad to complete you, you'll never find it. You have to be complete in yourself before you can be happy with another.
A lot of people need someone to validate their being. Whether it's a companion or the constant need to be praised to show everyone how great they are. I think they are just trying to convince themselves when in truth it comes from within.
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