Why are CS relationships of a very short time? (156)
cristina: I'm sorry, this is a sour thread. But, why?People out there stay longer! at least 1 year is normal, starting from when you really get to see each other. Forget about being in love for 6 months before meeting.
Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!
Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!
You make us believe that this site is not serious!
I think you're not normal
I love CS
Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!
Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!
You make us believe that this site is not serious!
I think you're not normal
I love CS
What.........who's not normal......
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HJFinAZ: Some are not accepting of others for who & what they are. They meet someone and then attempt to mold them into the person they really want.
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.
Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.
Some simply want to get fr***ed.
Some want what they think another has.
Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.
Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
I love you too!
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HJFinAZ: Maybe it is an ego thing.
Maybe they want others to be happy for them because they do not know happiness comes from within..
Maybe they others to be envious of them..
Maybe they want others to be happy for them because they do not know happiness comes from within..
Maybe they others to be envious of them..
Yeah, they want other's to be envious about them...hell yeah
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stefonline: What.........who's not normal......
Hi Stef,
I was just gonna ask you to translate this for me but I see you are just as lost
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Sommerauer71: Thank you Cristina, I see where you are coming from now.
I guess that people do that fro mexcitement, I do not subscribe to it, but I guess some people do, I just accept that people are different and handle things in different ways.
I guess that people do that fro mexcitement, I do not subscribe to it, but I guess some people do, I just accept that people are different and handle things in different ways.
Stay with us for 2 more years
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Xtabentun:
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
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Xtabentun:
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
I love you
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Xtabentun:
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
Come over to Canada for one
Promise I won't put my "broken heart" story in here
You messed up the quotes.....i fíxed it. ^^^^
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airliner: Hi Stef,
I was just gonna ask you to translate this for me but I see you are just as lost
I was just gonna ask you to translate this for me but I see you are just as lost
such a funny guy! You really are awsome!
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tufty: Maybe. because they finally met... In person.... the person of thier dreams... I don't really think "relationships" as such can really be called "relationships" till you've "met" the person face to face and spent quality time getting to know them
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Well myself and Jim have met here nearly 2 years ago on this site....but i do see your point....neither Jim or myself have pleaded our undying love for each other out of respect for us.....We dont need to shout it from a high what we already know....and we dont need to tell it here on cs....we stick around for the friends we have made and if others need help we are there for them too.....I dont have a problem with your thread i think its a good point to make as i have seen some come on the threads and announce their love for each other only then a few weeks later announce it wasnt to be.....somethings i think should be kept private between both persons involved til they feel it going somewhere nice....that just my opinion.....
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lusciousmile: I celebrated meeting one man. We have no beef, even if it ended.
No, no dirty laundry.....
No, no dirty laundry.....
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cristina: for the rest of our lives?
i dunno, we got to see what each other's life insurance policy's are first...------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: You've nailed it HJF, people who are so desparate for a relationship that they will grab hold of anything that comes by, it's really just too sad. If you need someone else that bad to complete you, you'll never find it. You have to be complete in yourself before you can be happy with another.
alabamababe, i have deep respect for you girl
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Xtabentun: While we're all adults in here and many of us share the same values, we can expect people to act according to them.
To each their own, I don't applaud what they do but I can't condemn it either, is not my right to do so. As far as I noticed, there were few success couples that did share their feelings on the site and they are still married to this day. There are plenty other who didn’t.
I guess it’s all about the individuals.
I do wonder sometimes about people’s naivety but if they are setting themselves up for it, they need to know how to handle the outcome.
What is a pity is the “broken heart” threads…now that could have been avoided if only…….
To each their own, I don't applaud what they do but I can't condemn it either, is not my right to do so. As far as I noticed, there were few success couples that did share their feelings on the site and they are still married to this day. There are plenty other who didn’t.
I guess it’s all about the individuals.
I do wonder sometimes about people’s naivety but if they are setting themselves up for it, they need to know how to handle the outcome.
What is a pity is the “broken heart” threads…now that could have been avoided if only…….
yes, to each their own indeed!
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I dunno... 
But then... I'm certainly not normal, whatever that means.
Not much of a contribution, I know - but I haven't had a 'relationship' from / on CS, either......
But then... I'm certainly not normal, whatever that means.
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Ok, I'll confess, I did it one time. The first (and last so far) semi-serious relationship I had from here. I was so excited about the feelings I had for this man, I just had to tell everyone! Those feelings had been so long gone for me, I was just so happy I could feel again. Yeah we probably got a little sickening on here at first. It lasted a year, and I have no regrets, it was a good transition for me. I didn't come on here and whine about it when it was over. I have no bad feelings for him. He's probably a good person, for someone else. Or maybe I was just being used, but I allowed it cause I enjoyed it too, so that's not really being used is it?
He's not even on here any more, or I wouldn't even be talking about it now. I don't hold it against anyone when they get all excited and have to tell the world, especially the first time, but my first thought now is here we go again. But the ones who do it every few months, I just have to wonder, do they ever learn from their experience? Some things are better kept to yourself and close friends. People who have to display everything to the whole world do seem to be looking for outside confirmation that should be coming from within.
He's not even on here any more, or I wouldn't even be talking about it now. I don't hold it against anyone when they get all excited and have to tell the world, especially the first time, but my first thought now is here we go again. But the ones who do it every few months, I just have to wonder, do they ever learn from their experience? Some things are better kept to yourself and close friends. People who have to display everything to the whole world do seem to be looking for outside confirmation that should be coming from within.
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cristina: alabamababe, i have deep respect for you girl
Thank you Cristina, not sure anyone's ever said that to me! ------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: Ok, I'll confess, I did it one time. The first (and last so far) semi-serious relationship I had from here. I was so excited about the feelings I had for this man, I just had to tell everyone! Those feelings had been so long gone for me, I was just so happy I could feel again. Yeah we probably got a little sickening on here at first. It lasted a year, and I have no regrets, it was a good transition for me. I didn't come on here and whine about it when it was over. I have no bad feelings for him. He's probably a good person, for someone else. Or maybe I was just being used, but I allowed it cause I enjoyed it too, so that's not really being used is it?
He's not even on here any more, or I wouldn't even be talking about it now. I don't hold it against anyone when they get all excited and have to tell the world, especially the first time, but my first thought now is here we go again. But the ones who do it every few months, I just have to wonder, do they ever learn from their experience? Some things are better kept to yourself and close friends. People who have to display everything to the whole world do seem to be looking for outside confirmation that should be coming from within.
He's not even on here any more, or I wouldn't even be talking about it now. I don't hold it against anyone when they get all excited and have to tell the world, especially the first time, but my first thought now is here we go again. But the ones who do it every few months, I just have to wonder, do they ever learn from their experience? Some things are better kept to yourself and close friends. People who have to display everything to the whole world do seem to be looking for outside confirmation that should be coming from within.
You're so insightful!
We should have a meaningful, and understanding relationship with each other......at least once
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