mylifewithu: The ones that have come on and announced undying love for someone, has done so to share their happiness with all their friends, what is wrong with that. Sometimes it doesn't work out, in mine it didn't, because other real life things interrferred. Like distance, job, paid for home, what someone is willing to give up to be with each other. Love can't always win over some things. When people come back to share the bad news of breakup, they are looking for support.
I think there is some jealous people here. And if they don't like those threads, stay out of them. We all have a right to be here share what we want to, so long as we aren't putting others down. There have been marriages even to come out of CS , so that in itself makes it all worthwhile,we have a chance, even if the odds are low that we find it.
.....there will always be differences of opinions.....luckily we find the glass half full Let's celebrate that fact and go on........
airliner: how a relationship lasts has nothing to do with CS. It has to do with the 3 Cs & 2Ls compatibility, chemistry, commitment, Love & LuckI lately started to believe that it also takes skills and talent
I think you are correct, you smart man.
Skills and talent? That too, it takes a skillful, talented individual to be a great partner and you get two skilled and talented people, then it will work.
Sommerauer71: I think you are correct, you smart man.
Skills and talent? That too, it takes a skillful, talented individual to be a great partner and you get two skilled and talented people, then it will work.
gypsykisses: awww...that's so sweet, thank you........ If I died tomorrow, he would have given me more happiness than any other man has........I agree totally with Lion, communication is the key, and a lot of it. That's with any relationship whereever it started...thank you BEB I know that we are strong enough to go through the darkest of days unscathed.
short story: A young couple were on there honeymoon. They decided to walk West toward California....As they met other hikers, they were repeatedly asked why they were walking against the wind, why didn't they just hike with the wind. There answer was quite simple. "We are preparing ourselves for what may lay ahead in our lives."
i just looked over this entire thread and didnt see anything upsetting
its true some people repeat this behavior its true some people dont believe it and some people choose not to announce or post in announcement threads for various reasons
the outcome seems like that regarding any discussion that might come up here... and it was, to me spoken tactfully and honestly by all
Dont_Look_Now: I just want to say I agree with Cristina...
Having done this very thing she is speaking of myself in the past, then coming back just as single as before...I tend to agree, we need to be more guarded in what we "put out there" in the forums. You may think you "know" the person and have found your "soulmate", blah-blah-blah...but guess what? Until you actually meet that person face to face, spend some time with him/her, and get past the "honeymoon period"...you don't really know them.
i just looked over this entire thread and didnt see anything upsetting
its true some people repeat this behavior its true some people dont believe it and some people choose not to announce or post in announcement threads for various reasons
the outcome seems like that regarding any discussion that might come up here... and it was, to me spoken tactfully and honestly by all
somehow i missed the offensive part i guess
it's because there is none or else I missed it too
riyablossom: I sort of didnt get a lot of the OP ..
But i will answer to the thread title .. I guess cos its difficult to entirely analyze a person while on the net ..
Better way to answer this would be ... personally , I would prefer to meet this someone i have an interest or possibility of an interest in... see if the basic chemistry and liking for each other exists .. then carry it to a further level .. talking , discussing etc ..
I would find it fascinating and rather very sweet to fall for someone from the internet before i have met them in person but .. its not for me .. knowing myself i know my doubts wont rest.
Plus I dont have any issues with people announcing their love interest around here. Its a choice they are making and if it makes them happy to share with their friends or others , its really no harm at all. Its rather nice.
There are a lot of reasons why people would do the announcing bit . I think maybe it would be to share , sometimes to bring forth some sort of exclusivity , at times to show the other person that they matter .. so many reasons ..
I am happy for them if it works out cos no one really starts for things to end or be unhappy laters .. everybody wants it to work but many times it doesnt. So if they do come back , its ok .. it happens.
What i dislike is trying to defame someone in public as you can never really know the entire situation.
But out here CS does seem like what they call it " kiss of death " .. i have no clue why .. so personally i would either be dead sure before i say anything or just keep it under wraps.
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Sometimes it doesn't work out, in mine it didn't, because other real life things interrferred. Like distance, job, paid for home, what someone is willing to give up to be with each other. Love can't always win over some things.
When people come back to share the bad news of breakup, they are looking for support.
I think there is some jealous people here.
And if they don't like those threads, stay out of them. We all have a right to be here share what we want to, so long as we aren't putting others down.
There have been marriages even to come out of CS , so that in itself makes it all worthwhile,we have a chance, even if the odds are low that we find it.
.....there will always be differences of opinions.....luckily we find the glass half full Let's celebrate that fact and go on........