I believe in soul mate, but that not one is made for only one other. We make up our own as they fit our personality and us theirs. With 6 billion people around, the outlook is good.
This calls for a cut from the lyrics of Depeche Mode again, this time Somebody --- I want somebody to share Share the rest of my life Share my innermost thoughts Know my intimate details Someone who'll stand by my side And give me support And in return She’ll get my support
She will listen to me When I want to speak About the world we live in And life in general
Though my views may be wrong They may even be perverted Shell hear me out And won't easily be converted To my way of thinking In fact shell often disagree But at the end of it all She will understand me Aaaahhhhh.... ---
The words below tho, well, yes, I do believe are relevant
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant
In my personal experience...the feelings of sweaty palms, racing for the phone, heart palpitations, feelings of going to die without seeing them...it exists when you are young...as age creeps in the feelings mellow, composure, control, sensibility....I miss the irrational bottling of common sense and unbottling of the imagination...
perhaps...but perception and existing time can alter everything.
I beleive finding that special one is alittle work.Then making it last and keeping one another happy takes alot of work.Heard 2 50yr. annivesary couples say worth it.1place where when the going gets tough the tough get going does not fit!
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
EnSilencio: I believe in soul mate, but that not one is made for only one other. We make up our own as they fit our personality and us theirs. With 6 billion people around, the outlook is good.---
That's pretty much what I believe. I took a relationship quiz one time and it told me that I believe soulmates are made not born. Never thought of it that way before, but that is what I think. I get so tired of hearing and reading things like missing out on your soulmate, if someone is meant to be a soulmate, you won't miss em.
I've had a few soul mates in my life, not all romantically either. My best girl friends qualify, only one of my ex-partners till he lost his soul. So I can believe there's more out there for me.
Zarah: In my personal experience...the feelings of sweaty palms, racing for the phone, heart palpitations, feelings of going to die without seeing them...it exists when you are young...as age creeps in the feelings mellow, composure, control, sensibility....I miss the irrational bottling of common sense and unbottling of the imagination...
perhaps...but perception and existing time can alter everything.
Agreed..... the only time I get that feeling now is when the bill collector calls.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Zarah: In my personal experience...the feelings of sweaty palms, racing for the phone, heart palpitations, feelings of going to die without seeing them...it exists when you are young...as age creeps in the feelings mellow, composure, control, sensibility....I miss the irrational bottling of common sense and unbottling
I don't know how old you have to get before you lose that, but I till get it, especially at the start of a relationship, or when I haven't seen them for a while. I'd love to find a man who could do that to me the rest of my life, now that would be a soulmate worth making!
Zarah: In my personal experience...the feelings of sweaty palms, racing for the phone, heart palpitations, feelings of going to die without seeing them...it exists when you are young...as age creeps in the feelings mellow, composure, control, sensibility....I miss the irrational bottling of common sense and unbottling of the imagination...
perhaps...but perception and existing time can alter everything.
Dang....when I get those feelings, it usually means I have gas.
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