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Aug 24, 2008 12:40 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
It is amazing to me that so many have had relationships, mariage etc. before, it did not work out but most have the courage to go for it again.
Good for you!
I may be the oldest one on this forum but have still way to much life in me too waste it. So I won't lolteddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 12:44 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK110 Posts
hollandgirl: It is amazing to me that so many have had relationships, mariage etc. before, it did not work out but most have the courage to go for it again.
Good for you!
I may be the oldest one on this forum but have still way to much life in me too waste it. So I won't lol


Good for you - age is after all only a number! my best friend in the whole world is 71 and i respect all this person has to say - infact this person is well on it and far from giving up - go for it hollandishgirl - warmest regards
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Aug 24, 2008 1:02 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
cmf333: Good for you - age is after all only a number! my best friend in the whole world is 71 and i respect all this person has to say - infact this person is well on it and far from giving up - go for it hollandishgirl - warmest regards


Thank you, I am doing my very best to just do that; Go for it.
It is funny at times about the age thing.
One man; Yes age is just a number I am 70 years old am looking
for a woman between 50-60. hilarious! teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:04 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
so...you feel the need in every thread to remind us of your age!!!
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Aug 24, 2008 1:07 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Yes I have learnt that to spend your time looking for 'the one' or believing in that there is someone out there to complete us is to waste a lot of the time we have.
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Aug 24, 2008 1:13 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
I learned a lot about what I really want in a mate without all the romantic idealistic claptrap... I also hope that I´ve gotten over my instinct to run when things get serious... but then I won´t know that until I get to that stage again!laugh
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Aug 24, 2008 1:19 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
jbibiza: I learned a lot about what I really want in a mate without all the romantic idealistic claptrap... I also hope that I´ve gotten over my instinct to run when things get serious... but then I won´t know that until I get to that stage again!


You have a good head on your shoulders and insight into people's psyche.
It will serve you well someday!teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:24 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
I love your new pics!!!teddybear

And, I think I have learned from my past, remains to prove that in the present and future....fingers crossed!roll eyes
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Aug 24, 2008 1:29 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Xtabentun: I love your new pics!!!

And, I think I have learned from my past, remains to prove that in the present and future....fingers crossed!


Thank you for the compliments.
Don't know why this picture comes in at times the right size and
at other times small like on here.
Tried to change the size but it is not working.

This picture was taken February of this year. teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:30 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
hollandgirl: Thank you for the compliments.
Don't know why this picture comes in at times the right size and
at other times small like on here.
Tried to change the size but it is not working.

This picture was taken February of this year.


I absolutely love the second one, in your livingroomwink
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Aug 24, 2008 1:40 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
I absolutely love the second one, in your livingroom[/quote

That one in the living room looks like I have a flower in my hair but really it is the vase with flowers behind me.
Oh will who cares? Okay I do.
I really don't like it for that reason but I don't have but a few pictures so not much to chose from.
But glad You liked it anyway.teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:40 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
Hi,
I learned something about my partners but almost nothing about me. Rather selfspeculation why it didn't work.
I know now with what kind of human temper I don't want to be.
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Aug 24, 2008 1:42 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
hollandgirl: I absolutely love the second one, in your livingroom[/quote

That one in the living room looks like I have a flower in my hair but really it is the vase with flowers behind me.
Oh will who cares? Okay I do.
I really don't like it for that reason but I don't have but a few pictures so not much to chose from.
But glad You liked it anyway.


Oh, is it? I thought you have a flower or a cute hat tooroll eyes

I like it because you look so serene, I think it is a nice expression
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Aug 24, 2008 1:45 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
hollandgirl: It is amazing to me that so many have had relationships, mariage etc. before, it did not work out but most have the courage to go for it again.
Good for you!
I may be the oldest one on this forum but have still way to much life in me too waste it. So I won't lol


thumbs up hug You go girl! Only way to be!!
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Aug 24, 2008 1:48 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Barnagie: Hi,
I learned something about my partners but almost nothing about me. Rather selfspeculation why it didn't work.
I know now with what kind of human temper I don't want to be.


Yes it is all about live and learn huh?teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:49 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
I don't think I have ever made a mistake when it comes to getting into a relationships. Because they didn't work out doesn't mean they were a mistake, just not right for one or the other or both. I have made mistakes within the relationship and within friendships that I have regreted and wish I could take it back and reverse the outcome. I do learn something from each one, so there is a small upside to that huge downside.

Zee

yes I know I wrote it and it still reads kinda fuzzy to me too.
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Aug 24, 2008 1:49 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Xtabentun:

Oh, is it? I thought you have a flower or a cute hat too

I like it because you look so serene, I think it is a nice expression


Lol you look serene love it!teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:51 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
woody636: You go girl! Only way to be!!


Yeah don't write me off yet I won't let "them"teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 1:52 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
Still learning from some mistakes and keep making one or over again....As for my next relationship I hope it is my last..
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Aug 24, 2008 1:53 PM CST Have you learned from you past mistakes? Believe the next relationship will be better because of it?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Zeelander: I don't think I have ever made a mistake when it comes to getting into a relationships. Because they didn't work out doesn't mean they were a mistake, just not right for one or the other or both. I have made mistakes within the relationship and within friendships that I have regreted and wish I could take it back and reverse the outcome. I do learn something from each one, so there is a small upside to that huge downside.

Zee

yes I know I wrote it and it still reads kinda fuzzy to me too.


Hum Zee what all you needed to do to get that washboard? I am impressed!

teddybear
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