MaybebabeOPCenturion, Gauteng South Africa52 posts
What makes you feel like this? Why do you feel that butterflies for certain people only? Can another one who you dont have that chemistry with do something to win your heart before the obvious first choice? And where do the butterflies go after a while,is the chance better to get a shot now with that special guy or gal? Just come tell us when do birds appear in your life?
Birds...well truth speaking they are all around each day.
Now, if you talk about that sensation of buttefrlies in your stomack when you meet someone...that is an energy current caused by the other person´s aura or energy field (which surrounds every living being as it is proven already). It mostly happens when the spirit of both person do recognize each other in the new body....like when you feel you do know that other person but are not sure why or how. In most cases, our spirit or soul which makes us being alive in a body, reencarnates and might or not find others we used to know in a former life. This is not always a sign of falling in love, but something those two have to share or learn.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
I've often wondered why some people give me the butterflies and some just don't. I try to find the common factor, and it has little to do with looks. In fact a fun personality will win me over even if the looks are not initially that attractive to me. It's not something for me that can be defined, it's just either there or not. Humor, self confidence, being able to express oneself are a big part of it. Oh, that and they need to like me!
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
alabamabebe: I've often wondered why some people give me the butterflies and some just don't. I try to find the common factor, and it has little to do with looks. In fact a fun personality will win me over even if the looks are not initially that attractive to me. It's not something for me that can be defined, it's just either there or not. Humor, self confidence, being able to express oneself are a big part of it. Oh, that and they need to like me!
Hellooo Bev
Yep that's me too.. I always fall for sense of humour before anything else. Looks are definately not everything.
But they have to be kind and polite too.. (for me anyway) or the sense of humour means sod all either.
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Why do you feel that butterflies for certain people only?
Can another one who you dont have that chemistry with do something
to win your heart before the obvious first choice?
And where do the butterflies go after a while,is the chance better to get
a shot now with that special guy or gal?
Just come tell us when do birds appear in your life?