I'm unsure.... (62)
She didn't have the right to call you at home? I take it you gave her your phone number? Why didn't she have the right to call you?
You had a holiday on Ireland together, or she went alone?
I don't understand your post phoenix, but if you want to see her again then make contact.
phoenix: I was going to post this on the int forum but decided against it, for lots of reasons..
Sometimes I take the piss, I enjoy having a good laugh..I'm only human .Anyway, a little while back I flipped over a girl here in France..probably the 1st time in my life (it's a very close call)...
Some back ground..
I basically walked into the office of 'le fleur de beton'(she was single) and said hello.. I'm Johnny cash. We both share the same out look in life, listen to the same type of music (really not much difference)..she cancelled a holiday in Thailand and went to Mayo instead, losing her deposit in the process just to see the Emerald Isle..
Our first date..I was about to watch a football match on tv, she phones asking to see me..It was 20:45..She didn't have the right to phone me at home. I told her she wasn't very professional but accepted her offer and we went to a Chinese place in the 15th..she paid(I offered), then she paid for the taxi to her place..
To cut a long story short, she had a little girl (i'm not the father) and she's no longer with the father...I know this because on another site( here in France, for putting friends in touch) I seen her profile and with the info she gave and her address, she is no longer with the father and single...
We seperated because at the time I had too much emotional baggage. I can 'google' her name and see her photo every day and guess all I'm asking is.....Do I mail her through the site to say hello or just let sleeping dogs sleep.
I will only take on board serious replies. When I said flipped, cut my legs off and call me shorty.............................
Sometimes I take the piss, I enjoy having a good laugh..I'm only human .Anyway, a little while back I flipped over a girl here in France..probably the 1st time in my life (it's a very close call)...
Some back ground..
I basically walked into the office of 'le fleur de beton'(she was single) and said hello.. I'm Johnny cash. We both share the same out look in life, listen to the same type of music (really not much difference)..she cancelled a holiday in Thailand and went to Mayo instead, losing her deposit in the process just to see the Emerald Isle..
Our first date..I was about to watch a football match on tv, she phones asking to see me..It was 20:45..She didn't have the right to phone me at home. I told her she wasn't very professional but accepted her offer and we went to a Chinese place in the 15th..she paid(I offered), then she paid for the taxi to her place..
To cut a long story short, she had a little girl (i'm not the father) and she's no longer with the father...I know this because on another site( here in France, for putting friends in touch) I seen her profile and with the info she gave and her address, she is no longer with the father and single...
We seperated because at the time I had too much emotional baggage. I can 'google' her name and see her photo every day and guess all I'm asking is.....Do I mail her through the site to say hello or just let sleeping dogs sleep.
I will only take on board serious replies. When I said flipped, cut my legs off and call me shorty.............................
Clearly, this is better off here. Smaller audience.
I am puzzled. 'She didn't have the right to phone me at home' Why? Did she call your number from details, or did you give her your number? Why mention the football match?
If you are googling her name, she is in your thoughts, so, in answer to your question, only you can decide whether you mail her.
If you want to, then do it, if you are conflicted, wait for Smoky and Flower to get here, they will put you straight.
But honestly Phoenix, if you want your girl, only you can go and get her.
Jan1305: She didn't have the right to call you at home? I take it you gave her your phone number? Why didn't she have the right to call you?
You had a holiday on Ireland together, or she went alone?
I don't understand your post phoenix, but if you want to see her again then make contact.
You had a holiday on Ireland together, or she went alone?
I don't understand your post phoenix, but if you want to see her again then make contact.
Aha
A woman thinking as I do.
Hi Jan, I am confused about your query too.
If it wasn't too long ago, why not send her a message. What could it hurt? She might be happy to hear from you.
Yeah, call her
cristina: Yeah, call her
I agree ... you should call her, if you are really interested!!!
Sounds like she is...
This sounds like a while back and she is still in your mind?
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
And now you wonder if it would be right to call back and say "Hi, I am steady on my feet here, mind meeting up?"
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I will not say the same to you, I see nothing here that would make it wrong.
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
And now you wonder if it would be right to call back and say "Hi, I am steady on my feet here, mind meeting up?"
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I will not say the same to you, I see nothing here that would make it wrong.
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
mike69spain: This sounds like a while back and she is still in your mind?
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
And now you wonder if it would be right to call back and say "Hi, I am steady on my feet here, mind meeting up?"
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I willnot now say the same to you, I see nothing here that would make it wrong.
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
And now you wonder if it would be right to call back and say "Hi, I am steady on my feet here, mind meeting up?"
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I will
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
A typo makes such a difference mike69spain: This sounds like a while back and she is still in your mind?
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I will not say the same to you, I see nothing here that would make it wrong.
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
She broke her rule at office and called a client to invite you for a date?
I would. I would tell my friend to call. I will not say the same to you, I see nothing here that would make it wrong.
I guess you will tell her you have been moon crazy and googling her name and things? It could scare a girl to know that by finding out herself
Hi mike
She broke every rule in the book, I mean every...not professional at all.
Why did I 'google' her name intrest. Also just before we went our seperate ways, her BF(father of her daughter), mailed me to say, keep my greasy meat hooks off her..I did..and you can still cut my legs and call me shorty..but I flipped...
phoenix: She broke every rule in the book, I mean every...not professional at all.
Her choice, but something that put you off?
phoenix: Why did I 'google' her name intrest. Also just before we went our seperate ways, her BF(father of her daughter), mailed me to say, keep my greasy meat hooks off her..I did..and you can still cut my legs and call me shorty..but I flipped...
I am loosing out on the language here, I read "flipped" as going mad - mad as in anger. But it does not fit in context; it looks more like getting hooked. Help?
What her ex said may have had reason when they were together, but she still chooses her life, not you or him. Clearly that did not involve him if she is now living apart from him. She did want to be with you, by breaking all those rules.
mike69spain: Her choice, but something that put you off?
I am loosing out on the language here, I read "flipped" as going mad - mad as in anger. But it does not fit in context; it looks more like getting hooked. Help?
What her ex said may have had reason when they were together, but she still chooses her life, not you or him. Clearly that did not involve him if she is now living apart from him. She did want to be with you, by breaking all those rules.
I am loosing out on the language here, I read "flipped" as going mad - mad as in anger. But it does not fit in context; it looks more like getting hooked. Help?
What her ex said may have had reason when they were together, but she still chooses her life, not you or him. Clearly that did not involve him if she is now living apart from him. She did want to be with you, by breaking all those rules.
Help is at hand.
You are right, to go underground and call a person is really something quite special.
Never mind the ex, this woman wanted her man.
She called, she tried.
Phoenix, get a grip love, never mind the football, or whether it was her right to call you.
She did, you answered and call the woman back.
If it is meant to be, it will not go by you.
Oder?
mike69spain: Her choice, but something that put you off?
I am loosing out on the language here, I read "flipped" as going mad - mad as in anger. But it does not fit in context; it looks more like getting hooked. Help?
What her ex said may have had reason when they were together, but she still chooses her life, not you or him. Clearly that did not involve him if she is now living apart from him. She did want to be with you, by breaking all those rules.
I am loosing out on the language here, I read "flipped" as going mad - mad as in anger. But it does not fit in context; it looks more like getting hooked. Help?
What her ex said may have had reason when they were together, but she still chooses her life, not you or him. Clearly that did not involve him if she is now living apart from him. She did want to be with you, by breaking all those rules.
I'll try to clear up a fewpoints...flipped as in hooked yes..
Did her ex have reason ask him....
She was my Social Worker (helping me with a very delicate situation), she broke every rule.....every rule.
Did she want to be with me, yes..otherwise she wouldn't have phoned out of office hours......
Since we seperated I've changed address, telephones numbers and my e-mail address I gave her is 'dead'....She can't contact me even if she tried..
But if I went to a certain bar in the 12th, she'd be there...
I found her name on another site looking for old school friends...
phoenix: I'll try to clear up a fewpoints...flipped as in hooked yes..
Did her ex have reason ask him....
She was my Social Worker (helping me with a very delicate situation), she broke every rule.....every rule.
Did she want to be with me, yes..otherwise she wouldn't have phoned out of office hours......
Since we seperated I've changed address, telephones numbers and my e-mail address I gave her is 'dead'....She can't contact me even if she tried..
But if I went to a certain bar in the 12th, she'd be there...
I found her name on another site looking for old school friends...
Did her ex have reason ask him....
She was my Social Worker (helping me with a very delicate situation), she broke every rule.....every rule.
Did she want to be with me, yes..otherwise she wouldn't have phoned out of office hours......
Since we seperated I've changed address, telephones numbers and my e-mail address I gave her is 'dead'....She can't contact me even if she tried..
But if I went to a certain bar in the 12th, she'd be there...
I found her name on another site looking for old school friends...
My opinion?
You walked away and cut ALL contact once! Your gut, sense of self preservation ... whatever it was that made you do that ... was right!!!
Sounds like trouble ... may be exciting trouble ... but trouble nevertheless ... IMHO
phoenix: But if I went to a certain bar in the 12th, she'd be there...
What is holding you back?
For what it is worth, passing by, have a glass and talk would surely put things in a better light, instead of the guessing game that is going on in your mind now.
"Is she free to meet", "Did she really mean anything more than...", "Do I look like a complete nnn if I contact her"...
That kind of thinking will only make you open another bottle. Alone.
Go there, see here, make sure come back here and tell. D'accord?
FlowerOfTheSun: My opinion?
You walked away and cut ALL contact once! Your gut, sense of self preservation ... whatever it was that made you do that ... was right!!!
Sounds like trouble ... may be exciting trouble ... but trouble nevertheless ... IMHO
You walked away and cut ALL contact once! Your gut, sense of self preservation ... whatever it was that made you do that ... was right!!!
Sounds like trouble ... may be exciting trouble ... but trouble nevertheless ... IMHO
If I did not misread it, there was this other person in the picture then. His doing at the time was right, but it did not do her existing relation any good.
Now she seems to be single, the field is different set. I really think he needs to face that ghost by meeting up and set things straight. It may the best move of his life, who knows?
mike69spain: If I did not misread it, there was this other person in the picture then. His doing at the time was right, but it did not do her existing relation any good.
Now she seems to be single, the field is different set. I really think he needs to face that ghost by meeting up and set things straight. It may the best move of his life, who knows?
Now she seems to be single, the field is different set. I really think he needs to face that ghost by meeting up and set things straight. It may the best move of his life, who knows?
May be ...
My feeling about it is that she was professionally and relationship (her slready esxisting one) wise reckless ...
If that IS a strong element of her character, not sure it makes for a stable relationship ... Hence my comment about exciting trouble ... but nevertheless trouble
You did not find her, you searched for her.
My advice...
Go get your girl...
It really is that simple.
My advice...
Go get your girl...
It really is that simple.
phoenix: I was going to post this on the int forum but decided against it, for lots of reasons..
Sometimes I take the piss, I enjoy having a good laugh..I'm only human .Anyway, a little while back I flipped over a girl here in France..probably the 1st time in my life (it's a very close call)...
Some back ground..
I basically walked into the office of 'le fleur de beton'(she was single) and said hello.. I'm Johnny cash. We both share the same out look in life, listen to the same type of music (really not much difference)..she cancelled a holiday in Thailand and went to Mayo instead, losing her deposit in the process just to see the Emerald Isle..
Our first date..I was about to watch a football match on tv, she phones asking to see me..It was 20:45..She didn't have the right to phone me at home. I told her she wasn't very professional but accepted her offer and we went to a Chinese place in the 15th..she paid(I offered), then she paid for the taxi to her place..
To cut a long story short, she had a little girl (i'm not the father) and she's no longer with the father...I know this because on another site( here in France, for putting friends in touch) I seen her profile and with the info she gave and her address, she is no longer with the father and single...
We seperated because at the time I had too much emotional baggage. I can 'google' her name and see her photo every day and guess all I'm asking is.....Do I mail her through the site to say hello or just let sleeping dogs sleep.
I will only take on board serious replies. When I said flipped, cut my legs off and call me shorty.............................
Sometimes I take the piss, I enjoy having a good laugh..I'm only human .Anyway, a little while back I flipped over a girl here in France..probably the 1st time in my life (it's a very close call)...
Some back ground..
I basically walked into the office of 'le fleur de beton'(she was single) and said hello.. I'm Johnny cash. We both share the same out look in life, listen to the same type of music (really not much difference)..she cancelled a holiday in Thailand and went to Mayo instead, losing her deposit in the process just to see the Emerald Isle..
Our first date..I was about to watch a football match on tv, she phones asking to see me..It was 20:45..She didn't have the right to phone me at home. I told her she wasn't very professional but accepted her offer and we went to a Chinese place in the 15th..she paid(I offered), then she paid for the taxi to her place..
To cut a long story short, she had a little girl (i'm not the father) and she's no longer with the father...I know this because on another site( here in France, for putting friends in touch) I seen her profile and with the info she gave and her address, she is no longer with the father and single...
We seperated because at the time I had too much emotional baggage. I can 'google' her name and see her photo every day and guess all I'm asking is.....Do I mail her through the site to say hello or just let sleeping dogs sleep.
I will only take on board serious replies. When I said flipped, cut my legs off and call me shorty.............................
Sounds to me that she's a real "player"...messing with your emotions/thought. My advice...get over her...get a life..and never look back again...there's a lot if good fish out there without baggage.
FlowerOfTheSun: May be ...
My feeling about it is that she was professionally and relationship (her slready esxisting one) wise reckless ...
If that IS a strong element of her character, not sure it makes for a stable relationship ... Hence my comment about exciting trouble ... but nevertheless trouble
My feeling about it is that she was professionally and relationship (her slready esxisting one) wise reckless ...
If that IS a strong element of her character, not sure it makes for a stable relationship ... Hence my comment about exciting trouble ... but nevertheless trouble
It could be love too.
Your point is strong - is this what troubles your mind, phoenix? That she will treat you and her as her and him?
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Sometimes I take the piss, I enjoy having a good laugh..I'm only human .Anyway, a little while back I flipped over a girl here in France..probably the 1st time in my life (it's a very close call)...
Some back ground..
I basically walked into the office of 'le fleur de beton'(she was single) and said hello.. I'm Johnny cash. We both share the same out look in life, listen to the same type of music (really not much difference)..she cancelled a holiday in Thailand and went to Mayo instead, losing her deposit in the process just to see the Emerald Isle..
Our first date..I was about to watch a football match on tv, she phones asking to see me..It was 20:45..She didn't have the right to phone me at home. I told her she wasn't very professional but accepted her offer and we went to a Chinese place in the 15th..she paid(I offered), then she paid for the taxi to her place..
To cut a long story short, she had a little girl (i'm not the father) and she's no longer with the father...I know this because on another site( here in France, for putting friends in touch) I seen her profile and with the info she gave and her address, she is no longer with the father and single...
We seperated because at the time I had too much emotional baggage. I can 'google' her name and see her photo every day and guess all I'm asking is.....Do I mail her through the site to say hello or just let sleeping dogs sleep.
I will only take on board serious replies. When I said flipped, cut my legs off and call me shorty.............................