Have been receiving email from quite a few that are on an average of 28 yrs old. Feels weird, yet flattering @ the same time. Got a few from a 20 yr old- That one really made me feel like I was a cradle robber.
CjTenorSax: Have been receiving email from quite a few that are on an average of 28 yrs old. Feels weird, yet flattering @ the same time. Got a few from a 20 yr old- That one really made me feel like I was a cradle robber.
I get a awful lot of those real young ones writing me too, My youngest kid is there age, and my oldest son is much older than the ones writing me.
Youngest for me was 19, not too much younger than me considering I'm 22. I tend to stick to around my age or a couple years older, though there are always exceptions if the person has a lot in common with me.
mylifewithu: I get a awful lot of those real young ones writing me too, My youngest kid is there age, and my oldest son is much older than the ones writing me.
Well, after a while, I started opening up, especially after one really, sweet and now very special guy asked me why I was trying to chase him off. He was and is very persistent. I guess we will see what happens. I really like IMing with him and he is very patient with me on the phone. We have been making plans to meet
CjTenorSax: Well, after a while, I started opening up, especially after one really, sweet and now very special guy asked me why I was trying to chase him off. He was and is very persistent. I guess we will see what happens. I really like IMing with him and he is very patient with me on the phone. We have been making plans to meet
It's good to hear that persistence can pay off! I usually have to file restraining orders Glad to hear you are having good luck! Sometimes you just have to give someone different a chance.
CjTenorSax: Well, after a while, I started opening up, especially after one really, sweet and now very special guy asked me why I was trying to chase him off. He was and is very persistent. I guess we will see what happens. I really like IMing with him and he is very patient with me on the phone. We have been making plans to meet
For me physical age really doesn´t come into the equation... my lifestyle is not that of the average 48 year old... I enjoy clubbing... a lot of my friends are Djs, producers and muscians... I attend a lot of opening and closing parties, Gallery exhibitions... the oldest of my friends is 39... so i don´t really meet many men my age through my social life. So i look mostly for things in common, life experience and mutual attraction. The only problem i find with younger men is the child issue... I´m not having anymore and often they want a family.
At this point, the youngest I look is 20, but then again I'm only 21. :D
To quote the great Professor Farnsworth: "Some say I'm robbing the cradle, but I say robbing the grave."
I'll admit, I find older women very attractive, but most of that is older women usually have my preferred body type. I don't think I have it in me to date one though, the way I see it those kinds of relationships would work more for companionship than a full blown relationship.
Don't feel bad about going for us young ones, ladies! It doesn't make you a bad person at all... it may be a little taboo still, but you can't help what you're attracted to :]
jbibiza: For me physical age really doesn´t come into the equation... my lifestyle is not that of the average 48 year old... I enjoy clubbing... a lot of my friends are Djs, producers and muscians... I attend a lot of opening and closing parties, Gallery exhibitions... the oldest of my friends is 39... so i don´t really meet many men my age through my social life. So i look mostly for things in common, life experience and mutual attraction. The only problem i find with younger men is the child issue... I´m not having anymore and often they want a family.
It's good to hear that persistence can pay off! I usually have to file restraining orders Glad to hear you are having good luck! Sometimes you just have to give someone different a chance.
Thanks guys. I still want a family, jbiiza. I will most likely have to use nonconventional medical means and the guy knows this and is ok with it.
He just moved from my state to the west coast, talk about timing!!! I am moving to Rochester, NY by August. But we are still making plans to meet. My email is full of letters from him, it is a nice change.
Modestly Awe: RESTRAINING ORDERS??? What kind of girls are you attracting? Little extreme. Hope I never have to do this.
CjTenorSax: It's good to hear that persistence can pay off! I usually have to file restraining orders Glad to hear you are having good luck! Sometimes you just have to give someone different a chance.
Thanks guys. I still want a family, jbiiza. I will most likely have to use nonconventional medical means and the guy knows this and is ok with it.
He just moved from my state to the west coast, talk about timing!!! I am moving to Rochester, NY by August. But we are still making plans to meet. My email is full of letters from him, it is a nice change.
Modestly Awe: RESTRAINING ORDERS??? What kind of girls are you attracting? Little extreme. Hope I never have to do this.
Nah, I've never actually had to file a restraining order since I don't let the women know where I live until I know they're trustworthy. Almost had to though with a couple of them,
CjTenorSax: It's good to hear that persistence can pay off! I usually have to file restraining orders Glad to hear you are having good luck! Sometimes you just have to give someone different a chance.
Thanks guys. I still want a family, jbiiza. I will most likely have to use nonconventional medical means and the guy knows this and is ok with it.
He just moved from my state to the west coast, talk about timing!!! I am moving to Rochester, NY by August. But we are still making plans to meet. My email is full of letters from him, it is a nice change.
Modestly Awe: RESTRAINING ORDERS??? What kind of girls are you attracting? Little extreme. Hope I never have to do this.
My sis had her 5th at 42 years old... so, you never know! Good luck to you!
sweetowen: My aunt had her youngest (third) at 43. They were very close, too.
jbibiza wrote: My sis had her 5th at 42 years old... so, you never know! Good luck to you!
Well, guys I'm even older than that. thanks for the encouragement though. My Grand mother had my Dad, her fifteenth, (gasp, faint, thud), (their youngest at the time was twelve years old, when they had Dad) when she was 52. I have clung to that for years while fighting for my life and to save my fertility as well. So it really means a lot to me for that encouragement, Sniff, happy Thanks.
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