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Sep 11, 2008 5:11 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.
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Sep 11, 2008 5:14 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I have nothing too add, you summed it up for me. That is how I feel about compassionwine
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Sep 11, 2008 5:14 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
somechick: My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.


Well said! thumbs up Kudos!!
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Sep 11, 2008 5:15 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
somechick: My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.



Best definition I've seen yet darlin....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 11, 2008 5:16 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
somechick: My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.
yea, sorta....but one should be sympathitic as well, dont you think?bouquet
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Sep 11, 2008 5:16 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
Hugz_n_Kissez: Best definition I've seen yet darlin....



Thanks Hugzhug
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Sep 11, 2008 5:17 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Actually, your defining "empathy," not compassion. They're closely related, but empathy is specifically about feeling things from the other person's point of view, whereas compassion is about a sympathetic view of the other person - which doesn't necessarily require understanding that person. For example, I could feel compassion toward an alien being when I had little or no means of knowing what it was feeling.
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Sep 11, 2008 5:18 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.


Very well said Anna, being understanding and sensitive of anothers feelings can save a life..
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Sep 11, 2008 5:18 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007: Actually, you're defining "empathy," not compassion. They're closely related, but empathy is specifically about feeling things from the other person's point of view, whereas compassion is about a sympathetic view of the other person - which doesn't necessarily require understanding that person. For example, I could feel compassion toward an alien being when I had little or no means of knowing what it was feeling.
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Sep 11, 2008 5:19 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
jlw45: yea, sorta....but one should be sympathitic as well, dont you think?



I agree.
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Sep 11, 2008 5:19 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
**** What's your definition of compassion.


How would I know???
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Sep 11, 2008 5:21 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
shipoker58: **** What's your definition of compassion.How would I know???
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
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Sep 11, 2008 5:22 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Desire to relieve another of their suffering or painwave wine
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Sep 11, 2008 5:29 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
xoredheadxo
xoredheadxoxoredheadxoMorgantown, West Virginia USA14 Threads 1,179 Posts
shipoker58: **** What's your definition of compassion.How would I know???





Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Shippers!!!!


scold
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Sep 11, 2008 5:33 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Compassion is understanding how another person feels, without always the need to take it from them. Sometimes the most compassionate thing to do for someone is to let them feel their pain, not trying to lessen it's impact, for that is how one grows beyond it.
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Sep 11, 2008 5:36 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Ambrose2007: Actually, your defining "empathy," not compassion. They're closely related, but empathy is specifically about feeling things from the other person's point of view, whereas compassion is about a sympathetic view of the other person - which doesn't necessarily require understanding that person. For example, I could feel compassion toward an alien being when I had little or no means of knowing what it was feeling.


My definition would be similar to yours Ambrose, because I would feel compassion and want to help, or be there if someone else was hurting, whether I liked them or not, and regardless of their situation.

I'd find it impossible to feel someone else's pain (empathy), and never presume to, since personal hurt is relative to individual experience, and try as we might, we never exactly fit anyone else's shoes.

Compassion for me then, is seeing something or someone hurting for whatever reason, and being hurt by the wrongfulness of the situation as much as by the other person's or thing's pain.wine
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Sep 11, 2008 5:38 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
bushbun
bushbunbushbunMinneapolis, Minnesota USA22 Threads 5 Polls 466 Posts
somechick: My belief system of compassion is simple.

When some one is sad or unhappy ~ try to feel & understand what they are feeling.

When some one is happy ~ feel their happiness as though the happines is shared between you both.

Compassion is putting yourself in another persons position.

Try to always remember though that you can not truly understand anothers situation until you have walked in their shoes, so to speak.

Compassion is understanding to the best of your abilities what the other person is going through.





















In USA compassion is used as an dangerous instrument of manipulation just as individual's non compassion state of mind.

The way it works is to compell individual into over work what consequently makes person less sensitive for others' problems(logically that person overloaded have to take care of her/him self first...then the rest of it..). This situations areeasely reached via extra work hours or assignments.

Afterwords individual is confronted with acting over sensitive audience(directed by psychologists) who claim person's incompasionate state of mind. At his home situation is also hectic due to his family members unable to obtain employment etc.

This situations create opposite poles allover the place and very soon person finds him/her self in a wonder country...asking how and why....

Second shock comes when compelling governmental unemployment therapy kicks in and person is now even blaiming him/herself...shame blame therapy....

This types of life sorroundings, environments, attitudes, work habits, overload and ultimatelly forcefull unemployment create high amplitudes in state of mental health in people who are afterwords ultimatelly brought on knees before church,s oltars, taking volunteral assignemnts with homeless, ending up in desperate situations suiciding/overeating/smoking pot/swollowing medicines suffering in depression etc.

All designed and created by US Gov . !

HAVE I LEFT SOMETHING OUT
grin

ps. I know I did, but what the heck...life is good !

Also...when people reach this state of stupifing new stage begins...that is the one in which person must be now stripped of compassion(it is circle which continues throughout life span of one driving people nuts).
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Sep 11, 2008 5:44 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
bushbun:
All designed and created by US Gov . !

HAVE I LEFT SOMETHING OUT


ps. I know I did, but what the heck...life is good !

Also...when people reach this state of stupifing new stage begins...that is the one in which person must be now stripped of compassion(it is circle which continues throughout life span of one driving people nuts).


Has anyone told you lately you're insane? confused doh
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Sep 11, 2008 5:45 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
spicey1: Does everyone on here think like you? lol
Seriously though great definition of compassion
No one else in the world thinks like him, why do you think we keep him around? grin
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Sep 11, 2008 5:48 PM CST What's your definition of compassion.
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Compassion is a deep awareness of and sympathys' of another
suffering.
The human quality of understand the suffering of others and
wanting to do something about it..

Deep awareness of the suffering of another, coupled with the wish
to releive it

Understanding without Judgement

The desire to help when a need is discovered

teddybear
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