I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing.... ( Archived) (100)

Sep 21, 2008 9:16 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
jbibiza: I went to therapy for it!!!! I´ve had more enlightenment into myself on this thread then in all the therapy I´ve had...

In reality I love my life... and I do have a lot of fun... I´ve pretty much come to terms with the fact that I may well spend the rest of my life single and I´m pretty ok with that... but then you have those nights at home and you think it would be great to cuddle up on the couch with someone for a movie... or something strikes you as really funny and you turn to share it with someone... and no one is there.

I just think sometimes.... it would be nice.... but life will be good, regardless! (I go to the beach for my sane moments)



Pretty much the same here, J.

the only thing I see slightly different is "Life will be good" but incomplete if I spend the rest of it single.

I take a walk and light up a bowl of Virginia tobacco for my sane moments hug
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Sep 21, 2008 9:16 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
jbibiza: I went to therapy for it!!!! I´ve had more enlightenment into myself on this thread then in all the therapy I´ve had...

In reality I love my life... and I do have a lot of fun... I´ve pretty much come to terms with the fact that I may well spend the rest of my life single and I´m pretty ok with that... but then you have those nights at home and you think it would be great to cuddle up on the couch with someone for a movie... or something strikes you as really funny and you turn to share it with someone... and no one is there.

I just think sometimes.... it would be nice.... but life will be good, regardless! (I go to the beach for my sane moments)



Pretty much the same here, J.

the only thing I see slightly different is "Life will be good" but incomplete if I spend the rest of it single.

I take a walk and light up a bowl of Virginia tobacco for my sane moments hug
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Sep 21, 2008 9:17 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jbibiza: I went to therapy for it!!!! I´ve had more enlightenment into myself on this thread then in all the therapy I´ve had...

In reality I love my life... and I do have a lot of fun... I´ve pretty much come to terms with the fact that I may well spend the rest of my life single and I´m pretty ok with that... but then you have those nights at home and you think it would be great to cuddle up on the couch with someone for a movie... or something strikes you as really funny and you turn to share it with someone... and no one is there.

I just think sometimes.... it would be nice.... but life will be good, regardless! (I go to the beach for my sane moments)


And our "THINKING" is the main cause of our problems...wink
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Sep 21, 2008 9:19 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
I would have absolutely no problem spending the rest of my life with ME, and I am never "alone"...grin
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Sep 21, 2008 9:53 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
ptcruiser
ptcruiserptcruiserSaint Peters, Missouri USA1 Threads 90 Posts
I am a risk taker, I have blissful moments and I know that I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone. I want to be with a love like I know I was intended to be with,,,, someday. Til then,, I came out of a bad marriage years ago and have learned over time to let them go and the fear has disapated. But,,, not being in a long relationship since then,,, do I know for sure if it is totally gone? NO. Only a relationship will tell I suppose.
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Sep 21, 2008 9:56 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
ptcruiser: I am a risk taker, I have blissful moments and I know that I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone. I want to be with a love like I know I was intended to be with,,,, someday. Til then,, I came out of a bad marriage years ago and have learned over time to let them go and the fear has disapated. But,,, not being in a long relationship since then,,, do I know for sure if it is totally gone? NO. Only a relationship will tell I suppose.


You are a very lovely lady, and you seem to have a kind tender heart, someone like you will not go un-noticed..hug
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Sep 21, 2008 10:00 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
ptcruiser
ptcruiserptcruiserSaint Peters, Missouri USA1 Threads 90 Posts
oh Daniel,,,
you make me want to map quest to you Tennesse right this moment,lol

you are sooooo sweet.
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Sep 21, 2008 10:02 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
ptcruiser: oh Daniel,,,
you make me want to map quest to you Tennesse right this moment,lol

you are sooooo sweet.


Gosh, thank youblushing
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Sep 21, 2008 10:04 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
ptcruiser
ptcruiserptcruiserSaint Peters, Missouri USA1 Threads 90 Posts
no,,,,, seriourly what is your address????




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 21, 2008 10:05 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
ptcruiser
ptcruiserptcruiserSaint Peters, Missouri USA1 Threads 90 Posts
seriously
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Sep 21, 2008 10:06 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
ptcruiser: no,,,,, seriourly what is your address????


Ahem, um well, hmmm, i'm all um choked up at the moment..blushing
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Sep 21, 2008 10:12 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
ptcruiser
ptcruiserptcruiserSaint Peters, Missouri USA1 Threads 90 Posts
breathe,,,,breathe daniel breathe heart beating
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Sep 21, 2008 10:13 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
ptcruiser: breathe,,,,breathe daniel breathe


whew.. breathing now.. all is good.. I think..innocent
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Sep 21, 2008 10:14 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
airliner: Pretty much the same here, J.

the only thing I see slightly different is "Life will be good" but incomplete if I spend the rest of it single.

I take a walk and light up a bowl of Virginia tobacco for my sane moments



...but that sure beats the hell out of spending it with the wrong person!!!!

Oh... not going to be able to meet you on my way to Hawaii in march... British Airways to NY and on to SF is 800 euros more then Lufthansa from Germany direct to SF... so as lovely as it would have been to meet you... can´t really justify the extra 800 euros...
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Sep 21, 2008 10:35 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Be careful what you ask for, you may get it............grin
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Sep 21, 2008 10:37 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Was there not a quote that went something like, "there is a fool born every moment"?confused
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Sep 21, 2008 11:03 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
HJFinAZ: The thing about taking the "risk", at times there are consequences for the risks we take. Are we willing to accept the consequences??



Oh Pat... don´t get me started on this... I´m as passionate about this as I was about the "baby selling thread"

I raised my daughter to make decisions in her life... and that there are consequences to those decisions.... I live in a place with very little interference with personal freedoms... but realize that I am responsible for my actions and the consequences of those actions.

One of my pet peeves about living in the USA... there is always someone else to blame or sue for the stupid things we as individuals choose to do...frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Sep 21, 2008 11:27 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
jbibiza: ...but that sure beats the hell out of spending it with the wrong person!!!!

Oh... not going to be able to meet you on my way to Hawaii in march... British Airways to NY and on to SF is 800 euros more then Lufthansa from Germany direct to SF... so as lovely as it would have been to meet you... can´t really justify the extra 800 euros...




exactly how much would have "justified" the stop-over honey? Maybe I can wire you the differencelaugh


Gosh...I hate to be put a price tag on. mumbling It reminds me of my STUD daysgrin
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Sep 21, 2008 12:01 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
airliner: exactly how much would have "justified" the stop-over honey? Maybe I can wire you the difference Gosh...I hate to be put a price tag on. It reminds me of my STUD days


Well now... that would all depend on what I had waiting at the stop over...laugh
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Sep 21, 2008 5:44 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jbibiza: Oh Pat... don´t get me started on this... I´m as passionate about this as I was about the "baby selling thread"

I raised my daughter to make decisions in her life... and that there are consequences to those decisions.... I live in a place with very little interference with personal freedoms... but realize that I am responsible for my actions and the consequences of those actions.

One of my pet peeves about living in the USA... there is always someone else to blame or sue for the stupid things we as individuals choose to do...


Oh, blaming others comes very naturally. Simply go back through very old posts and look at where the blame is.. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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