morgan5: sometimes that works for me, lately been feeling easier not to gert into the situation that cause's it in the first place ! not healthy i know
I'm one of those open books...so I can't hide it if I'm around people. It's just there whether I want it to be or not...so if I want to hide my pain, I hide me, just avoid people or go off on my own for a bit.
I can usually mask it pretty well with humour.. Even when something really bad has happened.. I am pretty good at shutting it away until I am on my own..
That and silence... for a big talker.. I'm and even bigger 'thinker'
I have noticed too.. that only the people that know me the best can see when I am faking, and sometimes no matter how hard I try to laugh it off and mask it.. they know. haha grrrr
In my marriage I learned very well HOW to hide it and let everyone think everything was fine.
Also, in my job.. I have to be a certain TYPE of person to do my job well.. so any upset I have, has to switch off immediately I walk throo the door.. and I CAN do that.. even if inside my heart is breaking and I swear I can barely breathe.. haha
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
riyablossom: hmm .. i cant share if its something very major .. i usually keep to myself and share with very close select 1 or 2 but even then cant say it all...
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hahah..
Hellooo GB