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natzzBurnaby, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 65 PostsI have a problem with people cutting me out of their life after a week or so of knowing me. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong because I can't get a hold of them to even ask them. I've tried asking a few people what my flaws are but I suppose they don't want to hurt my feelings. I genuinely want to know what I am doing wrong. I am friendly and respectful to people so I don't know how I am offending people. I would say that 99% of the people I meet cut me out of their life after getting to know me. I wouldn't be so concerned about this if it was a lower percentage. Does anyone else have this problem? How do I find out what I'm doing wrong if nobody will even tell me?
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That don't sound right, you meet them and a week later they don't want to know you..can you give an example. Nice to meet ya
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If you know your a good person don't look to change yourself.. I'm sure people here will help.
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They cut me out of their life once they get to know me. After a week or two of talking to me they just stop responding and ignore any email or call from me. This happens with new friendships and most of the time with dating as well.
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I'd tell ya, but I gotta run. 
(awww. Just kidding)
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natzz: I have a problem with people cutting me out of their life after a week or so of knowing me. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong because I can't get a hold of them to even ask them. I've tried asking a few people what my flaws are but I suppose they don't want to hurt my feelings. I genuinely want to know what I am doing wrong. I am friendly and respectful to people so I don't know how I am offending people. I would say that 99% of the people I meet cut me out of their life after getting to know me. I wouldn't be so concerned about this if it was a lower percentage. Does anyone else have this problem? How do I find out what I'm doing wrong if nobody will even tell me?
Welcome to CS
Maybe it is the people you are meeting who have a problem....try meeting someone different than the one's you have already talked to. Good luck!!
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JimNastics: I'd tell ya, but I gotta run. (awww. Just kidding)
LOL!!
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mbcasey: Welcome to CS
Maybe it is the people you are meeting who have a problem....try meeting someone different than the one's you have already talked to. Good luck!!
Maybe it is the people you are meeting who have a problem....try meeting someone different than the one's you have already talked to. Good luck!!
thanks for the welcome! i try but this seems to happen every time.
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Is there something else consistent in the pattern ?
They leave after you say what ?
They leave after you say what ?
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OMG....I wish I could give my honest answer to this!!!
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JimNastics: I'd tell ya, but I gotta run. (awww. Just kidding)
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is it by any chance the other way around?
didn't I read your thread saying you want a strictly distant relationship?
didn't I read your thread saying you want a strictly distant relationship?
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natzz: thanks for the welcome! i try but this seems to happen every time.
Mastic is a nice guy...become friends with him and see what he thinks after a couple of weeks...
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shipoker58: OMG....I wish I could give my honest answer to this!!!
We're all ears
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Hi and welcome . We all connect with different kinds of people, maybe it's about them too don't beat yourself up sure you'll meet the right people may just take a bit of time 
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natzz: I have a problem with people cutting me out of their life after a week or so of knowing me. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong because I can't get a hold of them to even ask them. I've tried asking a few people what my flaws are but I suppose they don't want to hurt my feelings. I genuinely want to know what I am doing wrong. I am friendly and respectful to people so I don't know how I am offending people. I would say that 99% of the people I meet cut me out of their life after getting to know me. I wouldn't be so concerned about this if it was a lower percentage. Does anyone else have this problem? How do I find out what I'm doing wrong if nobody will even tell me?
Hi Natzz!!
Darilin, your so damn young don't worry about it. You can't force any kind of a relationship. Just post on the forums and enjoy the really nice people her. Lots of people here have been hurt big time and have real trust issues. Just go with the flow and be REAL. Makes a huge difference in the long run which is what you want. Have patience, darlin, and you'll meet the right guy!
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waiting4u: We're all ears
Can't....I'd be kicked off again!!
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airliner: is it by any chance the other way around?
didn't I read your thread saying you want a strictly distant relationship?
didn't I read your thread saying you want a strictly distant relationship?
i do want a long distance relationship but i'm talking about friendship here. it does happen with dating too though.
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