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Oct 1, 2008 1:11 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
samialabaa
samialabaasamialabaabielefeld, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany4 Threads 15 Posts
Hi Everybody,

I have joined “Connecting Singles” just today. Actually I’m new in the world of dating on-line. I have never tried it before. But I thought try it. Still, I’m not sure if this site is serious or is simply a hoax, i.e. gimmicks.

I checked some profiles and emailed their owners. But I have not received yet any reply. If I do not get any reply, i.e. none is interested in writing to me, then it is one of two things. Either I’m not interesting enough, or the whole thing is gimmicks.

The reason I’m looking for a girl-friend over the Internet is that my relationship with my wife has gone sour. And in Bielefeld, a kind of province, it is extremely difficult to get to know people.

What do you think?
Sami
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Oct 1, 2008 1:16 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA78 Threads 7 Polls 21,350 Posts
Welcome..wave

There have been many matches and even some marriages from here. Just keep e-mailing and post to the forums.

Good luck to you....handshake
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Oct 1, 2008 1:18 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
samialabaa: Hi Everybody,

I have joined “Connecting Singles” just today. Actually I’m new in the world of dating on-line. I have never tried it before. But I thought try it. Still, I’m not sure if this site is serious or is simply a hoax, i.e. gimmicks.

I checked some profiles and emailed their owners. But I have not received yet any reply. If I do not get any reply, i.e. none is interested in writing to me, then it is one of two things. Either I’m not interesting enough, or the whole thing is gimmicks.

The reason I’m looking for a girl-friend over the Internet is that my relationship with my wife has gone sour. And in Bielefeld, a kind of province, it is extremely difficult to get to know people.

What do you think?
Sami
You really should wait until you are out of that marriage first. Yes this place is real , I have met several here. And many have dated and found the love of their lives here.

You may not be getting responses cause you are still married.
Welcome to cs!wave
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Oct 1, 2008 1:25 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
Put up a picture also. Nobody likes to talk to a ghost.

Also, women esp the good looking ones get lots of mail (I should have their problem) so it may take time for them to get around to you. Yeah, and being married no matter how you color it will turn off a lot of prospective dates quicker than you can say Guten tag.
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Oct 1, 2008 1:33 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
samialabaa
samialabaasamialabaabielefeld, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany4 Threads 15 Posts
Hi there,

On your advice I have just re-posted my horrible picture. Maybe you're right. I don't want to talk to a ghost either.
Sami
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Oct 1, 2008 1:35 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
RAYSALAF
RAYSALAFRAYSALAFCAZOULS LES BEZIERS, Occitanie France334 Posts
Hi Sami,
Must admit that I'm a newcomer myself, but I'm already truly impressed with this site. Lots of people don't write back to me but that's probably because I'm a lunatic, and not everybody shares my "sense of humour"?. However, everyone I've "met" so far have turned out to be genuine, good-hearted people so don't give up.

You should also look at the blogs and join the forums because you will meet some great and crazy people that way while you're waiting to find someone special. I doubt if anything's going to happen over five minutes because real people need a little time to get to know you and visa-versa. It's great to have sites like this when one lives in remote places, but like anything else you will have to give it time:- Why not just enjoy yourself and see where it goes. (I'm sure a'photo would help because if you're serious, most women need to know a little more....for better or for worse!)
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Oct 1, 2008 1:38 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 165 Posts
mylifewithu: You really should wait until you are out of that marriage first. Yes this place is real , I have met several here. And many have dated and found the love of their lives here.

You may not be getting responses cause you are still married.
Welcome to cs!


... dunno I guess in my case the distance is going to play a VERY BIG ROLE...dunno ?????

I still believe that if I am interested enough in someone distance has nothing to do with it...

Am I right or am I right????dunno
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Oct 1, 2008 1:40 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
RAYSALAF
RAYSALAFRAYSALAFCAZOULS LES BEZIERS, Occitanie France334 Posts
sorry about the 'photo part. Either the image changed or you read my mind while I was writing......so weird this site!
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Oct 1, 2008 1:42 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
Ray33: ... I guess in my case the distance is going to play a VERY BIG ROLE... ?????

I still believe that if I am interested enough in someone distance has nothing to do with it...

Am I right or am I right????
I believe distance does make a difference for some, many have found the right one in other countrys and it worked out.
But my long distance ones haven't, partially cause I am not willing to move to far from where I am at now.wine
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Oct 1, 2008 1:44 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 165 Posts
mylifewithu: I believe distance does make a difference for some, many have found the right one in other countrys and it worked out.
But my long distance ones haven't, partially cause I am not willing to move to far from where I am at now.


Totally understandable...but I mena the counterpart...was he not willing to relocate neither? You might of set your mind only on a visit or vacation and he maybe too...but someway along the line....being a man and if I really love the woman...I wouldn't even hesitate on moving to go and live with my hunnybun....conversing
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Oct 1, 2008 1:49 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
samialabaa: Hi Everybody,

I have joined “Connecting Singles” just today. Actually I’m new in the world of dating on-line. I have never tried it before. But I thought try it. Still, I’m not sure if this site is serious or is simply a hoax, i.e. gimmicks.

I checked some profiles and emailed their owners. But I have not received yet any reply. If I do not get any reply, i.e. none is interested in writing to me, then it is one of two things. Either I’m not interesting enough, or the whole thing is gimmicks.

The reason I’m looking for a girl-friend over the Internet is that my relationship with my wife has gone sour. And in Bielefeld, a kind of province, it is extremely difficult to get to know people.

What do you think?
Sami


Things take time....and don't expect much.
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Oct 1, 2008 1:50 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
samialabaa
samialabaasamialabaabielefeld, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany4 Threads 15 Posts
I don’t know guys how you feel about it. Many of us humans have got almost everything for decent living. Materially I have got all ingredients for good living. Yet I’m unhappy. I know many people. I have many fiends, some of them are women, but none of them is fit as a girl friend or wife. There is a huge gap in my life. Very often I feel lonely also when I’m with my friends. Somebody is missing, a real female partner. Well, life can never be perfect. Pity.
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Oct 1, 2008 1:53 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
Ray33: Totally understandable...but I mena the counterpart...was he not willing to relocate neither? You might of set your mind only on a visit or vacation and he maybe too...but someway along the line....being a man and if I really love the woman...I wouldn't even hesitate on moving to go and live with my hunnybun....
I believe that too, but sometimes at our age, if we have a paid for home and a great job, then that one won't want to move.
And If the other one isn't willing to move either for important reasons then it just won't work. But the chances are still good at finding the right combination that works, such as one living closer, just takes awhile.wine
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Oct 1, 2008 1:53 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
howboutu
howboutuhowboutuDecatur, Alabama USA3 Threads 1,054 Posts
samialabaa: I don’t know guys how you feel about it. Many of us humans have got almost everything for decent living. Materially I have got all ingredients for good living. Yet I’m unhappy. I know many people. I have many fiends, some of them are women, but none of them is fit as a girl friend or wife. There is a huge gap in my life. Very often I feel lonely also when I’m with my friends. Somebody is missing, a real female partner. Well, life can never be perfect. Pity.



Kepp your chin up! cswelcome You will find the one that fills the gaps!
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Oct 1, 2008 1:54 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
samialabaa
samialabaasamialabaabielefeld, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany4 Threads 15 Posts
Hi Raysalf and Ray 33,

Thanks for your replies. You have really made me more confident. You’re right getting to know the right partner takes sometime. One must be patient.
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Oct 1, 2008 1:55 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 165 Posts
samialabaa: I don’t know guys how you feel about it. Many of us humans have got almost everything for decent living. Materially I have got all ingredients for good living. Yet I’m unhappy. I know many people. I have many fiends, some of them are women, but none of them is fit as a girl friend or wife. There is a huge gap in my life. Very often I feel lonely also when I’m with my friends. Somebody is missing, a real female partner. Well, life can never be perfect. Pity.



Story is >>> material stuff dont make happy...its just periodaical...when u just buy or get something new you are mostly happy...but tomorrow or sometime the same day you dont even see it standing....love, affection and understanding are not things we see with our eyes...you cant feel them and that makes it worth having these things farmost first in life...knowing u can be a happy soul than just the material things...such is life my friend...we cant change it...just try to make the best out of it... <<<<dunno
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Oct 1, 2008 1:58 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 165 Posts
samialabaa: Hi Raysalf and Ray 33,

Thanks for your replies. You have really made me more confident. You’re right getting to know the right partner takes sometime. One must be patient.


If I am not mistaken we are all on the same journey my friend....lol
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Oct 1, 2008 2:00 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA201 Threads 21 Polls 13,583 Posts
I think its pretty real .. it happens for some and for some it doesnt.

But you got to try, be realistic and patient ..

wave
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Oct 1, 2008 2:00 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia16 Threads 2 Polls 704 Posts
Keeping one more option opened to find your match..that's how I see the CS dunno
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Oct 1, 2008 2:01 PM CST Is Connecting Singles a serious site?
RAYSALAF
RAYSALAFRAYSALAFCAZOULS LES BEZIERS, Occitanie France334 Posts
Ray33: If I am not mistaken we are all on the same journey my friend....lol
Can't give you an argument with that my friendthumbs up
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