Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls??????? ( Archived) (232)

Oct 31, 2008 8:18 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: Yes i'm actually busy with research for the university comparing the two and the results are staggering...men's brains are 20% more developed than woman.



I have always been an advocate of this sort of research...

Men's brains are bigger than women's, this I know...

More developed in what way?
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Oct 31, 2008 8:19 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
X_REBEL: Take note all woman over 40...living proof!!!


that is her choice...

i dont agree at all

maybe if she had a daughter..and this happed to her..

she may or may not like it then...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:19 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Sommerauer71: I respect your opinion.

It was the only which was my point...

And you missed that completely.

How would you feel, if I said to you 'you are only a kid, therefore I do not think your opinion is worth anything?'

That is a bit like Rebel saying that all 40 year old women would 'enge' with an 18 year old.


I am talking specifically about teenagers, dating older men/women. This isn't about me, a 26 year old. Don't make it about me, because it's not. You know what, i don't even want to talk about me.
I don't care what anyone thinks about me, or who i date.


I care about the children, those who have not had a chance to form some sort of direction in their lives, those who have no idea what being independent is all about, and those who have not been given a chance to see, learn, and evaluate situations around them as 'adults', in order to bulid their own foundation in this world, for themselves. First things first!


You lost me, but i hope i'm more clear now.
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Oct 31, 2008 8:20 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Sommerauer71: Oh I so love it when a man tells us how to think...

The living proof from this young ladies statement, is this.

One size does not fit all...
thumbs up
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Oct 31, 2008 8:20 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
DizzyDi
DizzyDiDizzyDiLancashire, England UK26 Threads 1 Polls 1,761 Posts
X_REBEL: Take note all woman over 40...living proof!!!


I am over 40 and I am living proof it is possible, at those tender years

to love (and marry) an older man (children to prove that everything in working order)

I am not a judge, more of Been there, done that, read the book, seen the video and wear the T shirt banana banana
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Oct 31, 2008 8:24 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Jewel7: Life experience....think about it...experience in life...whatever way 1 says it it comes back to same..
It cannot be present in an 18 year old as they havnt been on the planet long enough to gain it..
I accept that life circumstances can make it seem a person of that age is more mature but deep down they are usually not,its a front to seem more grown up..they can talk the talk but theres no foundation supporting it ie; age


Generally yes older=more life experience...keyword i used "perhaps"...meaning that there are exceptions out there...and yes i have met such people personally...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:25 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
lusciousmile: I am talking specifically about teenagers, dating older men/women. This isn't about me , a 26 year old. Don't make it about me , because it's not. You know what, i don't even want to talk about me .
I don't care what anyone thinks about me, or who i date.I care about the children, those who have not had a chance to form some sort of direction in their lives, those who have no idea what being independent is all about, and those who have not been given a chance to see, learn, and evaluate situations around them as 'adults', in order to bulid their own foundation in this world, for themselves. First things first!You lost me, but i hope i'm more clear now.



Luscious, darling, I am not making it about you, I am simply debating, I picked up on a comment, you are making it about you...

And I am with you, on caring about the children, I have many under my care and supervision... So I understand that, I deal with all their relationship issues, along with their education, so this is a subject that fascinates me.

I guide and form (I like that word, thank you) direction, it is my job and I care...

So if one of my 18 year old students or even my own daughter came to me and was engaing with a man say is his 30's I would not dismiss it purely as him being too old...

There are many 30 something old men that would be great partners, for some 18 year old girls, and there are some 18 year old girls that could put me to shame with knowledge and intelligence, I learn from them.

None of this was about you, it was a discussion and a question. That is all.

And yes, you have made yourself clear, as I always do.
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Oct 31, 2008 8:28 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: I respect your opinion.

It was the only which was my point...

And you missed that completely.

How would you feel, if I said to you 'you are only a kid, therefore I do not think your opinion is worth anything?'

That is a bit like Rebel saying that all 40 year old women would 'enge' with an 18 year old.


hey don't drag me into your "mess"...laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 8:31 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: hey don't drag me into your "mess"...



Oh I am a very tidy person, Rebel, anybody who is not devoid of any intelligence, would recognise that.

Especially men, whose brains, are 20 more developed that women's...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:33 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: Oh I so love it when a man tells us how to think...

The living proof from this young ladies statement, is this.

One size does not fit all...


...and your point is?
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Oct 31, 2008 8:33 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
X_REBEL: Yes i'm actually busy with research for the university comparing the two and the results are staggering...men's brains are 20% more developed than woman.


rolling on the floor laughing

confused
"In a study published in The Lancet medical journal, Witelson and her
colleagues compared the dimensions of Einstein's brain to those of 35 men and 50 women from a collection of brains at McMaster University.

With the men's brains, they conducted two separate comparisons S first
between Einstein's brain and all the men, and next between his brain and those of the eight men who were similar in age to Einstein when they died.

They found that, overall, Einstein's brain was the same weight and had the same measurements from front to back as all the other men. This confirms the present belief of many scientists that overall brain size is not an indicator of intelligence."

One of many..... comfort

wave
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Oct 31, 2008 8:38 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: ...and your point is?



You work it out, you come across as a smart man...

But if you need a helping hand, I will oblige.

That everybody is not the same and all 40 year old women would not want an 18 year old, as all men do not want an 18 year old.

There, that was not hard was it, for your 20% more developed brain...

My last partner was 11 years older than me..

So when he was 16 I was 5.

But as an adult it was acceptable, it is hard to blanket this subject with a yes or no view and criticise a person who chooses age...

I choose not to be with an 18 year old, because of the reasons I discussed, whether I want to or not is not the issue, it means that I would not...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:38 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: Oh I am a very tidy person, Rebel, anybody who is not devoid of any intelligence, would recognise that.

Especially men, whose brains, are 20 more developed that women's...


seeing that you acknowledge my "research" then...i can always lend you my 20% for a debate... laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 8:38 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
Jewel7: Im reading a profile & i liking it when i look at the age group the man is looking for 18 to 50 & this guy is 47 i feel uncomfortable when i see that specially when these guys have daughters of that age..
Lifestages are completely out of sync with such a huge age gap,what u think?



18 is a bit young but then again i cant really comment
i was with a man who was 40 while i was only 20
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Oct 31, 2008 8:39 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: seeing that you acknowledge my "research" then...i can always lend you my 20% for a debate...



Kind of you Sir, however, I can live without your 20%, I would not like to inform women, of how they think...

wink
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Oct 31, 2008 8:40 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
laura225: "In a study published in The Lancet medical journal, Witelson and her
colleagues compared the dimensions of Einstein's brain to those of 35 men and 50 women from a collection of brains at McMaster University.

With the men's brains, they conducted two separate comparisons S first
between Einstein's brain and all the men, and next between his brain and those of the eight men who were similar in age to Einstein when they died.

They found that, overall, Einstein's brain was the same weight and had the same measurements from front to back as all the other men. This confirms the present belief of many scientists that overall brain size is not an indicator of intelligence ."

One of many.....


Sadly your missing the whole point...ever heard of the saying:"Size doesn't matter?"wink
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Oct 31, 2008 8:41 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: Kind of you Sir, however, I can live without your 20%, I would not like to inform women, of how they think...


what a miserable life for you then...laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 8:41 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Sommerauer71: Luscious, darling, I am not making it about you, I am simply debating, I picked up on a comment, you are making it about you...

And I am with you, on caring about the children, I have many under my care and supervision... So I understand that, I deal with all their relationship issues, along with their education, so this is a subject that fascinates me.

I guide and form (I like that word, thank you) direction, it is my job and I care...

So if one of my 18 year old students or even my own daughter came to me and was engaing with a man say is his 30's I would not dismiss it purely as him being too old...

There are many 30 something old men that would be great partners, for some 18 year old girls, and there are some 18 year old girls that could put me to shame with knowledge and intelligence, I learn from them.

None of this was about you, it was a discussion and a question. That is all.

And yes, you have made yourself clear, as I always do.



A mature 18 year old who possesses a sense of independence, but with no real experience to accompany it , dating a much older adult, would create an unfair situation of being faced with the risk of having their ideas and dreams overpowered by this adult, who in sense and experience, overrides the potential in this young 'adult'.

Perhaps they would be best discovering and exploring, with someone in the same capacities as themselves. This creates balance, eliminating the risk of being bewildered.



Glad i was clearer.
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Oct 31, 2008 8:45 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: You work it out, you come across as a smart man...

But if you need a helping hand, I will oblige.

That everybody is not the same and all 40 year old women would not want an 18 year old, as all men do not want an 18 year old.

There, that was not hard was it, for your 20% more developed brain...

My last partner was 11 years older than me..

So when he was 16 I was 5.

But as an adult it was acceptable, it is hard to blanket this subject with a yes or no view and criticise a person who chooses age...

I choose not to be with an 18 year old, because of the reasons I discussed, whether I want to or not is not the issue, it means that I would not...


I'm merely stating that these things(thread topic) happens in real life of course and one might change your viewpoint on how you feel later...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:47 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
lusciousmile: A mature 18 year old who possesses a sense of independence, but with no real experience to accompany it , dating a much older adult, would create an unfair situation of being faced with the risk of having their ideas and dreams overpowered by this adult, who in sense and experience, overrides the potential in this young 'adult'.

Perhaps they would be best discovering and exploring, with someone in the same capacities as themselves. This creates balance, eliminating the risk of being bewildered.
Glad i was clearer.


Then again if things don't work out for her with an older man....just think a all the "life experience" she would have gathered...wink
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