Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls??????? ( Archived) (232)

Oct 31, 2008 8:50 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
lusciousmile: A mature 18 year old who possesses a sense of independence, but with no real experience to accompany it , dating a much older adult, would create an unfair situation of being faced with the risk of having their ideas and dreams overpowered by this adult, who in sense and experience, overrides the potential in this young 'adult'.

Perhaps they would be best discovering and exploring, with someone in the same capacities as themselves. This creates balance, eliminating the risk of being bewildered.
Glad i was clearer.



I agree.

And we can only guide them into enabling them that that may well be the case.

That is why I prefer to remain within my own age range, same level of emotional intelligence, and we learn together.

But you have articulated that brilliantly and it is what I am all about. Helping them to understand that they can make choices on their own, not just be told 'you are a kid, what do you know'

If an 18 year old girl enters a relationship with a man say 20 years older than her, say my daughter, then I would be assisting her to realise what her capabilities are and to be bring her to be able to make her own decsions, so that if the man 20 years her senior was to behave in the manner you describe, then she would not be overidden.

But then if she was say 28 and dating a man of 48, I would hope that those extra on her, would have enabled her to be her own person.

Come back to an interesting debate... And I must dash, speaking of 18 year olds, I have 40 of them dressed up for halloween and I want to go and take pictures and see them in all their finery... I am so excited, I am like a 10 year old today...



wine
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Oct 31, 2008 8:54 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
X_REBEL: Then again if things don't work out for her with an older man....just think a all the "life experience" she would have gathered...


The 30 year old in this hypothesis, is not one i gather holds a need to teach this young adult. He seeks to satisfy only himself, and was led to this young bird, by corrupt instincts and intrusive urges, which could mean he carries more harm than proper marvel.

He doesn't create a good spread.


But that's just the 30yr old in my scenario. Then there's yours....he could be the saviour this young adult 'seeks'.


wine
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Oct 31, 2008 8:57 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: I agree.

And we can only guide them into enabling them that that may well be the case.

That is why I prefer to remain within my own age range, same level of emotional intelligence, and we learn together.

But you have articulated that brilliantly and it is what I am all about. Helping them to understand that they can make choices on their own, not just be told 'you are a kid, what do you know'

If an 18 year old girl enters a relationship with a man say 20 years older than her, say my daughter, then I would be assisting her to realise what her capabilities are and to be bring her to be able to make her own decsions, so that if the man 20 years her senior was to behave in the manner you describe, then she would not be overidden.

But then if she was say 28 and dating a man of 48, I would hope that those extra on her, would have enabled her to be her own person.

Come back to an interesting debate... And I must dash, speaking of 18 year olds, I have 40 of them dressed up for halloween and I want to go and take pictures and see them in all their finery... I am so excited, I am like a 10 year old today...


so you do like 18 year old "boys" then...rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 31, 2008 8:58 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: what a miserable life for you then...



You overestimate my interest in whether you think my life is miserable...

But if it makes you feel better to think that way, then it is...
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Oct 31, 2008 8:59 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
X_REBEL: As long if she's mentally and emotionally mature i don't see problems with that...btw. what 40 year old woman wouldn't love to have a 18 year old stud?


Ohhhhhhhhh........... couldn't argue with that logic ! laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 9:00 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: so you do like 18 year old "boys" then...



I love them, their vibrancy, excitement, zest for life, I feel excited for them, as they dress for their evening out, as I do for the 18 year old girls who are under my supervision...

They are part of my life, like my own children. I enjoy seeing them have fun and dress up looking gorgeous...

Who wouldn't? Young people are special... I enjoy them very much.
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Oct 31, 2008 9:01 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
lusciousmile: The 30 year old in this hypothesis, is not one i gather holds a need to teach this young adult. He seeks to satisfy only himself, and was led to this young bird, by corrupt instincts and intrusive urges, which could mean he carries more harm than proper marvel.

He doesn't create a good spread.But that's just the 30yr old in my scenario. Then there's yours....he could be the saviour this young adult 'seeks'.


Congratulations...you are the first woman on cs thinking ahead as to what my response would have been...keep it up...but now i am worried confused
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Oct 31, 2008 9:02 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: Congratulations...you are the first woman on cs thinking ahead as to what my response would have been...keep it up...but now i am worried

You should be, she is a smart chick, our Luscious...
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Oct 31, 2008 9:03 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: I love them, their vibrancy, excitement, zest for life, I feel excited for them, as they dress for their evening out, as I do for the 18 year old girls who are under my supervision...

They are part of my life, like my own children. I enjoy seeing them have fun and dress up looking gorgeous...

Who wouldn't? Young people are special... I enjoy them very much.


See i told you you gonna need that 20% to express yourself "better" and more clearly in future...rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 31, 2008 9:04 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
And Luscious?

Can one be damned with finer praise, than having the knowledge that you are the only women ahead of Rebel?

You should be honoured and drop at his knees...

rolling on the floor laughing


I am jealous. The man is a legend.
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Oct 31, 2008 9:05 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: See i told you you gonna need that 20% to express yourself "better" and more clearly in future...


You did and I turned you down...

You are kind though.
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Oct 31, 2008 9:06 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: You overestimate my interest in whether you think my life is miserable...

But if it makes you feel better to think that way, then it is...


...you succumbed to the pressure then wink
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Oct 31, 2008 9:07 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: ...you succumbed to the pressure then



If you say so darling, if you say so.
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Oct 31, 2008 9:07 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
X_REBEL: Congratulations...you are the first woman on cs thinking ahead as to what my response would have been...keep it up...but now i am worried


Don't even try to pull me into an empty argument with you. I defined my scenario, and described the meaning of yours, as i understood it. It can't be prediction if the base was fully covered before hand.

Try elaboration, because 'charm' doesn't work well in serious debates.


If worrying helps, by all means, do it.
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Oct 31, 2008 9:10 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Sommerauer71: And Luscious?

Can one be damned with finer praise, than having the knowledge that you are the only women ahead of Rebel?

You should be honoured and drop at his knees...

I am jealous. The man is a legend.



I felt sarcasm. uh oh confused


laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 9:10 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: And Luscious?

Can one be damned with finer praise, than having the knowledge that you are the only women ahead of Rebel?

You should be honoured and drop at his knees...

I am jealous. The man is a legend.


hey who said anything about a woman ahead of me??? I was merely stating that she "read" my mind as to what i was to say...so for that moment we were perhaps equal...thats all...professor handshake
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Oct 31, 2008 9:11 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: If you say so darling, if you say so.


Then it's official: totally, totally...wave
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Oct 31, 2008 9:13 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
lusciousmile: Don't even try to pull me into an empty argument with you. I defined my scenario, and described the meaning of yours, as i understood it. It can't be prediction if the base was fully covered before hand.

Try elaboration, because 'charm' doesn't work well in serious debates.If worrying helps, by all means, do it.


My oh my...but you are a very serious woman...drinking
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Oct 31, 2008 9:16 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
MY thoughts are,

I call that "eye candy" ...sadly I'm a diabetic but looking at a beautiful woman should never be a crime or labeled.

its a social conditioning thing, look at any magazine rack. beautiful young women on advertisements to promote hemorrhoid medication.

No ladies its wrong of you to belittle a man because he looks.conversing
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Oct 31, 2008 9:16 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
coolieno1
coolieno1coolieno1point fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago96 Threads 546 Posts
leaving someone your own age for an 18 year old girl and calling that better meant but them same men want to kill you when you go with their daughters.
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